pdogg Posted October 6, 2012 Share Posted October 6, 2012 In Kendo's excellent Trip Report he said: I think the moral of the story was not to barfine when I was only about 50% interested in the girl. A meaty subject worthy of its own thread. From talking with and observing my friends it seems that some guys make a decision they're going out to get laid on a particular night. Maybe half the ladyboys they meet would be acceptable. I know other guys who have high standards; they want everything about her to be just right and are quite willing to go home alone if they can't find the vibe they're looking for. Other guys just go with the flow. Me? I'm in a relationship so just go out drinking with my mates. Do you recognize yourself in any of the above categories? Or do you have an altogether different M.O. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dixon cox Posted October 6, 2012 Share Posted October 6, 2012 ... they want everything about her to be just right and are quite willing to go home alone if they can't find the vibe they're looking for. That's me, either in a bar in the evening or soi6 in the early hours, her vibe (and legs) counts for a lot. I know fussy means less, but I like less and I'd rather bide my time as I'm never in a hurry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Foggy Posted October 6, 2012 Share Posted October 6, 2012 Other guys just go with the flow. Thats more my style as I cant be bothered with a plan and having to lie or ignore if a better situation arises when I'm ready to go back to the hotel. I love the uncertainy and adventure of a nights prowl. My back up is a few numbers of favourites that will or wont be available when I am. Having said that if Im in Pattaya on holiday I dont like to 'waste' a night so standards can drop a tad if it's late Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loverboy25 Posted October 6, 2012 Share Posted October 6, 2012 Chemistry, nice legs, stockings always work the magic for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stealth007 Posted October 6, 2012 Share Posted October 6, 2012 @Pdogg I for one also never understood that high standaard part when i see my friends on the hunt , hehehe..... Then i tell them your looking for a girls to fuck not to get married ??? Also guy`s that send the girls money just to have a first date ??? For me the interaction with a girl is the key , if the girl dont interact with me i will never go with her..... She must show that she is interested in me and not the other way around !!! Greetz , Stealth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KendoUK Posted October 6, 2012 Share Posted October 6, 2012 thanks for raising this pdogg, I think subconsciously the reason I took that one in A-Bar was that being just a mere holidaymaker, I feel obliged to try and squeeze in as much as shagging as possible because I sure as hell won't be getting any once I get back to the UK. Especially as I was coming towards the closing days of a 3 weeks tour. Where I had already had a fruitless lap of Pattaya I think I'd lowered my own standards somewhat just for the sake of getting my leg over. As I've just posted, later that same evening I encountered Wonnee and started having the same decision process and that time I was more hesitant to take a punt. Compare this to when I was in Bangkok a few days earlier, I knew 100% that I wanted a piece of Fah and I came flying back into the bar like a tornado as soon as I saw the customer she was drinking with had left the bar without her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xyzzy Posted October 6, 2012 Share Posted October 6, 2012 In Kendo's excellent Trip Report he said: A meaty subject worthy of its own thread. I have a few friends that mostly seem to make their pick based on the highlighted word above. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ciobha Posted October 6, 2012 Share Posted October 6, 2012 I think it really depends how I feel on any given to night as much as the vibe I get from the girl, in fact this can also directly relate to how feel about a potential victim. There are some guys (you know who you are) that can shag multiple girls and multiple times per day, but I really need to be in the mood and some nights am happier having a few beers and and a laugh with the lads. That being said, there have been times a LB has turned me on so much, a night with the boys goes out the window for a liitle bedroon gymnastics, even though I may not have got a great vibe personally with her so to speak.Kwang would be the perfect example - personality wise she has never clicked but lordy you know that a treat is in store in the room. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
randiuno Posted October 7, 2012 Share Posted October 7, 2012 at 6 pm , she had better be damn fine, at 2 am, as long as she has teeth will do! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bumblebee Posted October 7, 2012 Share Posted October 7, 2012 There are some guys (you know who you are) that can shag multiple girls and multiple times per day, but I really need to be in the mood and some nights am happier having a few beers and and a laugh with the lads. That being said, there have been times a LB has turned me on so much, a night with the boys goes out the window for a liitle bedroon gymnastics, I find myself in the "go with the flow" with a bit of "the quite willing to go home alone if they can't find the vibe they're looking for" camp. When I am on the long trips I have to chose the opponent carefully to make it worthwhile both financially and regarding fulfillment. No point in throwing money after a girl I am sorta interested in but at the same time not really pushed about either way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beijo Posted October 7, 2012 Share Posted October 7, 2012 Chemistry and interaction, if thats no there I go home alone. Oh, yeah dont forget tits and ass a femboy does not do it for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dixon cox Posted October 7, 2012 Share Posted October 7, 2012 When I am on the long trips ... Time available is probably the most influential factor affecting people's agendas on this subject. For those with plenty of time there's no rush, we have the option of being more picky if we want to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Foggy Posted October 7, 2012 Share Posted October 7, 2012 Slightly off topic but in line with the OP's original question. When I was living in the Uk I would have travelled 7000 miles for 15 hours to hook up with a hot LB. Now I live here in Samui some times I cant be bothered to travel 15 minutes to do the same. ( the LB's here havent been shagged by all my mates on the forum.... so keep staying away, thanks ) Just knowing so many are available and on my door step all the time is enough to relax the mind. Trips to Pattaya though Im in holiday mode and enjoying fun and sex not a girlfriend so dont want to return to Samui and feel, I wish I done her when I look at a BM's report. I liked that at 2am Got to have teeth !! so true Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4:17 Posted October 7, 2012 Share Posted October 7, 2012 Chemistry is everything, and I've been known to head home alone rather than force the issue, as the few times I have, it has all but invariably been a "meh" experience at best. I'd also add that I rarely experience the drama that seems to affect some punters. Having said that though, I agree with Randuino, et al: there's chemistry and then there's drunk and horny at 4 a.m. chemistry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KenW Posted October 8, 2012 Share Posted October 8, 2012 I have never once gone on a trip with the kind of lists guys talk about on the forums, nor have I ever yet gone into a bar determined to have someone I had heard about or seen in image on a forum. Much preferring the surprise of meeting someone who delights me with flesh and/or personality, I go with the flow. OK, sometimes I miss out, so be it. I recall warmly, for example, deepthroat's birthday earlier this year, when I spotted one LB I was really attracted to, and we began making eyecontact, etc. She smiled and seemed to return my interest. But then a foreigner emerged to sit beside her (his smokes and stuff had warned me someone was adjacent). She later came over and apologised to me saying he had barfined her already. No worries. I admired her for that. But sometimes it turns out delightfully, and all goes well. Also, I have had some good times with so-called non-P4P LBs. Which is a misnomer, for they're all P4P like every other female or TS or gayboy on the planet. OK, it might not be a barfine or even a night fee, but you end up buying them a phone or whatever. Same same. But good times. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
farangbah Posted October 8, 2012 Share Posted October 8, 2012 For those with plenty of time there's no rush, we have the option of being more picky if we want to. Just knowing so many are available and on my door step all the time is enough to relax the mind. Exactly, gents. Playing the long game has so many benefits to it. I think I've impulse-trysted with a girl I'd never met before that day once in the past, oh, at least half a year. Conversely, last Friday night, after a long, hard-won work week, after having started drinking with colleagues at 4pm, I was amazed that I was still "standing" at 3AM. In truth I was nodding off left and right. But one fine friend decided to pay for one of the rooms as I needed to be put down immediately. But somehow being escorted (carried) to the room by the proprietor and some Thai dude I'd never seen before and seeing where I was being placed it, I dunno, somehow aroused me. I asked the proprietor if she would send somebody up. She said sure, who? And I actually said "Surprise me." (I figgered I had nothing in the tank anyway, and just wanted a little playfulness while I drifted off, so it didn't much matter.) This was Guess Bar, and Noon sent up Sammi. When she knocked on the door -- that pregnant pause -- what a rush. Which was only beaten by the rush seeing her come strutting through the door in her thigh-highs and heels, with a gleam in her eye -- and it was go time, boys -- woo! Good times... So, hey, I guess there's something to be said for complete randomness too... 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rickshaw Posted October 8, 2012 Share Posted October 8, 2012 at 6 pm , she had better be damn fine, at 2 am, as long as she has teeth will do! I've always been told that oral sex without teeth is the height of such things.... No matter what my best intentions are, I find that my determination to stay aloof from just sex i.e. only taking those with whom I have some connection / chemistry, rather than merely satisfying my animal lusts with the nearest possessor of a nice pair of tits and a cute ass - anyway, that determination is inversely proportional to the amount of alcohol I have imbibed which in its own right is quite closely correlated to the time. But on one of my intermittant non-alcohol days, I quite often go home alone (but then I do tend to stay for months rather than weeks so odd days of sleeping alone is not a major concern to me). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KendoUK Posted October 8, 2012 Share Posted October 8, 2012 Noon sent up Sammi. if you only had enough power for a "quickie" then that would be about the right choice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mardhi Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 if you only had enough power for a "quickie" then that would be about the right choice We put viagra in her somtam now - problem solved Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
farangbah Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 if you only had enough power for a "quickie" then that would be about the right choice Zing! Nice load, though... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mardhi Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 Exactly, gents. Playing the long game has so many benefits to it. I think I've impulse-trysted with a girl I'd never met before that day once in the past, oh, at least half a year. Conversely, last Friday night, after a long, hard-won work week, after having started drinking with colleagues at 4pm, I was amazed that I was still "standing" at 3AM. In truth I was nodding off left and right. But one fine friend decided to pay for one of the rooms as I needed to be put down immediately. But somehow being escorted (carried) to the room by the proprietor and some Thai dude I'd never seen before and seeing where I was being placed it, I dunno, somehow aroused me. I asked the proprietor if she would send somebody up. She said sure, who? And I actually said "Surprise me." (I figgered I had nothing in the tank anyway, and just wanted a little playfulness while I drifted off, so it didn't much matter.) This was Guess Bar, and Noon sent up Sammi. When she knocked on the door -- that pregnant pause -- what a rush. Which was only beaten by the rush seeing her come strutting through the door in her thigh-highs and heels, with a gleam in her eye -- and it was go time, boys -- woo! Good times... So, hey, I guess there's something to be said for complete randomness too... That is Noon's younger brother - the dude you did not recognise & the room was on the house - everyone thought you needed a lie down as sleeping standing up is a skill that should be reserved for Thai's only and we were worried you would fall and smack your head open. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
farangbah Posted October 9, 2012 Share Posted October 9, 2012 the room was on the house - everyone thought you needed a lie down as sleeping standing up is a skill that should be reserved for Thai's only and we were worried you would fall and smack your head open. Still managed to perform on the job, dude! But seriously, much obliged for the hospitality, brother. I've been burning the candle at both ends the past couple months... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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