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Following the thread's discussion on the meaning, here's a definition for the expression cheap charlie. The term "Cheap Charlie" originated from American soldiers during the Vietnam War, playfully describing fellow soldiers who were frugal with spending during their rest and recuperation (R&R) periods in Southeast Asia. Over time, the term extended beyond the military context and was adopted in tourism and nightlife. Its usage can be both playful and derogatory, depending on whether it's used to tease someone for budget-consciousness or to mock excessive stinginess. This term has globalized, fostering community among travelers, but cultural sensitivity is important in its usage. I saw the expression used in a website to describe the monger who refuses to pay for lady's drinks in Bangkok bars. I also saw it used by a bar owner (the so called Jimbo is a former bar owner now) to belittle the words of customers who criticized the quality of his ladyboys, his arrogance, and his contempt for customers. I have also seen it used on Thaiflirting by a ladyboy, ex bar girl retired in Issan. The ladyboy was asking for money to be sent her by WU and posted the "cheap charlie" insult to discredit those who refused in the eyes of other ladyboys. I managed to get her banned from Thaiflirting by the site's admin. Thai advertisers also use the term "Cheap Charlie" to attract customers who are budget-conscious. If a friend playfully refers to you as a cheap charlie, it usually suggests they've noticed your thrifty habits on occasion. However, if a foreigner, whether Thai or farang, whom you don't have a strong connection with, labels you as a cheap charlie, it should trigger an alarmin your mind. This could indicate an attempt to coax you into spending more or could even be used as an insult to discredit you in the eyes of ladyboys or possible mates, and even as a form of retaliation for your caution, making you feel uneasy.

Thanks for the explaination. I had never read about the concept although I saw many LDOP in a certain forum.

Ring the bell : in Thai bar, if you ring the bell, this means that you offer everyone a drink. Have a look at this thread and at this post. Scams : Thailand is not a dangerous place but getting involved with girls or ladyboys and having a GFE can lead to tricky situations. Cunning and unscrupulous people know how manipulate a disoriented tourist. However, the worst scams are often orchestrated by fellow foreigners (farangs). Have a look at this thread. Just think it's not a big deal to overpay for a ladyboy whose quality of service was disappointing. If you want to know more about scams, make a search in youtube. hundreds of videos explain scams. Just remember the best way to avoid them is to stay away from people you don't know who try to take control of your holiday or your money during your trip. Wingman : needless to define a wingman. The word probably comes from a wingman in a squadron but it's also used in business as a friend who will support you when trying to meet possible partners. I saw such offers in other forums and I know a few members used the services of a wingman. I had one when I first traveled to Asia. My company's boss had wanted me to travel with another department manager while prospecting for partners in Taiwan. The guy was older and taught me how to get rid of parasites who claimed to be able to act as intermediaries with a potential partner but had no idea where to find one. Of course, most of those who propose to be your wingman live in Pattaya, have posted several posts in a forum every day for years and know bars and ladyboys. But are you sure they will orientate you at your own advantage ? Don't forget that scams also come from farangs.

Oh ! Come on, don't be a cheap charlie. You'd like great in one of his scene suits to go to Emmy's bar.

LDOP ?

How about you ? Which item(s) will you purchase to show off in Pattaya or offer your favorite ladyboy ?

Does anyone want to add something on the concept or the idea ? Do you think that calling someone a cheap charlie is derogatory ?

As announced, I split this post.The purpose of the main thread is to help novices with essential definitions, not to list acronyms, self-understanding expressions or words. Hopefully, Rom will define those which are not.

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In your opinion, what is the origin of the expression before the 2000s ?

I think a few of them ae a little bit off topic. The purpose of the list is to explain a newbie how business works. I'll let you post definitions since you proposed the words; What's amazing is that I have never read nor heard of the first one. Hopefully, you will explain it well. I will just comment one :I never found a definition of cheap charlie, but I read it first in a website or a blog explaining bars in Bangkok. A customer who doesn't want to pay a LD to bargain of a ST with a lady is a cheap charlie, according to what I read more than 15 years ago. I think we can discuss the expression from many points of view. It would be worth creating a thread juist for this word. Later maybe. Very simply : the first time I read about ST, the website said it was about 1 hour and half i Nana Plaza. I thought that was enough time to f*** a ladyboy twice or thrice. I then noticed during my last but one trip in Thailand that ladyboys thought a ST lasts one hour. Once they restricted the term to one hour, they would take time to have shower, try to bargain money (and even a tip) upfront etc ... Then ST became what I once read as a quicky : take her paints off, make her suck till the guy's cock's hard, f*** and cum. Sad life.

Of course, I should have said that a LD includes afee for the lady (GG or ladyboy) to take care of the customer. I had posted "this is how ladyboys get commissionned" since they are not supposed to be whores selling their flesh in a shop, ST/LT are supposed (at least to maintain the appearance, at least from a legal perspective) extras. However, from my experience LDs sometimes allowed me no time just to get to know a ladyboy. Either I have 1 minuite or so to ask her for her price and the BF price, or I must add more money as in a coin pusher machine. I think it's better for a newbie to know all the elements of an evening budget rather letting the first bar empty his pocket. A BM who seem to be a newbie recently criticized this addition of prices and services. Newbies had rather know. Either they don't mind and that's very well or they do but instead of calling them cheap charlies just because they can't afford the high price, I believe it is necessary to explain them the pricing structures, or even show them alternative solutions. This addition of prices on the bill was not bothersome when prices were low, but it becomes an inconvenience for newcomers in the face of an almost exponential increase in prices (one year, just the ST price would be as high as the ST price + the BF price 2 years earlier), bar management and ladyboys sometimes shoot themselves in the foot). 1 hour and half became one hour, then one hour became a quicky. This is another way of creating inflation (like packs of crisps becoming smaller). I didn't even mentioned ST hotels closing time : a ladyboy id OK to go with a customer to a ST hotel but the customer doesn't know that the hotel will close at 11 PM, and it's already 10:15 or so. After spending time to talk a receptionist and wasting more time in useless explainations, the customer has only half an hour to do the deed.

Here's the one I was talking about; The pic must be around 7 years old.

You might be surprised but here is my first definition : Freelancers : many ladyboys work in freelance and many mongers forget about this fact. You can find freelancers in the streets, in Thaifriendly, using Wechat or any other mean. Ladyboys who don't freelance either work for escort agencies (very expe,sive), massage shops or bars. ST : short time. The first time I read about ST, that was supposed to last 1 hour and half. Since then, possibly due to hidden inflation, it has become less than 1 hour, possibly even shorter. LT : long time. Long time refers to the duration spent with a ladyboy, longer than a short time (ST). It is typically intended to last until the end of the night or even for 24 hours. While "long time" arrangements used to be more prevalent in the past, they have become less common now, largely due to the high prices for customers. When bargaining for a LT, it is crucial to clarify and ensure there are no misunderstandings regarding the duration you expect the ladyboy to spend with you. In addition to ST/LT, and in order to make sure of your budget you need to know more about your expenses. ST room : near bars or even in a bar, you can rent a room for a ST to have sex with a ladyboy. I think I will post more details on ST rooms later. Drinks : it may sound stupid but if you enter a bar to hook up a ladyboy, the first thing you are supposed to do is to order a drink. LD : lady's drink : before a ladyboy is allowed to spend time stting with you and talking of whatever subject you feel like, you must pay her for a LD. LDs are usually more expensive and you will be requested to pay for another one after a while. This is how ladyboys get commissioned. In some bars, ladyboys sometimes ask for another drink before you can conclude for a ST. Either they don't want to go with a custmer, or they want higher commissions but it displays a lack of tact on their part. on the other hand, if you spend too long a time chatting with a ladyboy, the mamasan will remind you she can't stay sitting with you unless you get another LD. BF : the bar fine. Initially, a BF is an amount of money paid to the bar to compensate the ladyboy's wage while she's out with you in your hotel or in a ST room. The BF had become a real system of royalties to increase bars profits. I don't know what's the amount of a fair price for a BF but some bars used to ask ladyboys to make 2 or 3 BF that would cover their evening's wage each. If you have been in some sexy clubs in Europe,they used to ask you to pay for "the champagne" to bring a girl back to your hotel. The BF is someting similar. The definitions above may appear naive to most mongers, but a beginner had rather know and understand them before embarking on the adventure. If you want to hook up a ladyboy in a bar, you will pay at least a drink or more, a LD or more, a BF a ST and in some cases a ST room. Now you can figure out your budget. Girlfriendly or ladyboyfriendly hotels : a legend was spread on the internet that only a few hotels would accept you to invite a ladyboy to your room and some guys tried to create websites to compete with booking.com (or other booking services) that were supposed to guarantee you book a ladyboy friendly hotel. In Thailand, 99.9 % of hotels are ladyboy (or girl) friendly. You feel stressed when checking in that they will deny access to the ladyboy you found in the neighbourhood. You will be surprised to notice that the night reception is held by a ladyboy who's too old or not pretty enough to go with customers, but she will like you as a ladyboylover.

Here's how I will proceed. I will provide some definitions that a novice may not be familiar with. Members are encouraged to add definitions they deem helpful for beginners. If anyone disagrees with a definition or if a controversy arises, the posts will be split into another discussion, and only the definitions that reach a consensus after deliberation will be retained.

Is this Noey the one who worked in a bar at Nana Plaza before covid and had gone to Singapore for a while ?

I noticed that we don't have a subforum to help newbies in ladyboys mongering. Worse, whenever a novice poses questions to which everyone knows the answers, it often leads to their public humiliation, overlooking the valuable opportunity for pedagogy. Simultaneously, it serves as a platform for less experienced members to share their recent encounters and experiences and to highlight recent changes on the scene(s).

I can see many Chinese ladyboys who don't look Chinese; This one here above is no exception. However, I feel curious to understand why "it mostly seems to happen in Shanghai." I collected Twitter profiles (as explained in another thread) and found ladyboys in several large cities. Although Shanghai was the top (36), I found almost the same amount of ladyboys in Guangdong(33) and Beijing (31). I'm curious to know how you contacted them. I have also recently come across information on ladyboys in China, primarily in Shanghai, but that doesn't imply they don't exist in other parts of the country. I don't see PI imports as local ladyboys. They are like Brazilian or South American shemales in Europe : expensive and offering a poor quality of service. I confirm I haven't found so many ladyboys in HK in my sampling. I don't find any advantage in going to HK since HK is now a part of China and the Chinese police is setting pressure on citizens. I'm surprised to read you've been in HK this year since I consider it's going to China. Although I haven't found the post I think I remember you posted you wouldn't go to China to monger. Perhaps you're lucky enough to go there for your job/business. (BTW, if you think I'm off topic, I can post this message again in another thread so that we continue dealing with the subject).

Alyssa : I can't help it. I like this skinny body look.

LOL Always stay awy from people on motorbikes in VN but go to a neutral place (ST hotel) if you don't trust your one night partner in VN. BTW, great pics by @The-Sith. I still spend more time trying to explore the Chine ladyboys world but everything is so opaque.

Thgis looks like Krabi near the Pak Nam Krabi river with a viw to the South East in the background .

The question is not to love flat chested. One can love a ladyboy with or without a flat chest depending on her own personnality.

Sorry to read you are tired of all these procedures. I have never pushed videos as far as you did (I posted one at LBR dealing Kim Jong One and 7 other ones in Vimeo, including another one posted at LBR and one that belongs to Rom). I tdon't think that Vimeo is a good channel to publish videos but it's usefll to host them. If you still feel motivated, you could try to create a twitter account. If you manage it correctly, (add a warning on videos), they won't suspend your account. But you can't monetize your views. Last week, I found something like a Chine Youtube : 哔哩哔哩 (゜-゜)つロ 干杯~-bilibili I don't know if it may satisfy you. Sorry not to be able to help you more.

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Sorry, but I feel like criticizing translations given in the previous page. Je t'aime, moi non plus would mean "I love you neither do I". I believed it had been created by Serge Gainsbourg but it existed before. As far as I know it was almot never used. It should be used to express a certain kind of ambiguity in romantic feeling. I also suspect that Gainsbourg used it ironically meaning "I love you for sex, but I don't love you". Always bear in mind the guy was altogether a genius, a junky and a sex maniac. @Rom is right mentioning BB (Brigitte Bardot had been THE sex symbol in France in the late 1950s and early 1960s and remains a sex symbol now that she's 89 years old) . The first version of the video was shot in 1967 with her but BB initially rejected its publication till 1986. Her relationship with Gainsbourg didn't last long. She had time to shoot a few videos with Gainsbourg's songs. Harley Davidson Comic strip Bonnie and Clyde BTW, in the above photos, I noticed that Gérard Depardieu played a role in this movie. I disagree with the use of Google translate for such a song. I measured the limits of google translate when controling my English or translating Vietnamese. The sentence says "je vais et je viens au creux de tes reins" what means "I'm going and coming in th ehollow of your kidney or your groin." Going and coming is the typical description of smooth fucking expressed in a romantic manner. Likewise, "le creux de tes reins" doesn't mean kidneys although "reins" means kidneys. The same word is also used for the back "mal aux reins" = "my back hurts". le creux de tes reins means "the hollow of your kidneys" or "the hollow of your groin", in other words your ass or your sex. French have several words for the ass. Le cul is now slang. The most common word is "les fesses". French have fesses (plural and one "pantalon" while English have one ass and throusers. "Le fessier" is used for the ass in medical terms and "les reins can also be used as above explained. So what Serge Gainsbourg sings is poetic or literary freedom to say "I'm fucking you" or "I'm fucking your ass". The above video was never allowed on the French TV, particularly at the time of General de Gaulle (and his wife who exercised a real moral censorship on the emerging television. Serge Gainsbourg came back on TV later around 1980 with Ecce Homo. Later in the 1980s he created a new scandalous song Lemon Incest (in English) that he sang with his daughter Charlotte, 13 years old at that time. It would be too long to explain the meaning and all the stuff but the song had been very controversial. He also published another song Love on the Beat (The title is in English but the lyrics in French describe a cunnilingus and a sodomy). He probably wrote the song "Harley David son of a bitch" that he added in his record in 1979 and was sung by the bollocks in 1986. Back to Jane Birkin, here's one of her greatest songs "Les dessous chics", one of the best songs by Serge Gainsbourg. PS : Gainsbourg also wrote the song that made France Gall win the Eurovision in 1965 representing Luxemburg with "Poupée de cire, poupée de son". France Gall complained years later of the salacious allusions in the lyrics she didn't understand as she was 17 years old. Here are more unexpected versions of the same song that I found ... guess where. Búp Bê Không Tình Yêu - NGỌC LAN BÚP BÊ KHÔNG TÌNH YÊU - MỸ TÂM Búp bê không tình yêu-THUỲ DUNG Búp Bê Không Tình Yêu - Angel Gia Hân And my favorite : LK Mùa Thu Trong Mưa & Búp Bê Không Tình Yêu - PBN 106 Fashion Show Áo Dài (Time for me to use it to go and sleep).