bumblebee Posted May 20, 2013 Share Posted May 20, 2013 Just wondering how members view this wonderful LB scene we are so interested in, is it a pastime or a lifestyle. I'd loosely group the guys who are into LBs as follows - those who have never been with a ladyboy and live their lives through what they read on forums etc -those who are perhaps married/ in a straight relationship and only have a passing interest in something different and naughty, -guys who live for their trips to an LB destination and spend lots of time preparing for it online -those who actually live with an LB and it is a lifestyle choice for them This is just a general list of course and no doubt there are overlaps, but the question is how seriously do you take it all, is it just another of your interests/pastimes or does it occupy a large part of your lifestyle. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SiamSam Posted May 20, 2013 Share Posted May 20, 2013 I believe I am a combination of the second and third. I am currently in a straight relationship but have more than simply a PASSING interest in something different and naughty. AND I live for my trips to a LB destination but do not spend any time planning for it online. I like to spend time with ladyboys and enjoy their company a great deal. However I cannot imagine it becoming a lifestyle choice under the current circumstances in my life. Who knows what the future holds but I don't believe I'll find myself living with a GG or LB full time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KenW Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 I don't fit any of your 4 options bb. Nor any combination of bits of them. All things cock have constituted a serious lifestyle choice for me for some decades now. Far from merely a pastime. I partake of a spectrum that goes something like: LBs, femboys, gayboys, and even the occasional bit of blokey rough trade. While LBs are a significant chunk of that spectrum, they are not all of it, by any stretch. I also vastly enjoy perving on and flirting with GGs, and even fuck an occasional one. I haven't seen a delightfully attractive dog (or bitch) for some time now, but I keep my eyes (and my options) open. Living alone is now something I enjoy. I do not envision another relationship being entered into in the foreseeable future. With that in mind I have to comment re your option #4, I don't agree that to have a lifestyle commitment to my sort of sexuality means you have to be living with a LB. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stealth007 Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 I have tray a relationship with " Rubi " but at the end it did not work out because of many different privit reasons..... But one very important thing that i have realize during this peroide of time is that a relationship is nothing for me nor with a ladyboy or a GG i am to much of a full blooded player to get in to that main stream.... Been a image bender i love to fuck GG`s and Ladyboy`s during my vacation and at home and that will alway`s stay that way , because i dont realy see it as a lifestyle but more as a extra seks choice..... Greetz , Stealth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bumblebee Posted May 21, 2013 Author Share Posted May 21, 2013 I don't fit any of your 4 options bb. Nor any combination of bits of them. You certainly do your own thing Ken, Lefty is the only other guy who I can think of that rides the full spectrum from GG to ..extreme/borderline femboy and maybe beyond. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4:17 Posted May 21, 2013 Share Posted May 21, 2013 ... All things cock have constituted a serious lifestyle choice for me for some decades now. ... Ken, that should be the opening line of your memoirs. Or perhaps the opening line of the afterword. Living alone is now something I enjoy. I do not envision another relationship being entered into in the foreseeable future. ... I don't agree that to have a lifestyle commitment to my sort of sexuality means you have to be living with a LB. What he said. +1 times infinity. I don't seem to fit any of those options either; always been an odd man out, I guess. I like LBs (and have been into transgendered women to one degree or another for years), and seem to frequent them more often these days, but still love the GGs; the thought of never being with another lady that was born a lady would be a sad one. Also love Thailand in many ways; even if I wasn't into ladyboys and whoremongering, I would probably still be here, or at least somewhere in Southeast Asia. But being a butterfly man -- who loves them all, mind you, in all seriousness -- who lives alone is what makes me happiest. Footloose, fancy free and low key, that's me. And no, I'm not referring to the eponymous Rod Steward album. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bumblebee Posted May 23, 2013 Author Share Posted May 23, 2013 The 4 options were only loosing thrown together and are not a catch all as Ken and 4.17 have shown.. Personally it is a lifestyle to me at this stage, as the forum takes up a fair bit of my free time and there is a special lady back in Los. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pdogg Posted May 25, 2013 Share Posted May 25, 2013 For me it's a lifestyle and live with my ladyboy girlfriend when in Thailand. Back when I had a job in Falangland, I would live for my trips to the LOS. Before my first trip I had many relationships with ladies but also dabbled a bit with trannies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Foggy Posted May 25, 2013 Share Posted May 25, 2013 but the question is how seriously do you take it all, is it just another of your interests/pastimes or does it occupy a large part of your lifestyle. "I dont" take it seriously as far as a relationship is concerned and living with a Lb. If I do choose to have someone around full time then it would be a LB and not a GG now. This idea has changed after 50 years now that I live here full time and have the reality of choice that comes from experience and lifestyle. Having said that "I do" take it seriously from the point of view that I wouldnt have such a good love/sex life if LB's weren't about and I had to rely soley on GG's. Yes its another of my pastimes because, LB's GG's or any other type of opposite sex encounters on what ever level is only another ( although very enjoyable ) pastime. Not being full on relationship material my time is spent doing and pursuing many other passions. I would still live here in Samui even if the LB option wasn't available, I would just do as many others do and go to the places they (LB's) live for a 2 week love fest.. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JaiDee Posted May 29, 2013 Share Posted May 29, 2013 I used to be in the 3rd catagory, as in couldn't wait to get to Thailand to screw the ladyboys and looked forward to it all year. That kind of wore off after the first 2 or 3 years though, the ol' kid in a candy store problem. Now I am more of the regular tourist variety, enjoying the beaches and good nightlife more than anything; if sex happens with a ladyboy or a lady that's fine but I don't look forward to it all year like I used to when I was a 9 to 5 guy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
randiuno Posted June 18, 2013 Share Posted June 18, 2013 Pansexualist here...ladyboys,femmeboys, ggs,... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rizzardi Posted June 18, 2013 Share Posted June 18, 2013 I don't think I ever will get bored of this. You know once you've been witl ts you will never go back to normal. ;) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janabiyah Posted June 20, 2013 Share Posted June 20, 2013 Interesting discussion BB. As an old fart I'm not sure what I'm getting most of the time unless I put the glasses on and check carefully, so just have to be happy with what I get. Not really a lifestyle choice anymore, just take the hand I'm dealt. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eroticadventurer Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 Category 3..... live for my trips to Thailand still a newbie with only 2 trips under the belt.......1st trip was half GG and half LB's more because of the guys a hung out with.......who all were into GG's only.. 2nd trip met a LB on the 1st night who bowled me over and spent my entire holiday with her.....even went to her home village and met the family...very special........suspect she has moved to Australia with "another" BF/Sponsor. On returning home to Cape Town South Africa felt I could not wait for the next holiday and found 4 Thai p4p LB's here........tried 3 of them..4th one did not appeal to me at all.........1 good for an hour but unemotional.......1 pretty good but full of Sh.t........and the other 1 I have seen for 6 months with her regularily sleeping over (no pay)..........topsy turvy relationship changes constantly........not sure where it would go if I was prepared to support her parents who are 12 years younger than me and should be working.......so not an option.... LB,s a definate lifestyle for me now.......actually planning to move to the LOLB......Land of Lady Boys 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pdogg Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 On returning home to Cape Town South Africa felt I could not wait for the next holiday and found 4 Thai p4p LB's here........tried 3 of them..4th one did not appeal to me at all........ Always interesting to hear of the scene in far away (for me) places. Are the ladyboys working the street, the internet, or bars? I started a thread about South Africa. Perhaps you or anyone who knows the South African ladyboy scene could get the ball rolling? http://www.ladyboyreview.com/forum/index.php?/topic/3154-ladyboy-scene-in-south-africa/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eroticadventurer Posted June 22, 2013 Share Posted June 22, 2013 Always interesting to hear of the scene in far away (for me) places. Are the ladyboys working the street, the internet, or bars? I started a thread about South Africa. Perhaps you or anyone who knows the South African ladyboy scene could get the ball rolling? http://www.ladyboyreview.com/forum/index.php?/topic/3154-ladyboy-scene-in-south-africa/ pdogg thanks for your response. The only place I have found the ladyboys in South Africa is on the internet. www.sextrader.co.za www.esa.co.za Escorts South Africa www.cumtree.co.za www.badoo.com In order to kick start the thread ladyboy-scene-in-south-africa I will provide full feedback on there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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