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I sort of look at it as the same as people who buy timeshare condos...you can claim the condo for yourself for the two weeks you are in Hawaii, and you know whenever you go back to Hawaii, you will get the same unit, with its concomitant characteristics. I remember my granddad and grandmother used to the go to the same hotel every year and the same suite to celebrate their nuptials. Why? They had good memories of the experience and wanted to make more, however, they could not guarantee the room wouldn't be booked when they wanted to go. However, a timeshare solves this problem. I think a working ladyboy gf is simply a timeshare relationship, I get my two weeks guaranteed. What I have discovered is timeshares are usually more expensive than simply renting the condo next door for the week. However, I can't always guarantee I will get the condo. So, It appears to me if a guy claims a LB working girl as his gf, he is simply saying that when I'm in town, we spend time together and she has agreed to spend her time with me. And he is agreeing to pay for that luxury and guarantee. Anyway, i'm very loosey goosey on my terminology...so any girl I'm not paying for is my girlfriend, if only for a one night stand...lol. I date many gg's in the US. I call them all my "girlfriends", and introduce them as such to my friends, but we are not monogamous, and until I call one a "wife" again, I don't ever plan on having any thing close to an expectation of monogamy. So, when come back to Pattaya, and a girl I meet at a bar decides to hang out with me and travel with me for a few weeks, she will be my girlfriend for my vacation.... And I would feel no shame or loss of face if I elected to do a timeshare with a working girl, and called her my girlfriend. It would simply explain to my mates on this forum why I show up all the time with the same girl.... she is the one who rocks my world in the pay 4 play world, and I would like to guarantee access, and calling her my "girlfriend" in Thailand and is generally much nicer than saying "my favorite whore who I pay1/4 the price of a whore I hire in the US, but who gives me 4 times the service." My two cents... Randi

The scion of one of the most powerful families in Chicago, if not the USA, and a decorated military officer, announced she is transgender. Amazing...the world is changing very very fast. Also, she is pumping real money into think tanks to address the issues of equality for the TG community at UCLA. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/23/jennifer-natalya-pritzker_n_3806126.html?utm_hp_ref=Chicago Cheers, Randi

The sad part is that the President I voted for twice (President Obama), doubled down on the same policies as the President I voted against twice (President Bush). It is clear the U.S. political class is owned by the business elite, so at least with respect to interest of business and international relations, there is no difference between the two parties. The drone program is probably the greatest enemy to winning hearts and minds that was ever invented. I have accepted that I am a member of the modern Roman Republic/Empire and basically anybody opposed will be eliminated. Chelsea and Snowden...they are terrorists...terrorists to the power elite, but not to me. I guess I have put myself back on the NSA radar by posting such comments on an internationally hosted website...or any website for that matter. Randi Uno...Commandante Zero of the Ladyboy Liberation Front!

@Globetrotter, I haven't been to Laos yet, so can't comment on anything there. I would agree with JaiDee that you should stick with Thailand if playing with ladyboys is your primary motivation for your trip. However, when I went to Siem Reap two years ago (has it been that long already.... ), there were enough ladyboys there to keep my attention in between touring the temples in Ankor Wat. Surprisingly, I didn't find a big ladyboy scene in Phnom Pehn, however, the GG action there is crazy and cheap, although a little depressing to me personally, but I know the guys who monger with GG's find Cambo GG action in the capital FANTASTIC. Finally, in the beach town of Snookyville, there was a smattering of LB's, so if you plan an excursion to Koh Rung, or Koh Rong Samloen, or trekking/mountain biking in the jungle national parks, then you can find a few LB's back in Snookyville to relax with to top off your adventures. In short, Cambo is a great adventure in an of itself, with the added bonus that if you look, you can find ladyboys as icing on the cake (think Pyramids of Giza, or African Safari with ladyboys extra), but if you just want a week or two of non-stop ladyboy action...stick with Thailand... Cheers, Randi

Was just in New York, and left Sunday morning...will have to get with you when I return.

Too lazy to copy and paste all 24 headshots on here of this years contestants, but the word from my contacts is that there is a little dust-up since several girls from the Manila area have entered the contest and raised the bar on the feminity level...anyway...my two favorites are attached...nothing like a ladyboy named Michael...Miss Isreal, and of course Nicole...Miss Peru and the BPO darling. Here is the link to headshots of official entrants. http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10151554147946611.1073741828.105242071610&type=1 Cheers, Randi

Hey Not sure what is going on with the link above, but here is the official Queen of Cebu facebook link. Also, the Filipina Songstress Regina Vasquez has signed on to perform at the event again. http://www.facebook.com/pages/Queen-of-Cebu/105242071610 Cheers, Randi P.S. Not sure if I mentioned this, but the Reigning Queen, Vanity Kitinar Salinana-Banks, recently got her bolt-ons and is looking hotter than ever.

Thanks..sat night now will look it up

A couple of days in the big apple...Is Esculitas bar the big think bar in New York. Any natives with current info on best spot for Friday and Saturday night for girls in a bar out club scene would be appreciated. Thanks in advance. Randi

Good one Stro!

One girl to hang with me LT or for my whole trip, but who doesn't mind me picking up one, two, or three other LBs for fun along the way. I guess you would call this "The Open Relationship Girlfriend Experience". No matter how much I want to monger around, I always find myself with a LB LT... Cheers.

Thanks for feedback...will probably end up in Pattaya in a 1000bht/night room losing my mind with 3 ladyboys a day, and worrying about the beach when I return...lol!!!

I love my Filipino girls, but thinking I might give Thailand another try. I went to Pattaya in November, and met some great members of this board...Bumblebee, PDogg, JimSlim, and others, and the girls in Pattaya are off the hook, and from a butterfly mongers perspective...very affordable. The only issue I have with Pattaya is that the beach is not really as pretty as some other places I have been. I suspect Phuket would give me the exotic relaxing beach experience I like during the day. However, how much ladyboy action (cost, quantity, and quality) do I give up by going to Phuket on my next trip as opposed to Pattaya? Also, I'm aware that the lodging is much more expensive in Phuket, than Pattaya, but this question is just related to the girls. Any feedback on the difference between the Phuket scene and Pattaya scene would be appreciated. Cheers, Randi

Hey RX....and now that the Filipinas are winning the Thai contests...ie. Kevin Balot...they definitely are world class lookers...

Yikes...I guess many of my fellow Americans still think we run the world...play my song servant! Anyway, bad behavior leads to bad results no matter where you are in the world.

The 2013 Queen of Cebu Pageant for Alternatives had its annual screening on August 3, 2013. The 21 contestants for the annual pageant scheduled for the second week of November have been selected. The pictures of the 21 girls are attached below for my fellow pageantnistas to enjoy. My favorite is Nicole (Middle Row First on Left), but she is an under-dog since she was past over last year, and works at the same organization as the reigning Queen. Maybe Stealth can give us some more intel on any of the girls. If anybody is on the ground in Cebu, and can provide intel I'm sure us Filipino ladyboy lovers would be appreciative. Cheers, Randy

Over the years of my varied ladyboy adventures in the States, I have helped many girls get various amounts of work done..bolt-ons, butt pumping, and facial hair removal among others...Each of the girls was appreciative, and I have no regrets. Not sure if I would spring for such things for a girl in S.E. Asia unless I was on the ground full-time in Thailand, Philippines, or wherever my sponsee was located...I mean...I do want to be able to enjoy my investment!!! IMHO very few things make a girl happier than being able to look more feminine, so I know when I help a girl with body modifications that she has been dreaming of for years, she is very happy. The key, and this goes for simple mongering as well, is to make sure I can look in the mirror and say...I'm living well, my kids college education is funded, I have savings for a rainy day, and all my personal and business obligations are met. If I pass this test, then what else is there in life except helping others and making them happy or better off. ( I guess I could sit around and count my money, or move to a bigger house). My half cents worth. Cheers, Randi

Wow...on my list for sure!

@ Ernesto, I tend to agree with Stealth's observations, although there is a cottage industry of girls hanging out in internet cafes trolling the internet for long distance boyfriends and sponsors who will give them money periodically. Unfortunately, a VERY large number of girls on www.pinalove.com; www.ladyboykisses.com, and the other sites are doing this. I would recommend using these sites one to two weeks before arrival in the philippines to let them know you are coming into town. Then, when you meet you can give the girl "cab fare" after you meet, and be done with it. If you attempt to build a network more than two weeks before arrival, and maintain it after you leave, you will surely be hit up for money, and regardless of whether you say "yes", or "no", they will attempt to hit you up again. The sad part is many of the girls literally have nothing...it is worse if you get involved enough to visit their baragay, and see their appalling living conditions. It takes a hard heart not to send some money after that experience...so it is best never to go back to their village, unless you really want to commit to helping out periodically. Of course, if you are making a comfortable income, helping a girl with $100 every couple of months will make an material difference in her life, and you can feel good about doing a good deed. I have no regrets about any of the help I have given to the girls I have met in person. If I haven't met a girl in person, she gets nothing. However, if you are serious about a relationship, take some time and meet the college educated girls working in call centers or as nurses. It takes a little time to find them, but once you befriend one on facebook, the whole network of college educated middle and upper class girls is right in front of you. These girls do not need your money, and many have too much pride to ask. If you have decided to stop hard core mongering, you will find the most faithful, loving, and supportive ladyboys anywhere. Then, you will have to decide if you want to make the big commitment... My two cents...which may only be worth a penny! Cheers, Randi

Ahhh...very Nice...very nice indeed.

Anybody been to Cam Sur? Saw some pics of the place taken by my international traveling superstar ladyboy escorts...looks very nice, but not sure about the budget. Cheers, Randi

I actually found Jomtien very peaceful and restful last year when I visited Pattaya, with easy access to Dongtan Beach, but each his own.

Sounds like an overall business opportunity for those enterprising souls in the healthcare field...thanks for feedback Dazed.

Found this article interesting...Cebu, Chang Mai, Kuala Lumpur, and Georgetown in S.E. Asia made the list. Any comments from guys on the ground about this assessment. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/07/09/retire-overseas-health-care_n_3562596.html

Cool... Cool...missing Mango Square....Might need to hijack a plane to get back to Philippines...can you imagine the headline.. "Deranged terrorist hijacks plane, demands ladyboys for ransom!". Note: I hope my quote above doesn't subject this site to enhanced surveilance by my countries NSA...but of course they already know I'm just a harmless whoremonger, and have all the ammo they need to discredit me already...lol...