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C'mon, you're hardly going out on a limb talking about musicals to a bunch of misfits like us. Try going on a forum dedicated to Musicals and asking if anyone else has a fetish for girls with cocks and see if you get such an understanding reaction Personally I've watched The Rocky Horror Picture Show more times than I can count but the only 'classic' musical I've watched all the way through (and really enjoyed) was West Side Story. I promised myself I'd watch some more after enjoying that but never got around to it.

If I had never been to Thailand then I would still be in a bad relationship due to the fact I wasn't getting any younger and was convinced that was the only option available to me. I always had a very good social life when I was younger. I would be out on the town most night with friends and also played in bands which while never successful did lead to one girl after another while moving in the right circles. When one relationship ended I would blink and be in another. I moved to a different town with a few friends, met new ones and the cycle continued. As I was getting into my late 20's I started to settle with one girl and the social life started to drop off. Some friends moved away and I lost contact with a lot of others. After a few years the relationship wasn't working out and I moved back to my home town which is where the real problems began. I had no social life at all now. For years the only outlet I had was work and although I got on with a few of the guys there it rarely carried over into things like going out as they were in relationships and at that time in their life where the social side seems to dry up. Then I met Angie. I met her on a rare night out and we started seeing each other. Looking back there were enough warning signs at the beginning but I had not been in a relationship for quite a few years and I suppose in the back of my mind was almost thinking this was my last chance. Plus it was nice to have sex again (even if it had soon become once a month if I was lucky). We were together four years and the second half of that time was going through the all too familiar cycle of me realising I was not happy with the situation, breaking up, then after a month or so feeling desperate and getting back together with her. This situation was not only making me desperately unhappy but was also having and adverse effect on my health. My parents had split up when I was young and as a result I had lost contact with my dad. During my relationship with Angie my mother died which was an all time low point and with no other family members left I tracked down my dad and started to rebuild a relationship with him. Through the next couple of years he got to witness first hand the turmoil I was going through in my relationship with Angie and would offer support (and somewhere to stay) during the bad times. The crunch came when me and Angie had once again split up and I was stopping at my dad's house. He'd been to Thailand a few times himself in the past and as it was coming up to my birthday he said "I've bought you an early birthday present, a return journey to Thailand so start saving some spending money!" That first trip I had just ten days in Pattaya but it was the most amazing ten days of my life. It really woke me up to the fun I could be having and made me realise how stupid I'd been putting up with all the misery of my on / off relationship with Angie. Needless to say, me and Angie never got back together but I have no doubt in my mind that if that trip had not happened then I would still be going through that unhappy cycle with her. Pattaya made me realise that the fun doesn't need to stop once you're 40. Every six months I can have two weeks filled with more than enough fun to put my younger years to shame. Sure, it costs money - in the eighteen months since my first trip I have already spent over £8,000 on my four trips but had I not been going would this money be sat in the bank? No. It would only have been wasted on buying crap that I don't even need. So, Thailand has been a big positive influence on my life. Sure there are times when it can be a rollercoaster of emotions but even when I feel low it's still a lot better than I felt in that bad relationship. As for my (relatively new found) attraction to ladyboys? Well, I suppose it's made me more open minded, put me in fun situations I never would have dreamt of previously and added enormous colour to my trips. Apologies for my life story, I didn't mean to go on so long

That's right. I suppose this is a small step towards further acceptance although I think it stressed in the program that acceptance generally only comes to successful individuals.

You've got the right attitude and I wouldn't lose too much sleep. The guys at work have known I go with ladyboys for a while now and we're all still good friends. I show them the photos from my trips and today I took in a copy of last night's program for them to watch just to help them understand a little bit more.

What an odd sight it was - a ladyboy gogo completely packed with customers lol. The girls looked great in uniform and a good night was had by all, hats off!

Oddly enough those were the two positions I was adopting last night lol. Lovely lady and I sincerely hope she gets everything she needs from this trip. I'll be there on the 13th to wish her well.

Thanks m8, and yes I am being a good boy - just ask the local transgender community. I took it like a 'man' last night. And this morning lol.

Looking forward to meeting you. it's not all happiness over here though, only this morning I was rudely awaken at six o'clock so she could boom boom my ass AGAIN! Oh wait, yes it IS good lol.

Just got to Pattaya last night and staying for 14 nights. If anyone fancies a drink my number is 0820890605.

Now THAT is what I call a fine pair of legs!

Looks very interesting. I only hope someone rips it and posts it online.

I've signed up with a couple of the dating sites just out of curiosity really and have found a couple of girls I'd like to see when I'm over there soon. Both work p4p so I'm hoping that my intentions are clear as it seems a bit of a muddy area using this route.

+1 m8. I bought your book a while ago but haven't read anything in ages tbh. Time to dust off the Kindle I think!

+1 Always makes me smile this song, hence my signature. :)

Some great tips, thanks! On my first trip I took a compact but could never be bothered taking it out with me so I used a camera phone from then on. I've (understandably) never been overly happy with the results so I went out and got a decent compact zoom for my upcoming trip. I'll have to force myself to keep it on hand but it should be a worthwhile upgrade.

If I know someone reasonable well then I'm honest about what I get up to. Where I work there are only four other people I work with at the moment and three of them know I go with ladyboys, the forth hasn't been their long so it hasn't cropped up yet. One of them is my boss, he's always interested in sex and perverted stuff (like Kylie Minogue peeing on him lol) so I had no problem telling him - he has since said he wouldn't mind trying one himself and he even gave me a link for a lb escort website so he'd obviously been googling the subject. The second is a young bloke I've always got on with well. Before I went to Thailand we'd both been to see prostitutes and had talked openly about the subject. He still states LBs are not for him but I've even told him everything I've done (swallowing, being topped etc) and it hasn't changed our friendship at all. The third guy is a bit weird and I don't know if he's even had sex before. He's homophobic, racist, against everyone actually so he'll not like it but to be honest I couldn't give a shit what he thinks of me. Since I told them things are just the same at work as they ever were. Someone else I know mentioned to me he'd seen some ladyboy porn so I told him I'd been with some. Again, no problem. What's really nice about a forum such as this however is we know we all like-minded and can immediately be open about our sexuality and desires. When I'm not in Thailand I know I can drop by here are read other peoples posts and feel comfortable that I'm not alone in my love of ladyboys. Basically I'm not going to go around shouting about it but if it comes up in conversation with people I know well then I'm honest. I feel there's a certain stigma associated with the subject but this is not going to get any better if people hide the fact. If it's always going to be our 'dirty secret' then it will always be looked at as odd. Homosexuality used to be something people were judged harshly about but with it being more out in the open for years it is steadily becoming more acceptable and not something to hide. Apologies for going on too long lol, be well :)

Hi m8, good to see you over here.

Looking forrward to this night. Hmm, which baby am I going to boom?

Yes, it's on Soi Buakhao, between the top of Soi Dianna and LK Metro but on the opposite side. Chow soi is on the right opposite Canterbury Tales. The rooms are really good value that's why they are always booked up well in advance. Even better value when it's not high season, I'm paying 600 per night in May. If anyone's interested the owners email addy is dazsomerville@hotmail.com Here's some more pics of the last room I had there.

LOL, well it looks like room 2 in Chow Soy is winning as the most popular location - I've got it booked for 6th - 20th May :D I stayed at Chow Soy last May (although it was a different room) and found it great. I couldn't get in there last October as you have to book WELL in advance so stayed at Metro Appartments on LK Metro which was also very good. Chow Soy Metro Appartments

Good to see you here BD, guess I'll PM you my number on here when I land in three weeks time.

I have no problem swallowing in fact last trip one of the girls came all over herself and I licked up every last drop. It's kinda nice when they come over me too and make a nice mess! I don't know why some GGs have an aversion to it.

Thanks for the replies, some good info there. Guess I should have taken my own advice there - I was eating sausage and chips when I scrolled down! Thanks, that's a great article!

First off apologies if you're eating, you may want to come back when you've finished. OK, I'm curious as to what are the techniques people here use for making sure they are clean before they get topped? During my recent trip I had anal for the first time and all the ladyboys I shagged were very clean in that respect. However, the one time I was topped I noticed afterwards that the condom she used was a little dirty (bear with me, I'm trying to use nice language ). Is this common and in future what are the best ways I can make sure I'm clean? Sorry if this thread is a bit gross.

I've never felt any kind of sexual attraction to men. Maybe the seed was planted by me liking POV videos of girls sucking cocks. I'd fantasise about these girls sucking me but every now and again I'd wonder what it would be like doing the sucking. Because they were POV I wouldn't see the man so this was ok. Problem is in real life these cocks were attached to men so I thought it would never happen. I was aware of ladyboys / shemales but they never turned me on until I went to Thailand and met them. It was probably when I was aware of their mannerisms and how they viewed themselves that I stopped thinking of them as men and the idea of having sex with them turned me on. I still like GG's but ladyboys give me different options and can make me feel dirtier in a good way.