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To share or not to share our best ladyboy intelligence and pics ?

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My initiative for starting this thread comes from private exchanges I am having with a BM who is reluctant to post exclusive ladyboy information because he cannot stand the thought of indiscriminately benefiting BMs he thinks undeserving.

That is a very familiar dilemma to me:  at PY I shared my best adventures and pictures knowing that I was giving away for free what took me much effort and money to learn or record.  And worse: the more I did it, the more I sparked competitive resentment from a few (I repeat: a FEW, not all!) BMs, some of whom even used my own shared content to personally attack me (eg: body art on ladyboys, pick-up techniques, etc).

But this thread is NOT about me or other unique content contributors and what motivates us: Altruism? Extroversion? Exhibitionism? Narcissism? A combination? IT DOES NOT MATTER.

This thread is about how YOU balance sharing your best ladyboy intelligence with the drawbacks from sharing it: heroes, haters, leeches, personal exposure, exclusivity loss, time and effort, etc… The objective is a collective reflection that I believe would also be helpful for admins who have to deal with the delicate balancing act of fostering high-quality exclusive content versus fulfilling BMs’ free-speech expectations, including the free-speech of BMs who contribute nothing or perversely.

I will start:  There was a time when, at PY,  I shared almost everything I had and even staged many of my interactions with ladyboys with a view to sharing them online subsequently.  Despite such dedication, it did not end well for me and I was banned.  Ironically, the banning came in the course of a TR where I was about to share my jewel of the crown which would have been explicit pics of the nude pool volleyball improv tournament I try to hold every year in AC with ladyboys, GGs and me and another white dude playing.  If I post a single pic from that tournament, I will give it all away: where it takes place, who plays.  It would become a piece of cake for another monger to stage a pool orgy knowing where it can happen; and even easier to stage a regular indoor orgy knowing which ladyboys and GGs are tri-sexual and horny enough to participate.  All he would need to do would be to track down one of them, mention the tournament, and tell which of the others to bring.  I am only human and it would sting like hell if a freeloader or hostile BM used my info to score himself some easy group sex action while laughing at me for sharing all the steps.  Plus, like the BM I mentioned above pointed out, if one gives away too much promising information, there may be a stampede effect from other mongers that will subsequently diminish your own experiences in regards to whatever information you shared. 

I have since my PY crucifixion become less generous and more cautious about sharing.  If anyone noticed on the TR I posted here at the Romscars Club I did not even reveal the names of the ladyboys and GGs I featured (I used Coca-Cola, Pepsi, Fanta, etc…).  I still posted nude pics, but much fewer than I used to at PY and none showing their faces.  And for some of the ladyboys, I drafted our interactions in a way that suggests I fucked them, but does not say I actually did it.  Unlike at PY, I was not concerned with hostile posts (that I can hoover here at the Romscars Club) but honestly I no longer feel like sharing my best tips and pics with indifferent (or worse!) BMs despite knowing that plenty more BMs would genuinely appreciate it and would post or +1 to show it.

This gentlemen, is the free-rider's quandary that keeps (i) me, (ii) the BM who contacted me, and (iii) I reckon some of you -- from being our most EXCELLENT and CHIVALROUS (sharing) which is what The Romscars Club seeks to promote.

Questions for BMs' discussion:
-how much are YOU willing to share online at ladyboy Boards and why ?
-what can be done to foster a Board climate that is conducive to as much sharing as possible?

In this regard, I would want to commend administration here at LBR for activating the Clubs feature that, as demonstrated by all 7 LBR clubs to date, is highly conducive to sharing high quality content by OPs reassured in advance they can defend themselves from threadfuckers who, as a result, are much less likely to try.

Thanks in advance for any input and cheers.

Rom
 

PS - I started this thread here at the Romscars Club not out of self-importance, but because I do not want to impose my existential questions on the Board-at-large.  In the spirit of sharing, if admins think it would be useful, you are welcome to move the thread to the questions section where it will no longer be under my hoovering power so that BMs who dislike me also feel at ease to express themselves.

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8 hours ago, Rom said:

Questions for BMs' discussion:
-how much are YOU willing to share online at ladyboy Boards and why ?
-what can be done to foster a Board climate that is conducive to as much sharing as possible?

I wouldn’t feel comfortable posting naked pics (not of me ...)  on any open board these days.  Having said that I’m not in a position to do so as I don’t play around and thus don’t get opportunities for room photos,  but unlike when I was first exploring the scene and posting all sorts of pics many years ago, everyone is so connected these days that anything that in any way may blow up in your face is best avoided.  
 I have heard that some guys have disappeared  into Line and Whatsapp groups to share juicy photos and info that in years gone by they would have posted on an open forum.  Clubs are a step in the right direction, especially when an owner may need to have something removed quickly and cannot get in contact with a moderator and can instead sort it himself.

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I got heroed twice at PY and don't need a third time.
Therefore I post on public fora only stuff that the whole world may read without backfiring at me..

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