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Not a TR: Snapshots from another trip to PH-TH (May-June 2023) and to Madagascar (August 2023)


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12 minutes ago, Rom said:

Yes. I have been wondering about how this TR is averaging 70+ visits a day but only a handful of BMs post or give likes....  The "guests" are definitely coming here but are more likely web bots gathering information on the forum than secret PY fans of mine.

This trip and TR are drawing to a close and I will fly from Phuket to Dubai to Europe.  Let me share some thoughts on my stay in Patong-Phuket:

Bringing along Pattaya-based Coca-Cola was a mistake.  All she does is lie in bed all day and complain if I try to get her out and do things with me.  Yes we have sex and if you remember I posted that in Pattaya she was insistent on topping me at all times.  Well here it's the opposite: she bends over and makes herself available, which I eagerly enjoy.  I think the change has to do with her associating being horny with consumption of that substance we can't talk about but is not available to her here.  I have also realized that Coca-Cola sustains her lifestyle in Pattaya not so much by prostitution but by doing something that will land her in the monkeyhouse sooner or later.  It's a shame because she is a good kid.   But right now she is clearly in borderline withdrawal and I offered to buy another airfare (THB 1500 only) for her to go back right away but she declined.  So I am stuck with a bed-slumping sissy who won't even let me suck her while she sleeps...

What sucks is Phuket compared to what I got used to.   Bangla Road has a few barfine bars left but it looks more like Torremolinos or Ibiza with flashy nighclubs and non-prosti bars.  It's crowded as hell with tourists of all ages and origins.  Last time I was here Jimbo had closed shop and another ladyboy bar opened off Sensabai, but that mini-plaza is all gone now.   So I did not find any bar with multiple ladyboys in part because Coca-Cola does not want to go to a ladyboy bar (or any other bar really).  I did see a few isolated ones on Bangla Road and if I had ventured down soi Dragon or soi Eric maybe I would find a few more, as there are still rows of bars there.  Soi Cocodile is long gone blocked by a new fancy club.  The Tiger Complex is under some kind of renovation and I bet it will not come back with dozens of GG bars like it used to be.

One thing that struck me about Patong is that despite having all kinds of soi vendors like in Pattaya and BKK, there is not a single one here that sells Kamagras or sex toys.  Why is that?   Kamagras are a complement to barfining prostis.  Does this underscore a local authorities' plan to phase out mongering and become more of a non-sex travel destination?  I think it does.  I also think that what is happening here is likely to be a forerunner to what will happen in Pattaya down the line...

If I had not brought Coca-Cola along I would have more time to explore and see how I could score sex in this new realm.   But it's not worth the tension of kicking Coca-Cola out on the street.  2 more days.  I am tired anyway and already am stressing about the problems that await me in real life...

Thx for the report @Rom. Certainly not what you had in mind when taking her to Patong :blink:  Sorry to hear mate.

I don't take lbs on my trips anymore, especially not to locations where other lbs are available. Feels like 'carrying water to the sea'. The 'plus 1' will only limit your mobility. Personally I feel much more relaxed travelling alone, and visit all places/bars I like too. 

Haven't been on Phuket since 2019, so kinda worried about the report above. Sounds like Patong can't compete any longer with PTY or BKK for mongering. Will consider for my future plans. 

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14 hours ago, Quietguy said:

That is sad PG. So many victims of hate.

We can forgive but never forget, never let it happen again. 

 

 

12 hours ago, Rom said:

Yes. I have been wondering about how this TR is averaging 70+ visits a day but only a handful of BMs post or give likes....  The "guests" are definitely coming here but they are more likely web bots gathering information on the forum than secret PY fans of mine.

This trip and TR are drawing to a close and I will fly directly from Phuket to Europe via Dubai.  Let me share some thoughts on my stay here in Patong-Phuket:

Bringing along Pattaya-based Coca-Cola was a mistake.  All she does is lie in bed all day and complain if I try to get her out and do things with me.  Yes we have sex and if you remember I posted that in Pattaya she was insistent on topping me at all times.  Well here it's the opposite: she bends over and makes herself available, which I eagerly enjoy.  I think the change has to do with her associating being horny with consumption of that substance we can't talk about but is not available to her here.  I have also realized that Coca-Cola sustains her lifestyle in Pattaya not so much by prostitution but by doing something that will land her in the monkeyhouse sooner or later.  It's a shame because she is a good kid.   But right now she is clearly in borderline withdrawal and I offered to buy another airfare (THB 1500 only) for her to go back right away but she declined.  So I am stuck with a bed-slumping sissy who won't even let me suck her while she sleeps...

What sucks big time is Phuket compared to what I got used to in past visits.  Bangla Road has a few barfine bars left but it looks more like Torremolinos or Ibiza with flashy nighclubs and non-prosti bars.  It's crowded as hell with tourists of all ages and origins.  Last time I was here Jimbo had closed shop and another ladyboy bar opened off Sensabai, but that mini-plaza is all gone now.   So I did not find any bar with multiple ladyboys in part because Coca-Cola does not want to go to a ladyboy bar (or any other bar really).  I did see a few isolated ones on Bangla Road and if I had ventured down soi Dragon or soi Eric maybe I would find a few more, as there are still rows of bars there.  Soi Cocodile is long gone blocked by a new fancy club.  The Tiger Complex is under some kind of renovation and I bet it will not come back with dozens of GG bars like it used to be.

One thing that struck me about Patong is that despite having all kinds of soi vendors like in Pattaya and BKK, there is not a single one here that sells Kamagras or sex toys.  Why is that?   Kamagras are a complement to barfining prostis.  Does this underscore a local authorities' plan to phase out mongering and become more of a non-sex travel destination?  I think it does.  I also think that what is happening here is likely to be a forerunner to what will happen in Pattaya down the line...

If I had not brought Coca-Cola along I would have more time to explore and see how I could score sex in this new realm.   But it's not worth the tension of kicking Coca-Cola out on the street.  2 more days.  I am tired anyway and already am stressing about the problems that await me in real life...

 

Why not propose her another compromise since you don't  want to bring her back to the airport ? You could let her sleep in the hotel. All they need in this situation is to drink water and sleep as much as they can, then visit Hat Patong while she's sleeping. 

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14 hours ago, Pulci Gorgon said:

 ...  [let Coca-Cola] sleep as much as [she] can, then visit Hat Patong while she's sleeping. 

Yes I did some of that going out by myself and had beers with bargirls while Coca-Cola hibernated.  If I was younger I would pick one of the many ladyboy freelancers lining up Bangla Road and do an ST elsewhere.  But unfortunately such STs no longer work for me.  Besides the sex with Coca-Cola is very good and she can be fun when we go clubbing.  It's her moody attitude that has me wishing I hadn't brought her.  Usually when I bring someone along they are grateful and pamper me.  Not this one.  Lesson learned.

I fly back home in a few hours and the TR ends here with an overall tally of what was the longest mongering trip I ever undertook:  almost 8 weeks in the course of which I had intimate relations with 12 ladyboys and 6 ladyladies.  It's more partners than most men have in their lifetimes, but not so many by the standards of our Thailand mongering community where a different partner can be barfined every night.  Some descriptive stats:

-Of the 12 ladyboys, only 1 was over 22 (a very ugly one who I met on a boat); 5 of them were repeats from previous trips.

-Of the 6 GGs, only one was under 36 (a very cute 20something yo I also met on a boat); only 1 (Thai 44 yo) was a repeat.

-My best sex was with 2 of  the GGs: the older ones 44 and 49, both of whom I stayed with for several days.

-My most memorable sex was with the GG on the boat.  It happened so fast and was so exciting and I never heard from her again.

-Also memorable and unprecedented for me was doing identical ladyboy twins (I had done the same pair of Thai GG twins a few times like 20 years ago; I had also done a few GG sisters here and there).  It's something to brag about the rest of my life.  The sex itself was no different than a 3sum with 2 partners reluctant to let go in front of each other.

-The partners I am the fondest of are Mowgli, followed by the 49 yo GG.  I will for sure be seeking them as soon as I can return to the PH.

-I had several 3sums with different combinations involving John Lennon, but this trip somehow a 4some or moresomes did not happen.  The 3sums were all with 2 ladyboys.  This time I did not manage to do one with a ladyboy and a GG.

-Not all the ladyboys did I manage to fuck, whether they refused (Snow White) or were too tight (one of the twins and one of the pinays) or not attractive (the boat tranny).

-4 of the ladyboys fucked me, but only 1 (Coca-Cola) more than once.

-Of the 6 women, I buttfucked only 2.

-I only barfined 4 of them (the twins and 2 bar GGs).

 

Regarding this TR, even though I started by calling it a "non-TR" and wanting to focus on little episodes, it turned out to be possibly my most descriptive TR ever.  It stayed strictly on chronological order (which I not always observe) and I reported all my encounters with GGs (in the past, especially at PY, I would skip those).   I realize my TRs are perhaps too psychologically intense for BMs who do not care what I or my partners felt besides the sexual connection, but I am past the point of happily mongering away a different barfine every night.  Sorry about the redacted pics, but as explained it's the best I can do.  I know I overTR here in this board and the reason I keep doing it is not just that I enjoy it, but I think the board needs more posts and photos and TRing is the best I can do to help.  Thanks everyone for reading and posting and giving likes.

Rom

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Edited to add a 12th ladyboy I had forgotten about.
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11 minutes ago, Rom said:

Yes I did some of that going out by myself and had beers with bargirls while Coca-Cola hibernated.  If I was younger I would pick one of the many ladyboy freelancers lining up Bangla Road and do an ST elsewhere.  But unfortunately such STs no longer work for me.  Besides the sex with Coca-Cola is very good and she can be fun when we go clubbing.  It's her moody attitude that has me wishing I hadn't brought her.  Usually when I bring someone along they are grateful and pamper me.  Not this one.  Lesson learned.

I fly back home in a few hours and the TR ends here with an overall tally of what was the longest mongering trip I ever undertook:  almost 8 weeks in the course of which I had intimate relations with 11 ladyboys and 6 ladyladies.  It's more partners than most men have in their lifetimes, but not so many by the standards of our Thailand mongering community where a different partner can be barfined every night.  Some descriptive stats:

-Of the 11 ladyboys, only 1 was over 22 (a very ugly one who I met on a boat)

-Of the 6 GGs, only one was under 36 (a very cute 20something yo I also met on a boat)

-My best sex was with 2 of  the GGs: the older ones 44 and 49, both of whom I stayed with for several days.

-My most memorable sex was with the GG on the boat.  It happened so fast and was so exciting and I never heard from her again.

-Also memorable and unprecedented for me was doing identical ladyboy twins (I had done the same pair of Thai GG twins a few times like 20 years ago; I had also done a few GG sisters here and there).  It's something to brag about the rest of my life.  The sex itself was no different than a 3sum with 2 partners reluctant to let go in front of each other.

-The partners I am the fondest of are Mowgli, followed by the 49 yo GG.  I will for sure be seeking them as soon as I can return to the PH.

-I had several 3sums with different combinations involving John Lennon, but this trip somehow a 4some or moresomes did not happen.  The 3sums were all with 2 ladyboys.  This time I did not manage to do one with a ladyboy and a GG

-Not all the ladyboys did I manage to fuck, whether they refused (Snow White) or were too tight (one of the twins and one of the pinays) or not attractive (the boat tranny).

-4 of the ladyboys fucked me, but only 1 (Coca-Cola) more than once.

-Of the 6 women, I buttfucked only 2.

-I only barfined 4 of them (the twins and 2 bar GGs).

 

Regarding this TR, even though I started by calling it a "non-TR" and wanting to focus on little episodes, it turned out to be possibly my most descriptive TR ever.  It stayed strictly on chronological order (which I not always observe) and I reported all my encounters with GGs (in the past, especially at PY, I would skip those).   I realize my TRs are perhaps too psychologically intense for BMs who do not care what I or my partners felt besides the sexual connection, but I am past the point of happily mongering away a different barfine every night.  Sorry about the redacted pics, but as explained it's the best I can do.  I know I overTR here in this board and the reason I keep doing it is not just that I enjoy it, but I think the board needs more posts and photos and TRing is the best I can do to help.  Thanks everyone for reading and posting and giving likes.

Rom

Great summary! Well done B)

Gives me the inspiration to summarize my trip as well! :rolleye0012:  Maybe convenient for those who don't have time to read a whole TR.

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Thank you for the summary. I had a feeling this week that your trip was starting to feel lengthy, and you've confirmed it. You're fortunate to have both the time and resources to spend such a long time in Southeast Asia.I hope you have some photos from Hat Patong and will share them along with a few more comments. I can't imagine you spent your time there hibernating with Coca Cola without exploring and forming your own impressions. 

One more comment about Patong : Before Patong's curfew in 2015, I had seen the place as the place to hook up ladyboys and flirt with one on a LT basis while visiting the islands. This should be like a "golden rule" : don't invite a Pattaya (or Bangkok) ladyboy to Patong and don't invite a Patong ladyboy to Pattaya. 

Regarding the photos and your posts, everyone has their own style. I hope you're not still influenced by past PY criticism. Feel free to share more or showcase your best work without hesitation. I forgot to tell you I enjoyed you described your feeling for a young ladyboy you liked to meet again and again. It mustn't be easy to post about it. I didn't find your TR too long either. That's good to read from you several times a week. The forum would need more TR like yours. I wish more members would post a TR when they travel to ladyboys country. DM posted his own TR. I didn't see it as a competition (except maybe for giving "likes"). He had another trip strategy and another style. All of these trip reports have been very informative for the entire community and another one is starting. 

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Thank you once again for another TR. I very much enjoyed the start of your adventure but looks last trip you seemed to become disillusioned towards the end and although the quality did not drop off I guess in sympathy towards you my enjoyment did. Next trip stick with Mowgli and John Lennon? Or maybe look for a brand new adventure?

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On 6/29/2023 at 9:47 PM, Pulci Gorgon said:

(...) you described your feeling for a young ladyboy you liked to meet again and again. It mustn't be easy to post about it. (...)

8 hours ago, snoopdawg said:

... you seemed to become disillusioned towards the end and (...) in sympathy towards you my enjoyment [of the TR] did [waiver]. 

Thank you gentlemen.  I'd like to say that although PG's words sometimes sting me, his continued interest and feedback were a key motivator for me not to shorten the TR or quietly drop it.  It was also motivating when snoopdawg posted despite his concern that I may be drifting back to GGs and elderly ones at that.  Don't worry bro I will never give up sissy cock if I can get hold of it.

I would like to share a couple more self-introspection thoughts that influenced this TR's content and focus:

First let's make one thing clear:  PY has nothing to do with the "anguished" tone of my latest TRs.  Regardless of the ignominy they put me through, time would have passed anyway and the shit that happened in my life would have happened anyway and I would no longer be the happy-go-lucky serial monger I cast myself as in my enthusiastic initial TRs at PY.  Regarding the sharing of explicit ladyboy pics, I like to say I regret having done at PY but I am pretty sure I would have come to feel the same way even if they hadn't banned me and I continued to TR there.  At some point, it became clear to me that the ladyboys I fuck are more important than strangers giving me likes, whether or not they lynchmob me.  As I said: it's not documenting them naked that bothers me, but documenting them as prostitutes who go along with old men like me.  This may come across as a broadswipe at other BMs, but is not meant like that.  I am not one to cast first stones at other sinners.  It is just the way I came to feel about my ladyboy sex partners.

I think I have the editorial skill to post a TR where I would come across as a serial fucking machine enjoying life to the fullest.  But I have been there, done that like so many of you.  I know I am NOT the only one who seeks more than ejaculations when we make trips all the way  to Asia... I am not ashamed to admit that in my western life I lack the excitment, friendship with benefits and even the glimpses of love that happen on these trips.  It's those moments and the candid doubts and joy that go with them that I try to convey in my latest TRs and that are not found in most other TRs (you could find it in snoopdawg's early TRs).

In my previous post I gave you the body count of the trip.  Let me now give a candid emotional count more explicitly than I did in the TR:

I think I made it clear I have feelings for Mowgli, and those feelings are more than sissy attraction, but became fatherly affection for the wonderful young person that she is (Mowgli is 20 confirmed by the fact that she goes to the university, just to make clear she is not a child).  Our first encounter in January was as pornographic as it gets with me enjoying her body every possible way and taking the pics to document it.  None of our subsequent encounters were like that as it became clear we were both struggling with our feelings.  "Is it OK to say I love you?" Mowgli asked me.  I can't say it back to her precisely because I care about her so much I don't want to complicate her life with illusions of romance with a punter older than her father.  After I departed to TH, Mowgli kept asking me if I met someone else.  What could I say?  No.  But she knew I was lying and still says she is counting the days to be with me.

The 49 year old GG from Bohol.  Best GFE I had in my life.  Sleeping with that woman holding me tight all night and making love multiple times at the first sign of an erection set new standards of sleeping together for me.  She may not be much to look at but if she lived in my country I would continue to sleep with her every night if I could. She keeps saying she loves me. I say it back sometimes.

The mistery girl on the boat.  It all happened so fast.  We had quick unprotected sex in my cabin and then she left.  It felt so good I can't get her out of my head. She is in her early 20s but not a knock-out.  Yet I want to repeat.  She says she wants also.  It's not love I am sure for either of us.  I think just 2 humans wanting more of the same illusion.

The 44 yo Treetown prosti.  We had an excellent 4 days-4 nights in Bangkok, for which I had to pay full fare barfine (1000) every day.  One of those days I was busy and she went to chill out with BKK friends and got drunk and sick eating Durian.  In her drunken agony, she said she loved me and expressed jealousy for the 49 yo pinay who was posting all kinds of romantic things on my FB.  I can't see myself saying I love you to a barfinable prosti, but I think I said it to her.

Coca-Cola.  As exasperating as she was with her sleeping and bossyness, she can be vey sweet.  Not to mention her huge hard cock that I cant get enough smoking of.   We said goodbye in the airport (i flew to Dubai, she to BKK) without as much as a kiss.  On hindsight, I think I underpaid her.  When I got to Europe, I had a 2 word message from her: "Love You". She had never said it before.

Yes I know you are all thinking of me as a senile old fool grasping at illusions of love.  But am I the only one who goes to Asia for that ?

I am Rom and my TRs try to focus on the human interactions.

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6 hours ago, Rom said:

The mistery girl on the boat.  It all happened so fast.  We had quick unprotected sex in my cabin and then she left.  It felt so good I can't get her out of my head. She is in her early 20s but not a knock-out.  Yet I want to repeat.  She says she wants also.  It's not love I am sure for either of us.  I think just 2 humans wanting more of the same illusion.

If you will take my advice my friend do not meet boat girl again, a repeat performance will not match up to refers and you will only end up disappointed. Keep this memory unspoiled by trying to recreate something that was spontaneous. Looking back I think the "spontaneity" was the key to your earlier TR's rather than trying to get reacquainted with old flames perhaps you would be better off cutting all ties and starting with a clean canvas?

p.s. I still think there's something seriously wrong with you for fucking granny fanny. Urgh! See you in Lisbon!

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See you in Lisbon Zen Master @snoopdawg ! As you once in all your wisdom explained to me, the English catch phrase "we all have our dragons to slay" translates in sissyspeak as "we all have pre-ops to put mouth to cock while it's still there" ...  Party on Snoop!

This is the latest epilogue to the TR.  Remember Snow White? the remote PH island sissy I paid for the trip to come meet me in Manila and she came accompanied by her mother whose bus fare I also ended up paying?  and in the end we slept together only 1 night and she did not let me fuck her?  and she refused to travel together afterwards as planned because she said she had high school graduation?  And I ended up sending her back with just enough money for the bus and when she kept asking for more I blocked her on FB?  I unblocked her a couple weeks later and just now she is back at it with her sweet talk, but I am adamant she will not see 1 more peso from me.  Apparently, this time she is the one doing the FBlocking of me after the short exchange below:

She was my only regret of the trip but even so I spent a good enough time with her the night we slept together...

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16 hours ago, snoopdawg said:

 

p.s. I still think there's something seriously wrong with you for fucking granny fanny.

 

I second you on this point.

 

8 hours ago, Rom said:

Remember Snow White? ... I ended up sending her back with just enough money for the bus and when she kept asking for more I blocked her on FB?  I unblocked her a couple weeks later and just now she is back at it with her sweet talk, but I am adamant she will not see 1 more peso from me.  Apparently, this time she is the one doing the FBlocking of me after the short exchange below:

She was my only regret of the trip but even so I spent a good enough time with her the night we slept together...

 

When reading this TR, I had the feeling you acted both as a sweetheart and a newbie. I don't understand what's wrong with you. In your previous TR you seemed to have lost self confidence. 

When she asks money upfront for whatever reason (buffalo sick, needs to pay hospital, need to pay for her ticket, pay for BS etc ...), and if above all if she refuses to have sex, I just add a label : TIME WASTER, and I forget her. Two of them asked me for money after they couldn't have met Woodie. One blocked me and I forgot the other one. They should know the rule. 
If we send money for nothing, they start believing the rule has changed. 

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PG please understand and accept:  given the number and quality of partners (the majority of the PH ones were non-prostis) I could easily have TR-cast myself as a serial fucking machine, but I chose instead to cast myself as a conflicted monger in search of more than sex.  That's the whole literary message of the TR spelled out for you:  The aging lone wolf tormented by life but still eager for sex and the manly self-validation that comes with it.  Such message is also meant to serve as a mirror for other BM readers who by virtue of their presence in this board are likely to self-identify.  The problem is that some BMs don't like what they see in that mirror and they may lash out at me (at PY where they were allowed to) or just stay resentfully quiet (here at LBR where BM flaming is not an option).  But if my TR has the effect of making a single BM think again and question his self-assumptions to become a better more considerate monger, then my TR will have been a success.  If it just entertained BMs for a few minutes each post that's still OK.

A BM like you (PG) who has strong convictions and a propensity to control narratives may find my self-revealed vulnerabilities and mistakes lame and inconsistent with my apparent success, but such vulnerabilities and mistakes were as much part of the trip as the 18 partners I fucked.

Regarding Snow White, I spent like 180 USD on her, but she got to keep none of it.  She got a new ID I paid for, 2 round-trips to Manila, 2 taxi fares to my hotel  and a night out on the town, all of which rigorously accounted for.  She returned to her island without any spare cash out of the 180 USD.  I got out of it the same night out on the town followed by a whole night of non-copulating sex, which in Europe would be far more than 180 USD with a trans so young and so beautiful.  I don't view myself as naif or as a failure when things don't go according to plan.  I view myself as sort of an investor diversifying his portfolio.  Snow White was high-risk/high-return and did not pay off as hoped for, but other fucks during the trip more than exceeded expectations.  I did well.  Snow White is only 19 and she may well pay off big some day.  I have no regrets over the 180 USD.  Perhaps some over the time and care I put into it.  That's all.  Please PG I appreciate when you post but don't give me a hard time for being patient and hoping for the best.

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I know BMs don't care for my feelings and misgivings about my trips' sex partners and would rather I just post their identities, circumstances, prices and photos like most other BMs do without further ado ... BUT I can't.  Sorry.  Reasons explained before.

What I can do is provide even more details no one is interested about, namely now with a follow up post about the Chayapoom GG who was a bad pick.  I briefly TRed on her before, but here goes a more complete account and an update that will be of no interest to most BMs and further grounds for them to alienate me...

So I mentioned how when I got to Pattaya I hooked up with the identical sissy twins, but it only lasted 2 nights.  They wanted me to pay more and one of them went AWOL on me at dawn.  So the following night I had my sights set on the Delirious femboy who goes by PEPSI but, as reported, we negotiated an LT but at the last moment she backed off telling me to wait until the following night.  And here comes the long spiel:

That night, I had taken a motorbike taxi to Chayapoom and I usually tell them to drop me off at the Buakhao entrance to Chayapoom as I like to walk through and observe the talent to my left and to my right while being called "sexyman".  In doing so, a MILF's cleavage with big saggy tits discernible through her dress caught my attention in one of the first bars to my right. They reminded me of the big saggy tits of the pinay MILF I had had such a good time with a week earlier at Panglao.  But I kept going towards Delirious because I had my mind set on Pepsi.  When it did not work out, I thought Oh well! I might as well go for the saggy tits MILF I saw on the way in...

In making my way back to approximately where I thought her bar was, I did spot a MILF with saggy tits, but later came to realize she was not the same one I had seen coming in.  But that was after I had stopped at that bar and bought saggy tits MILF #2 a ladydrink and agreed on a 1,500+tip LT.  Why not? I thought.  She was saggy enough and younger than saggy tits MILF #1 who I subsequently and accurately spotted in the adjoining bar.  But, as dutifully TRed, once in the bedroom, saggy tits MILF #2 turned out to be a dud and left right after the fuck I barely managed half stiff. I was happy to give her 1000 and go to sleep in peace.  What I did not previously TR to avoid grossing out pussy-averse BMs is that I went down on her while squeezing the saggers and hers was the stinkiest pussy of the 4 or 5 I slurped on this trip.  But that can actually be arousing after the initial repugnance.  The smell and bitter taste of pussy always remind me of the first times I did it in high school with a classmate who was too young to know to hygienically prepare for it.  Overcoming that initial repugnance until you can't get enough of the stink and of the bitterness is what muffdiving is about.  And I was actually working up to enjoy it with saggy tits #2 but she was hurrying me and not even bothering to fake pleasure.  it was me who faked an in-the-condom orgasm.

We had exchanged FB contacts in the bar but I never expected to hear back from her again. But to my surprise she messangered me the next day asking that I barfine her again.  I ignored and declined, but she kept contacting me the following days even after I told her I was in BKK and subsequently Phuket.  She just kept sending me gifs and one-liners the rest of my trip.

Yesterday, less than 24 hours after arriving in Europe she contacted me again sending me the cute beating heart GIF you see in the messenger string below.  You can also see my last response, after which she abruptly blocked me.

That's 2 post-trip FB blocks in 2 days.

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22 hours ago, Rom said:

PG please understand and accept:  ...

Upon reading your response, I realize that my understanding was indeed accurate. It occurred to me that you might consider adopting a hint of cynicism, not for the mere sake of it, but as a means of self-protection against scammers. I, too, have encountered hesitations and dilemmas on numerous occasions during my trips. However, I often refrained from discussing them in my TRs, as it tends to perplex the average BM who is confined to Pattaya.
You are not misunderstood, yet I find it rather surprising that you continue to cling to a ladyboy who evidently sought to deceive you.
I shall patiently await to see if there will be another encounter with this individual.

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I just want to say that whatever "scams" ladyboys or ladies have tried on me have been insignificant in terms of ill-intent or monetary cost or mental stress relative to the attacks on my assets and on my person and on my sanity I have to face in other dimensions of my life.  I actually find it flattering that ladyboys go to so much trouble to get some pocket change out of me.  Snow White is a cutie, likely a virgin like she says, and it amused me to play along and I did get a night of love with her.  Don't pity me for what the sissies get out of me.   It's the farangs after me and what is mine I need to be pittyed for.  This week I am flying to America for a week and I fear what awaits me there.  If I stop posting for a while or for good ... it's because I can no longer.

On a more educational note, let's make another TR post most BMs don't care for.  Looksee this pic:

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It's the pic of a gay? non-binary?  man?  transwoman ?  that I hooked up with for a while circa 2016-18.  At the time he? she? was a hottie late teens ladyboy who worked in one the gogo bars of Subic (only non-GG there).  At the time I posted pics of her at PY and the pervs there went wild with her skinny ass being impaled by the Romrod.  She had an initial daddy crush on me and cried a lot when I left, and we did subsequent trips together to Ifugao (the rice terraces tribal area) and to Bacolod (Negros).  We remained in touch and as she/he aged she/he remained womanly in her looks and attire, until the pic above she just posted on her FB which is the first I see her/him looking like a regular dude and not the most handsome one at that.

I could post the pics from 10 years ago that I had posted at PY, but just trust me: she was a total hottie!

Where am I trying to go with this?

Just to say that I have observed over the years, how ladyboydom is but a stage for many gay youths in TH or PH.  It's a time to have fun and make some money drinking and partying in girls' clothes but as they age and loose their youthful femininity and joy they revert to being gay men and will likely remain so the rest of their lives

Have other BMs also observed this with some of the feminine ladyboys they knew?  

I have.  Several of the Thai ones I knew in the glory days of the 2000s are now dudes with office jobs like my ex-fuckbuddy above... that's how we loose track of them.

R

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I probably shouldn't but I can't help it.   Below are some pics of the same pinoy dude sitting at a desk featured in my previous post right above, but my pics below are from back when he/she was a feminine ladyboy in Subic.  I staged those pics for PY for the 2018 Romscars Awards and posted them along with many others that showed her face and naked body.  The Board's root admin at the time (AlexP previous one) gave them his personal +1s.

Seriously: what kind of people running a content-dependent board ban a BM who goes to the trouble and has the skill and motivation to post pics like these promoting their board's own brand?

Are they intrinsically evil?  or just bitterly jealous of others who shine to the point they (the jealous ones) become evil?

Sorry to those who can't stand me here either but will gawk at my pics nonetheless...

The third and last pic I did not post at PY considerate BM that I was.  I post it now.

 

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Back to the TR.  A trip never quite ends when we depart Suvarnabhumi does it ... the memories of indulgence comfort us ... the voices of our better selves haunt us...

Remember Coca Cola- the hibernating ladyboy I took to Phuket and posted I came to regret it.  She was not the affectionate type, but when my plane landed in Europe she had texted she loves me.  And in her case it's not sweet talk.  She is a good kid.  Am I a good man ?  Judge for yourself...

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If a tree falls in the forest, and there’s nobody around to hear, does it make a sound?

If Rom makes a post at LBR and no BM reads/reacts to it, does the post convey a message ?

 

I know it's getting weird in here.  Too weird to risk posting.   I think it's a prelude to Waterloo...

Back again if I am not Napoleon...

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On 7/4/2023 at 1:36 AM, Rom said:

 

Just to say that I have observed over the years, how ladyboydom is but a stage for many gay youths in TH or PH.  It's a time to have fun and make some money drinking and partying in girls' clothes but as they age and loose their youthful femininity and joy they revert to being gay men and will likely remain so the rest of their lives

Have other BMs also observed this with some of the feminine ladyboys they knew?  

 

There was a quite feminine ladyboy who worked behind the bar at Famous named Gai.   A couple of years I saw her while strolling the sois and she was a dude with a mustache.  Liked her much better as a girl.

Also from Famous was Kung who looked rather manly.  She reverted to being a guy and looked much better than before just being himself.

 

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I am posting to thank whoever BM it was that 12 hours ago gave me 12 likes for 12 posts in this TR.   Whoever it was must have done it because he likes me, not just for the posts.  I wish I knew who it was or that moderation would tell me (please!)...  Perhaps who gave the likes can PM me so I can thank you personally.

I am at a difficult moment in my life where something major went really bad for me and the last thing on my mind right now is to post about my sex life here at LBR where it seems I have alienated BMs ...  That's why getting 12 likes in a batch means so much to me, even if I don't know who from I know it's from someone who likes me to post.   Thanks again whoever you are.

 So I don't stay in a room staring at the ceiling and going ting tong beyond repair, I am about to go mongering in Madagascar in August, then Ethiopia,  then end-September I will fly back to TH-PH.  But I think these trips I will refrain from TRing as I have done 4 TRs in the last 14 months ... and save my irritant posting for the Romscars later in the year,,,

Thanks again Mr. 12 likes.   

Rom

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3 hours ago, Pulci Gorgon said:

If you monger thre legs partners in Madagascar, I'd be interested in reading your TR though. 

I am not sure I want to share such premium information indiscriminately.   I think you PG of all BMs understand that.  As far as everyone thinks, there are no sissies in Africa as man-to-man sex is a social taboo and explicitly forbidden by law in many of the countries.  Let them keep thinking that way.  I remember contributing like a fool for a thread at PY on Madagascar started by one of the cliquers wondering about going there on a getaway with more cliquers ...  I will just leave one key piece of advice in case anyone gets the idea to go there because Rom mentioning going there:  if you don't speak minimal French don't bother.

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You push me to comment the way you post and I don't like to criticize what or the way you post. But yes, I'm interested in reading and watching what you dare post about shemales in Madagascar if you meet some. I had started searching the web about shemales in Madagascar and hadn't found something that would make me decide to go. However, a TR could help me change my mind, not for this year (since my airline ticket has been already booked) but for the future. 

I don't remember having read your post(s) in PY. I just remember a cliquer (let's call him LJ) had mentionned the country to look for GGs. I think the guy could speak a little bit of French since he'd posted about friends having holidays near Switzerland. The same LJ was also interested in Vietnamese ladyboys. I think the peak of my experience in VN was in 2019, just 3 months before the covid pandemic changed the deal. 
At first, I didn't want to post about VN ladyboys even in my club that was a closed club. That I transformed my club to an open club and noticed the limited interest of monger for VN ladyboys. It's not really difficult to find them but I took care not to post the main keys in a public forum. I realized how difficult it may be for a Pattaya monger when Woodie messed it up completely in May. 

I also believe my French is correct, not perfect but correct. I listened to stories of espionage and their impact on the Second World War on the radio yesterday (Saturday), and I was able to grasp the subtleties of the discussions. I also read half of "Le rouge et le noir" by Stendhal before I gave up. I found it Boring like "Le Père Goriot" by Balzac. But I had enjoyed "la peau de chagrin" by the same Balzac as well as books by Maupassant and Voltaire. So I guess I could do it on the scene in Madagascar. 
You needn't post too much, just a couple of photos (without painting please, but I ke to see her face and body/ass/cock in the same pic), and a short comment to know if you recommend her. Since you don't have a closed club, I would PM you questions if need be. (I can PM in French in you want). 

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On 7/3/2023 at 7:36 PM, Rom said:

Just to say that I have observed over the years, how ladyboydom is but a stage for many gay youths in TH or PH.  It's a time to have fun and make some money drinking and partying in girls' clothes but as they age and loose their youthful femininity and joy they revert to being gay men and will likely remain so the rest of their lives

Have other BMs also observed this with some of the feminine ladyboys they knew?  

I have.  Several of the Thai ones I knew in the glory days of the 2000s are now dudes with office jobs like my ex-fuckbuddy above... that's how we loose track of them.

Apologies for the late reply, I though this TR had been wrapped up so haven't been back for a couple of months. I don't find this forum particularly good for bringing content to my attention so tend to visit if I'm informed of something that may be of interest to me.

Anyway back on topic I can think of 3 off the top of my head. The first was a former Anaconda (or maybe Guess Bar) girl, who had her implants removed and started living as a gay guy. Can't recall her name but the likes of Nok Yung, Donut, Opp, Give etc would know her.

The second was Chompoo formerly of Stringfellow. Never had tits but was rumoured to be well hung. I cannot confirm.

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The third came as a surprise. She/he works at the music bar on the corner of Soi 13 summat. Can't recall her name but went with her several times. Hhad her tits removed and is now a gay guy. She has messaged me several times and doesn't seem to understand why I would not be interested in meeting her.

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Here's a "before" picture of the mystery girl as I referred to her. I either didn't find out her name (a little unlikely given we'd been together half a dozen times but not impossible) or I've subsequently forgotten it as I was so cafeul never to reveal her identity at LBP I never referred to her by name. 

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I don't have an after photo but if he ever messages me on Grindr again i'll try to get a screengrab. I'd describe him as looking like a member of a Korean boy band.

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