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Beijo and a couple other guys suggested a sub=forum for Newcomers.

So this is a place where guys can get the most basic questions answered and also a place where Newcomers can introduce themselves. Some Newcomers to our Forum might be guys with extensive experience in the ladyboy world while others might be brand new to the entire scene.

Let's see how this works out.

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When you click on View New Content you "might" not see the posts from this sub forum.

IF that's the case then go to My Settings and change the way new content is displayed. Then change it back to the way it was before. Seems the system might need a jump start.

EDIT: This may not work.

Not sure what is going on, you may have to click on this subforum directly if it doesn't appear under View New Content. Spent way too much time on this issue already.

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Hi all,

I just wanted to say hi as I am new to this forum and since the tone of this forum seems very welcoming, with the other members being very helpful and civil. I get the feeling this forum is rather new but it is off to a good start and seems to be a nice sized community of friendly folk. I just spend the last couple of days reading up - I thought I knew a little about the scene but unlike many here I am not living it so it is always great to get first hand experiences and up to the minute reporting from the ground.

I'm not a complete newbie, would say intermediate experienced - have been to LOS about a decade ago, although at that time I was still a teenager so much too timid to dip my toes in the water.The closest I got was when one caught me looking to her as we walked down the road and she rushed over to grab my pants - embarrassed (travelling with some other buddies) I had to push her away and act like I didn't enjoy her sexual advances! Well at that time I probably wasn't aware of just how much I would later become infatuated with these lovely angels.

The curiousity never left me and eventually I found myself being increasingly drawn to LB porn sites (that were in their infancy at the time). Nearly a decade on and the amount out there is mindboggling - it seems the rest of the world's interest has picked up on this as my own has. It always amazes me that you guys can find the girls you've seen on the net! That must be like seeing a famous Hollywood celeb, not only that, but knowing you have a very good chance of going to bed with them!

Anyway after many years of being stuck in my country and having only the sites on the net to fantasize about (a few experience's in my own country -(over priced&ugly!) I am now in the position where I can go to LOS soon, to what now seems like the Holy Grail or Mecca!

I have got a few LB "friends" from the net that I want to visit (not sure who first, or who exclusive, because they all want that title!) and then I would ofcourse like to go to the bar scene too. But I can't have my cake and eat it too. But having read the warning about pre-arranged meetings I am getting a bit concerned because I have to respect the advice given on this forum by some senior members. Although I am looking for a LB for a relationship, I am also conscious that it could turn to shit on the first day - then I guess I would have no option than to go check out the bars - not too bad either, I guess ;) But I would love to share that time with other enthusiasts (around my own age would be cool) so will be following things on this forum and hope to know a bit more about you other guys and we can hopefully have some fun with the LBs. I wouldn't say wingman as I don't believe it's necessary, but sharing your passion with other likeminded people usually results in a better outcome than if I am to wander around aimlessly.

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Hi all,

I just wanted to say hi as I am new to this forum and since the tone of this forum seems very welcoming, with the other members being very helpful and civil. I get the feeling this forum is rather new but it is off to a good start and seems to be a nice sized community of friendly folk. I just spend the last couple of days reading up - I thought I knew a little about the scene but unlike many here I am not living it so it is always great to get first hand experiences and up to the minute reporting from the ground.

Welcome BMXER. I think that your instincts are correct - this is a very welcoming bunch. Yes the forum is somewhat new, but there are an awful lot of experienced folk who are immersed in the scene and who have been around for as long as those on any of the other forums. IMHO, the up to the minute reporting from the ground is unique to this forum.

That must be like seeing a famous Hollywood celeb

Actually, I find it much more rewarding than Hollywood celebrity sightings :)

I have got a few LB "friends" from the net that I want to visit (not sure who first, or who exclusive, because they all want that title!) and then I would ofcourse like to go to the bar scene too. But I can't have my cake and eat it too. But having read the warning about pre-arranged meetings I am getting a bit concerned because I have to respect the advice given on this forum by some senior members.

You will often hear it said...."Don't plan too much". Just get here, then use common sense, and go with the flow.

Again, welcome. Have a great time in Thailand!

RJS

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Welcome BMXER. I think that your instincts are correct - this is a very welcoming bunch. Yes the forum is somewhat new, but there are an awful lot of experienced folk who are immersed in the scene and who have been around for as long as those on any of the other forums. IMHO, the up to the minute reporting from the ground is unique to this forum.

Actually, I find it much more rewarding than Hollywood celebrity sightings :)

You will often hear it said...."Don't plan too much". Just get here, then use common sense, and go with the flow.

Again, welcome. Have a great time in Thailand!

RJS

Thanks for the warm welcome RJS.

I like your comment about it being much more rewarding than a Hollywood sighting - that is a given really but the closest I could approximate it to...I think that's what makes this much more rewarding than being interested in mainstream banal celebs that some people would be happy to just shake their hands. In this little world you could find yourself spending the night with someone, getting to know them and having a personal connection with, albeit fleeting. I'm not really obsessed with spotting those I have seen on the net since I don't have a photographic memory and would need one to recall the thousands of LBs that have stood out on various sites. There is just one however, while i'm on the subject, she featured on LBG when it was running and I think she starred in Double Stuffed..#2 where she gets double penetration - had a nose ring and shoulder length gold hair - guess she would be about 5 or 6 years older now - this is really going off topic but boy would I love to meet her some day!

As to the don't plan too much mantra - I agree if your here to monger. I'm primarily looking for a relationship, long term so I need to invest the time to know them well beforehand as I don't have the luxury to live in LOS and then that would be possible to find a non "working" LB in a normal job (salon etc). I realise this site is mainly for mongers - and as there isn't a separate community of those looking for LB relationships - this is closest I can find. I'm not totally adverse to some mongering however if all else fails, I'm planning to avoid Patts for this very reason I won't resist the temptation, but should I end up single then I guess I have a hall pass to Pattaya and look forward to enjoying some of the action there!

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I realise this site is mainly for mongers - and as there isn't a separate community of those looking for LB relationships - this is closest I can find.

A very warm welcome to ya bmxer! :drinks:

I'm in a longterm relationship with a ladyboy and so are some other forum members as well. I guess we don't talk about our relationships too much online cause food shopping does not make an exciting thread!

Let me see if I can dig up some relationship threads or we can start a new one.

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Hi guys new to this forum but not to others Thank you for leting me join your forum.

Will be in Pattaya in early April staying in Lk metro area, will keep you all posted how i get on.

irishguy121..........

From one Irish guy to another welcome to the forum. As you can see it's a pretty laid back place here, with lots of approachable friendly guys, well most are. :rolleyes: Enjoy.

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BMXer, I hope you do some Thailand research before you come. It seems you are in the process of it. But I wonder are you planning on moving here or at least have a job that gets you here often? Since your looking for a relationship. How will it work if this isn't the case? What's the point?

I am one that believes people can meet and live happily ever after. And in this day and age, that mean 5 years is a success. Because people change, and sometimes they grow apart...

But meeting someone for a week and then talking online or Skype for a year is not the way to do it.

That being said, meeting someone from afar and thinking she's the one probably has worse odds than winning the lottery.

Most everything you hear or read, on this topic, in places like LBR is; don't plan on this happening!

Soooo, sooo many girls here just want your money!!!! And if you can afford to get here and pay for a hotel, you are a fucking millionaire in Thailand! Your lovely ladyboy just hit the lottery! If your looking for the LB of your dreams there is a 99.999% chance it won't happen with a p4p LB!

Please be careful!

Please don't spend all your time with someone you met online and not go see Thailand for yourself for a few days so you can gain some perspective. That doesn't mean go sightseeing, that certainly doesn't mean don't go on a few dates with someone you have a rapport with from the net, and that doesn't mean just go to bars with p4p action. That means do things where you can interact with regular Thai folk.

I have worked in a club in BKK for a year now. There are tons of beautiful p4p girls there that I adore and would love to have a relationship with (if that was my goal) and I watch them continuously convince Customers that they are in love! That he is special! He is gone tomorrow and they do it again on Thursday. New guy. Same 'love'

That's their job!!!

For 20 minutes or forever. They are desperately hoping that some guy will sponsor them so they don't have to fuck for money in a bar anymore! Some girls love to fuck anyway, so when you sponsor them they will freelance at will. Which means they don't have to fuck unappealing guys anymore to make rent.

This is not new information. It's reality in an unreal country.

BUT, I do know and have friends that meet bargirls and genuinely fall in love. It's always 2 good people. But as a visitor, you can't really tell the difference between good people and bad people.

Anyway, welcome to the forum! I know if you want to meet some guys from here for drinks, it's on the plate!

And yes, it's like a Hollywood celeb sighting, only you can fuck them too! Haha!

And hello irishguy!!

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BMXer, I hope you do some Thailand research before you come. It seems you are in the process of it. But I wonder are you planning on moving here or at least have a job that gets you here often? Since your looking for a relationship. How will it work if this isn't the case? What's the point?

I am one that believes people can meet and live happily ever after. And in this day and age, that mean 5 years is a success. Because people change, and sometimes they grow apart...

But meeting someone for a week and then talking online or Skype for a year is not the way to do it.

That being said, meeting someone from afar and thinking she's the one probably has worse odds than winning the lottery.

Most everything you hear or read, on this topic, in places like LBR is; don't plan on this happening!

Soooo, sooo many girls here just want your money!!!! And if you can afford to get here and pay for a hotel, you are a fucking millionaire in Thailand! Your lovely ladyboy just hit the lottery! If your looking for the LB of your dreams there is a 99.999% chance it won't happen with a p4p LB!

Please be careful!

Please don't spend all your time with someone you met online and not go see Thailand for yourself for a few days so you can gain some perspective. That doesn't mean go sightseeing, that certainly doesn't mean don't go on a few dates with someone you have a rapport with from the net, and that doesn't mean just go to bars with p4p action. That means do things where you can interact with regular Thai folk.

I have worked in a club in BKK for a year now. There are tons of beautiful p4p girls there that I adore and would love to have a relationship with (if that was my goal) and I watch them continuously convince Customers that they are in love! That he is special! He is gone tomorrow and they do it again on Thursday. New guy. Same 'love'

That's their job!!!

For 20 minutes or forever. They are desperately hoping that some guy will sponsor them so they don't have to fuck for money in a bar anymore! Some girls love to fuck anyway, so when you sponsor them they will freelance at will. Which means they don't have to fuck unappealing guys anymore to make rent.

This is not new information. It's reality in an unreal country.

BUT, I do know and have friends that meet bargirls and genuinely fall in love. It's always 2 good people. But as a visitor, you can't really tell the difference between good people and bad people.

Anyway, welcome to the forum! I know if you want to meet some guys from here for drinks, it's on the plate!

And yes, it's like a Hollywood celeb sighting, only you can fuck them too! Haha!

And hello irishguy!!

:friends:

Hi Rukki,

Firstly let me say thank you for taking the time with your advice, much appreciated. I have been to thailannd before so have some idea of the country & culture, albeit if just as a tourist. I spent a good month travelling around the country, so while I don't think I have as much insight as anyone who is living there I at least know the reality of it for a tourist, that essentially your just a cash cow waiting to be milked. For P4P I would not (famous last words) fall for them no matter how much I thought I loved them - being on holiday would be an absolute no no and I guess there are some that naive out there, that fails to amaze, but I am not one of those! Keeping P4P and relationships with non working LBs seperate is very important, I'd like to experience both but realise it is NOT going to be possible to have both at the same time. As for maintaining a relationship ie relocating to Thailand that is a different matter and a bridge I would have to cross if the need arose.

They all want my money but they are going to soon tired of me due to being a cheap charlie and that has always been the case, the moment I sniff a rat I am not uncomfortable saying no. Usually it's pretty easy to tell then, they will move on to an easier target.

As for sponsers I think its a great thing because those who need the money are relieving those who have it and don't really need it. Personally I don't see the point for me as if she is receptive of my money without working for it then she is for the next guy, and the next and so on. I'm not interested in that sort of person. I also understand that you do need money to survive and it is perfectly understanable behaviour on the part of the sponsee, so hold no grudges against them.

Life is not a fairytale, but I think many Lbs would like it to be. I'm hoping to be the 0.001%, and as small as that chance is I think it is something to look forward to and by at least trying to pursue this I have nothing to loose as long as I keep my head screwed on and continue to remind myself of the realities you have pointed out - although I already knew most of what you said it is always good to have it reiterated so as to keep everything in perspective and keep it real.

Do look forward to catch up with some others for a beer who appreciate the lovely LBs as much as me, as face it, its nots something you can rock up to your local bar in your home country and have a chin wag about!

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Hey guys! I'm new to this forum so thought I'd drop a line and say hello. Some of you may have traded threads in other forums with me, hoping to carry on here and and have some fun. Looking forward to sharing and hearing stories from all of you. Till then, Swedeman007

welcome swedeman...nice to see you over here,looking forward to your contributions.

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Not exactly new but have always had problems with the site crashing on me and taking forever to load.

Talked to Willie a while ago and he advised me to try Opera, I also had a chat with Bobby in Patts a few weeks ago and was told that some modifications had been done, all seems good now.

Spent a huge amount of time and posts on LBP but feel its time to move on, many will know me under another name on LBP but ive decided on a complete fresh start over here.

Cheers

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