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New beautiful ladyboy in my bar

The gorgeous Miss Sindy at the Studio 131 party. #labambalovelies

thanks for add my bar

Yep, he has a pretty nasty rep on LBP.

One from last night's 70s/80s Disco theme party. #labambalovelies

Interesting thread, I never noticed what others are doing in the LB boys, I go for the ladyboys.

Oh, is this another sycophant trying to get stuck up Spike's arsehole, maybe? Or, are you one of his in-crowders, by any chance?.. His bar does kinda sound like it's right there up at the top of this thread's shit list. It's fukin' obvious it's going to be over Ying!

Yes, I'd have agree with you Kendo, 555... I've always thought that there was a slightly self satisfied & superior attitude from some of the stalwarts on this site towards LPB... Sorry, slapped wrists lads And if I want to be really honest with myself, maybe I can be a little bit guilty of it too?.. In spite of that, I'll still post there from time to time, but not a lot, as I find that there's a multitude of different little 'FORUM' tribes that are never going to gel together, & are always going to be at each others throats exhibiting extreme prejudice towards one another... Add to that the prevailing smutty, 'teenage' farty pants attitude & topics full of utter vulgarity with no real humor, content or wit attached, & you've got somewhere I don't want to be lot of the time... They're poor little, snotty nosed, insecure boys, huddling together to give themselves some type of strength or voice from within their nasty & conceited little clubs! The brand of forum elitists' who I was banging on about, have always clustered together on PBP (they are definitely there, PDogg & Sam)... And I've been very vocal in my condemnation of them over the years & will happily continue to do so .... They're the forum 'good ole' boys'.. Has I have often referred to them

Whether you first introduce yourself by your proper name or a forum name says something I reckon. I always introduce myself by my real name, and if asked do I post on forums I say sometimes and leave it at that. It's only if the other person then pushes further and asks under what handle do I say Bumblebee. Only then will I ask their handle also if they haven't given it already. I reckon there is a sort of arrogance about guys introducing themselves straight off to strangers in a bar by a forum name, it's like they are saying 'yeah its the great me' you are chatting to. There is one well known guy on the scene who always introduced me to guys in bars by my handle and I always felt awkward when he did. It felt like the alias was more important to him than the actual person.

In a way, one could certainly perceive it that way. I guess guys who have been round a long time, as PD stated, have an affiliation that has grown over years, and hence developed a circle of friends, some now very close friends, others just guys who are decent enough to have a few beers with if they are in the same bar at the same time. This forum probably is very guilty of this, as the vast majority of the guys on here have known each other for the best part of 10 years. Where I would disagree that it is snobbery, is that the guys here are always welcoming when meeting new guys, or other guys not so new who just don't happen to post here. The first line of conversation is rarely "what is your name on THE FORUM", and the stalwards here would never walk away if the answer was "I am not on the forum/ I don't read forums" etc. This has happened to me recently directly last month, where a LBP guy walked off to join the other FORUM guys when I said I don't post on THE FORUM!!! Additionally, when guys here meet up, conversation around forum activity is very minimal, the subjects are wide and diverse, generally, however LBP guys, to me, seem to centre an entire evenings conversation around THE FORUM. But I do take your point Kendo, and it is a valid point.

When a guy is new to the scene, he's often anxious to make friends. Once you have a dozen friends then it's less important to make even more new friends. So to me, this perceived snobbery, on both sides, really comes down to just guys hanging out with their mates. There would be numerous late nights at EZY Bar where the bar would be packed yet I'd know every farang in the room. The guys from Stogie's Forum and the guys from LB-69 all seemed to know each other and most of us were relatively new to the scene anyway. Now there's so many more guys on the scene that it's impossible to know everybody. But the universe does not solely consist of forum guys. I have two lifelong str8 mates who spend lots of time in Thailand and neither of them post or even read Addicts or any of the other straight monger forums. Likewise there are guys who just want to barfine a ladyboy and have no interest in making farang friends. They aren't snobs; they're just doing their thing. I'm not going to go up and shake hands and introduce myself to some guy who playing with ladyboy dick in Lita Bar. I'm lucky that I've made so many good friends in our scene. This certainly would not have happened if it wasn't for forums. But hanging with your mates can often interfere with getting laid but hey we're social animals and it's fun to swap war stories with the bros.

Jeeezus... What a club to want to be in!!! I've met some great blokes through these forums, I really have... But, as soon as I get someone who wants to talk forum, I'm off!.. In the main part they're Fukin' anoraks' & C.B. enthusiasts'.. Have you noticed that they've usually got something a bit gimpy going on. At the other end of the spectrum I've witnessed an incredible inverted snobbery from what I'd call 'forum elitist's', BM's who think that they're right at the top of the pile & only want to talk to the other 'right stuff' BM's... What an absolute bunch of cunts!

I've been introduced to a few guys like that , you know this is such and such from THE FORUM they always greet you with a big smile probably hoping you are gonna compliment them on their posts or something . If you say you don't really read or bother with forums the conversation stops there . To be honest I take people as I find them so why should meeting some guy in a ladyboy bar be any different to any other walk of life ? We are all normal people (mostly ) It seems rather shallow to me that some stranger would feel the need whether to speak to you or not based on your perceived cyber profile . I've also noticed that a lot of people in real life are not the same person they portray in cyberspace . If they are a wanker on forums you will not be disappointed - they are always a wanker in real life too , but there's so many guys who are very vocal and seem outgoing online yet are quite reserved even dare I say odd in real life . It suits me fine to be unknown and fly under the radar , I don't want to be known that way I get no grief from both ladyboys and BM's .

yes i heard a couple of stories the same.....what a bunch of wankers