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nice report so far Rom! waiting on more BKK news. and how about my favorite places in Pattaya..... KRU, Fantasy Lounge and 69? And how about the vibe of the girls? Jaded....angry....or bright and so happy to see the business and fun returning? (I know unfortunately the various LB places at Soi BBoom are no longer. How about the places above?) i dont have my Pattaya street creds of living there or having dozens of trips under my belt like others on this Forum..... but wasnt Buakhao the rockin place in recent years? I found by 2017 it had the best raw vibes for LB Lovers.

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There is another thread with Overrated Bands... surprising that there seems to be consensus on who those are....such as The Who and Genesis and The Doors. How about UNDERRATED BANDS?

it's only relevant with girls who are new to blow jobs.... the kind I would get in high school. After 5 or 6 times where they nic the guys cock they learn.

OH WOWOWOW! I now write part II of my evening. I realize everything above was written with a negative feeling. This second girl was at my place within 1.5 hours of the prior debacle. She is a repeat..... from a girl I met 2 years ago. She is so feminine and pretty. Looking at their Tinder pictures.....they look comparable...Even with respect to penis size and functionality the prior date wins by miles....... But the vibe is the massive differentiator....as well as smell and softness touch and positivity. Did we ever click. She is so girl and such good vibes... we had the best time. I now feel totally satisfied and super high spirits. If I hadn't rectified the potentially failed night, I wouldn't have this orgasm high to carry w me for the next several days or even weeks! like I said in my earlier post in this thread....if a "date" goes poorly and we are at the intimacy stage of sex....I find that it can fuck up my vibe for the next few days and even longer. Yet the opposite is also true...a great sexual experience can leave me glowing for days and even weeks....especially lately as I mature. Damn! was it ever the right call to: 1. set up backups for the evening prior to meeting the first girl. Have a Plan A and also B and C at the ready. 2. correcting a bad night and making it good...or even great! tonight was total fun! A garbage dumpster fire replaced with a ride on a unicorn. and I think I might keep this little lassie around! lesson learned..... if a "date" isn't going right.... cut bait and exercise other options immediately.

fuck I just had an encounter that failed. It wasn't a star fish.... it turned out to be a gay dude in a wig that couldn't speak English and the vibe was really not that great. And although attractive and fem looking.... the energy was not feminine. The feeling was not girl. And the behavior was really weird and not pleasant. So I did what Lance suggested...... and paid her/him and showed her the door quickly.... now I have texted another one to immediately fix this issue and have a Plan B girl coming in....... (my whatsapp phone just rang....gotta go)

each of the badges and higher tiers of awards on LBR affords certain monetary benefits. I think once Rom achieved "Big Swinging Dick" status he had his 2022 travel budget covered.

finally, all the pretty girls can get caught up on their Ernest Hemmingway study! the Professor is back!

agree Elton might be in the over rated bucket. But he did his own thing and did it with longevity which means a lot. So I didn't classify him as over rated. Do you know what Mr. Brownstone is about? it is the epitpme of rock and roll. but everyone has their own view....especially music.

I have to call out whoever thinks Guns is overrated. see those pictures of an early Axel?..... that's channeling Sid Vicious..... serious youth rage. Total unicorn group. nothing overrated about it.

what about Mr Brownstone and Civil War..... just to name 2. Guns had so many amazing songs. The Clash (which is a cool group) didn't have so many top tracks. and i think Bruce Springsteen cant even hold a candle to these two.... The Clash and Guns and Roses.

totally disagree with Guns. in my opinion... they were the last great rock band that embodied the spirit of rock n roll. they were bad ass....progressive and self destructive with kick ass songs. nothing cool came after them ... that's why rock is so boring now.

with the braces....she looks 32

....and then the solo acts of pretty decent groups.....Sting kind of took himself too seriously. Bono was not that cool.

totally agreed and wow! I am really impressed with your insight because I felt the same way about all these guys at one point in my life..... but have ridden the bang wagon w all of them except Nirvana (bc I was passed teenage hood when they came out and I can't as an educated adult pretend to like Nirvana....but I did for the other three. and after LOVING the doors as a kid yet ultimately realizing how contrived it was, and rocking to the Who with some straining effort..... i still think the Beatles have merit. So many styles and offerings and univesral cheer came from them and that means something. But now Genesis on the other hand was way over rated. I think Metallica is ridiculous too.

it's your money and more importantly, your time and energy. Definitely cut bait and move on.

the young ones are spoiled.... particularly in Asia where customers will put up with that because she looks youthful. there are a few things help avoid this problem.... 1. try to target girls 21 and above. 2. spend time feeling them out before hand via go go bar or text messages 3. once it starts to get uncomfortable.... back up and just move to cuddling and heavy petting. In fact I'm always doing this because even with the "pros"....the more comfortable and horny you make them....the more they give you their best shag. 4. alcohol!! this last one is the trick every guy was taught since a young lad. Give them 2 or 3 drinks and just chill. WE even need it once in a while....whether it's to over look a double chin or stubble chin. Alcohol is lubricant of the ages. I find shitty or unsatisfactory rendezvous fuck up my vibe for days or even weeks.... just as great experiences uplift my vibe for days or even weeks after. So for me anyway, it's imperative to get it right. I always apply the above to every date. It's good you kicked her out quickly.

sexy time!

I said sports. I know some try to include Golf and Bowling in that category. Just like some try to include Drag Queens in the category of Ladyboys. Drag Queens can keep going till their 50s! know what I mean?

LBs over 40 is like professional sports stars over 40. Best to exit the pro game by early 30s.

I think you may be projecting. Both the power bottom part and the piss part. i have an idea what a power bottom is.... because someone has bottomed and likes it doesnt make them a power bottom. i like anal stimulation....... I am a natural top that likes the additional physical pleasure of having my ass stimulated. someone who fantasizes about being a power bottom or passed around as a party bottom or being engaged in piss play should more actively pursue it. While keeping it safe..... go for it Rom!

no offense taken on any of this. I'm totally cool with what I like and very aware of what gets me pleasure and tolerant with what others like and tolerant with myself too........ that's the definition of "cool". I'm a natural top.... and anal pleasure heightens my fun. With GGs.... I'm always top...100% of the time. I don't bother letting them peg me because I don't think its something they can really do. with LBs I use to be 100% top.... and now do both. I totally agree with the HIV factor. it's horrible. And so my rendezvous are careful and always with condom and not frequent for actually taking a cock in my ass. I might include PrEp into this but its not so easy to get. But whenever I can..... I have them playing with my ass with their fingers....tongue....and toys. And sometimes their dick. And my sexual experiences have gotten way better because of this! as the drummer at Spinal Tap said..... Have a Good Time, All the Time!

are you kidding me? the minute we laid our eyes on each other the first time...... in Fantasy Lounge around 6pm so it was still daylight outside.... I grabbed her and gave her the deepest most romantic kiss of her life. I held her tight in a way to tell her she was all mine. I bought her a beer and said she would be coming with me all night and morning. And I fed her the most romantic words I could. She melted in my arms......... and became my little kitty Kat (she had the super short tiger hair back then). We deep tongue smooched at the bar for about 30 minutes before going any where else. I think it was that type of domination that brought out the animal in her. Remember.....for a male/transwoman/nonbinary with a cock to fuck and cum seven times in one night..... something has to induce it. I was the one forcefully shoving my tongue down her throat.

I got jail raped 7 times one night... not 6 times. I watched my dignity swirl down the shower drain early Sunday afternoon at the Pattaya Hyatt after an entire Saturday night and Sunday morning of being ass pounded. my last shower was to remove Bukake off my face which was preventing my eyes from opening so it was time to clean up a bit. For me..... I ALWAYS like anal stimulation. Masturbating as a early teen prior to getting with girls...then after losing virginity.... Fingers and tongues with GGs....well before getting into LBs. But during my time with LBs.... I would have to force myself to actually get topped because I rarely found it comfortable (in comparison to fingers and tongues) and generally find it difficult having a cock pounding my ass in and out. I was just going thru the motions.... eventhough I didnt really find it that fun. With some tricks LBs have taught me to control breathing and becoming more relaxing I find that getting topped is an interesting and fun aspect with LBs.... currently I try to have 75% of my Trans encounters top me because if I want to exclusively top... I prefer to top GG Vag. GGVag feels much better for me and I'm not as enthusiastic about banging any ass these days......the size and angle and the condom all tend to make a substandard experience versus vag fucks....IMHO. As I get older, my cock sensitivity and ability to come quickly multiple times in a day has substantially reduced. Getting anal stimulation....which includes the girls licking me, fingering me, using toys and topping me.... allow me to have super super intense orgasms because they combine penis stimulation with anal stimulation that bring me to a totally new level of energy explosion. Its sometimes so crazy I can't move for 10 or 20 minutes after because I am so depleted. My orgasms last 2minutes... 5 minutes....even 10 minutes non stop!!!! GGs who witness this fear that i may have had a heart attack the orgasim is so intense and part way between my flopping in ecstasy on the bed i have to yelp out "everything is ok"....so they stop feeling i might be dying and calling 911 might be in order. The enhanced fun is mostly from the combo of penis and anal stimulation with toys and tongues... (versus actually getting topped by a penis). Basically including my ass as a sexual organ into my encounters has taken what is a declining physical sexual life in my late 50s to become the best its ever been in my life....ever!! More fulfilling than even my 20s and 30s...... my sexual energy, orgasms, comfort with self and absolute satiatation with pleasure every time that leaves me with a glow and great feeling for weeks after, all come with using both of my organs during the act of sex. It's not 1+1 = 2 but more like 1 + 1 = 5. My ass has stepped up just at the right time and "buttresses" my prior penis-only sex life to glowing results!

BTW I had to get a real nonbinary to explain this to me as well! but stop reading and get out there and find one and fuck them to find out for yourself.