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On a scale of one to 10, with one being “completely straight” and 10 being “completely gay,” what number are you?

The answer might seem obvious to some. “I’m a one, absolutely!” “I’m a 10, of course!” But “Between the Shades,” a documentary released Tuesday on iTunes, suggests that human sexuality is far more nuanced than labels or even a linear scale can capture.

Jill Salvino, the film’s director, created the documentary from more than 50 interviews with people representing a variety of sexual orientations, ages and races. The film includes parents and their adult children, singles and couples, and people who identify as gay, straight, lesbian, trans, intersex, queer and gender nonbinary.

Among those in the film who were asked the question, “How gay are you?” nobody answered one or 10. Most fell somewhere in between, although one person ignored the scale entirely.

“The film is about love, at the end of the day,” said Ms. Salvino, an Emmy-winning filmmaker who lives in New York. “It’s about what labels a life. It’s about how we think of ourselves, what we call ourselves, what other people call us and where we feel comfortable.”

Since watching the film, I’ve asked the question “How gay are you?” or “How straight are you?” to many of my friends, starting some interesting dinner conversations. But it’s a conversation that feels right for the times in which we live.

https://www.nytimes.com/2019/04/23/well/live/how-gay-are-you.html

 

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Oh geez, I’m a big swishy poof. I’m as gay as Liberace’s sequined platform boots.  Lol! 

Actually, I find these categories limiting and annoying. There is nothing obviously “gay” about me, yet I love sucking ladyboy cock and getting fucked in the ass by ladyboys. I have also found that over the years, as I have become more accepting of my proclivities, that I also like cute, and feminine Asian boys. 

Of course, I am also attracted to females. Though, honestly, I prefer ladyboys/femboys. 

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Damn, that’s really a hard one to answer. When I first ventured into the lady boy world, I considered myself 110% straight, and remember wondering why all of you guys talked about watching shemale porn, I just couldn’t get into it. Now, I would say that a good 60 to 70% of the porn I watch is trans with even a bit of gay porn in the mix. 

I guess I’d still rate myself about 75% straight, although it’s a pretty crooked sort of straight if you know what I mean.

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20 hours ago, strocube said:

I also like cute, and feminine Asian boys. 

I like them too maybe they are forbidden fruit and also because they are rare IMO as it is maybe only one out of a hundred like that.  Mincers who could be pretty ladyboys if they wanted to go that route.   I guess the Thais think these mincers are ladyboys.

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37 minutes ago, Pdoggg said:

I like them too maybe they are forbidden fruit and also because they are rare IMO as it is maybe only one out of a hundred like that.

Indeed, the transgressive element is major turn on for me as well with all this ladyboy business. It feels naughty and sexy in just the right way-so hot. 

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I'm straight. End of! I'm thoroughly turned off by all the trappings of masculinity ... except a cock :confused0089: but body or facial hair, beer bellies, male pattern baldness, big biceps, strong forearms, etc, etc, make my cock recoil in disgust. Also, if one has the desire to have one's rectum pumped full of spunk like a cream doughnut, then ...well ...difficult to square that with heterosexual behaviour.  But when it's a sexy young ladyboy doing the pumping ... well ... not guilty m'lord.

 

None of us are gay. There are proper gay websites for that kind of thing ... so I've been told :unsure:

 

 

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12 hours ago, redrockrevival said:

I'm straight. End of! I'm thoroughly turned off by all the trappings of masculinity ... except a cock :confused0089: but body or facial hair, beer bellies, male pattern baldness, big biceps, strong forearms, etc, etc, make my cock recoil in disgust. Also, if one has the desire to have one's rectum pumped full of spunk like a cream doughnut, then ...well ...difficult to square that with heterosexual behaviour.  But when it's a sexy young ladyboy doing the pumping ... well ... not guilty m'lord.

 

None of us are gay. There are proper gay websites for that kind of thing ... so I've been told :unsure:

 

 

What a brilliant answer to the gay question. I agree. None of us are gay. But as you said "... well ...". Definitely not guilty! (in my mind anyway).

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I was not sure where to post this, but I figure since this thread has a gay theme . . .

So, I recently put up my profile on Grindr, again. Have been off the damn thing for years.  In case you din’t know, Grindr is a “gay” hookup site. Beside the usual gay males, they also have T-girls, femboys, CDs, and fem twinks on there, which are the types I am looking for. I actually managed to get laid by Filipino ladyboy that I met on there a couple of years ago. 

Anyway, even though I stated my preferences very clearly in my profile, I still get regular gay dudes contacting me from there. I find this most annoying. I guess it’s what I gotta put up with till I can find what I am looking for.

Wondering if any of you guys know of any good hookup apps where you can meet “some of ours” here in the US. 

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Guess I’m not such a huge fag after all. Pulled the plug on that stupid Grindr profile, and I have a date with an actual female this weekend. I feel so butch! 

Though, I may try Grindr the next time I visit Thailand. 

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When I want a real gg I think of Pic 1:man_in_love:

........

When I want a boy I think of Pic 2 :winking0023:

Fortunately I have had the pleasure of the latter a few times :spiteful:

So how 'gay' am I ? :biggrin:

 

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I must admit I felt a little uneasy

When she bent down to tie the laces of my shoe

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4 hours ago, duke007 said:

When I want a real gg I think of Pic 1:man_in_love:

........

When I want a boy I think of Pic 2 :winking0023:

Fortunately I have had the pleasure of the latter a few times :spiteful:

So how 'gay' am I ? :biggrin:

 

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I was always shit at Countdown. No wonder. Fucking distractions like that, and Carl Vord back in her prime. Always with the short skirts too.

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