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Makes me sure I need to retire soon.

Sitting in Hong Kong feeling sorry for myself. Who'd have thought 3 months wouldn't be enough.

Yea. I'll make sure to visit Thailand also. I don't know when exactly.

Going home in 3 days. Who'd have thought 3 months wouldn't be enough. I'll go back to work for a couple of years and use that time to tie up loose ends. I would like to get back here next year but I'm not sure if its possible yet.

I prefer the company. But if I don't feel comfortable then she has to go.

The girl I'm with is 15 years my junior. I'm 42 she 27. I think it is pretty perfect.

Finding a place at local rates on less than a six months contract is difficult

I'm staying at GE Homes in mobolo. Nothing special but for p20,000 pm its as good as I could find in Cebu on a monthly basis. Strawberry residence is nicer and p25,000 but books up quickly. Santini place is p35,000 pm and is really nice. This is what I know of the areas in Cebu which are convenient. You can get pension houses and guest house for approximately p1200 per day. You can get cheaper but I wouldn't expect western standard .

The purpose of the trip was to see was this a place I could retire to on my modest pension. With a view to enjoying a few ladyboy companions at the same time. Today I find that my pension is enough to live here. However I won't be ready for about two years. As for the ladyboy question. This place exceeded my expectations hugely. There is an abundance of very attractive girls with most wishing for someone who will just treat them nice and not play them. So overall I would say it exceeded my expectations. As a caveat I have to say there are many things frustrating about the Philippines. The service industry is very poor by international standards. But the people you meet make up for it.

Hi Stealth. There are very few typical days. Much of the time I'm going on an adventure planning my next one or recovering from my last. I'm not getting any younger lol. My medium plan is to return home next month and start planning my next trip. My longterm plan is to prepare for a decent retirement while I'm young enough to still enjoy it. Maybe in 2 or 3 years.

Thanks. No BB. Finances won't allow. Having too much fun here. Yea Xmas is a lot different here. Did the Philippines Xmas yesterday. Going to the Radisson for Xmas dinner today.

I wanted to say Merry Christmas to all the members here especially those who gave me advise.

I don't think that they're better just not the same. I can go either way and be happy with the right girl. I have found while they accept many things a ggirl won't they have other issues to negotiate. If you get into a relationship they can be very emotional and jealous. I think it could be the hormonal imbalance. But if its only short time its hard to beat the fun you can have with a tgirl.

Its not too bad here in Cebu. Pretty much the same as a rainy summer day in Ireland BB. But I know those northeast of me are not so fortunate.

Update I left the hotel. I'm now staying at a condo/studio apartment. Its in mobolo and costs p20,000 pm. I found places from p13,500 all the way up. For something in a good location someone should budget for between p20,000 and p35,000 per month on a 3 month lease. If you stay longer than a year you can signicantly reduce this. I found a place within walking distance of ayala mall. If your looking for girls go there in the evening. They're usually in the terraces TGIs BOs or just walking or eating. You won't be looking long before you see some. Just say hi. They will do the rest.

Im in cebu getting ready for dinner with this fine lady :) It doesn't get much better.

I think you're right Hefe. Its now 3pm and I'm wrecked. But I have things to do. I got invited to a get away this weekend to a beach resort. At least 2 ladyboys will be going. Also was contacted be another who wants to meet up soon in cebu. Decisions. Hard to choose. As much as I'd like to go to the beach resort I have to get my accommodation sorted for next week so I think I'll give it a skip. Even though the probability of being the filling in a ladyboy sandwich is high.

So much for pacing myself. Its 2.29am. I'm in bed not even a beer in me. I met girl 1 today. She was very nice to me.

Not really what I expected. It's kinda like a poor Mediterranean city. I got into mactan/cebu airport at 1145 yesterday. I was very tired from the journey. Getting through the airport was painless enough. Got money from the ATM outside and got a taxi to my hotel. I thought the taxi driver was nice he pointed out some landmarks as we were going. The hotel is not the best but OK. I found it difficult to sleep with the noise of the aircon so I rested a while then I went to buy a local phone and eat. I thought I'd walk for a while and try to get my bearings but felt lost straight away so I stopped a taxi so I wouldn't look like the lost stranger in the wrong side of town in the dark. Stopped at Ayala mall. I read this place was big. It open big but after walking around it it was pretty easy to find everything. I picked up some price guides and went for something to eat while I looked through the various models. I ended buying a cherry mobile cosmos s. Very similar to the iphone6 but Android. I needed to charge this so got a taxi back (taxis are cheap here). I decided to go out for a beer while the phone was charging and as I. Irish and passed an Irish bar on the way to the hotel I decided to find it. Again I decided to walk. This time I didn't get lost. Found marshals bar and orderd. Pretty soon I had a British guy and a phil/american sitting next to me. The British guy was about 28yo and was back packing around. The American was an exconvict avoiding jail in the US about 50yo. Pretty entertaining. We were joined later by a couple of cute girls who made it obvious that they were available I however wasn't in the mood. There was a guy playing guitar and singing and I was just happy to chill. I lefty 2am and walked back to the hotel. I was approached by a girl and her friend who offered a party but again I was just thinking about sleeping. Lying in bed now 7.50am thinking about getting up. I missed a call and texts from a ladyboy I am to be having breakfast with but I think she is sleeping now. I'll update soon.

Ok last check in here before I leave home. Its 5pm hehe and ill be leaving the house at midnight. I will get a bus to the airport and relax there for a an hour or s before my flight. First stop Amsterdam then hongkong then Cebu about midday Tuesday. I think it will be about Wednesday before I check in here again. I'll give you mu first impressions then.

I don't understand why this is news at all. Should all straight and bisexual transgender and tgirl lovers all follow suit and publicly declare their sexuality. Really I don't see why he felt he had to "come out". Its his own business and AFAIK he never made it a secret but chose not to publicise it. I respect people who keep their personal life separate to their professional life.

OK a week to go. I have nearly all I need. I have bags packed tickets, maps, phone numbers. I have divided my budget in three parts. First is accommodation in Cebu for 3 months. Even though I will not spend all my time in Cebu I like to have the security of a fairly permanent base of operations. This works out approximately $2000 for the trip. Second is travel and resort accommodation. This is also $2000 and should be enough to spend time travelling to Bohol, Dumaguette, Moalboal, and a week or two in Thailand. When its gone its gone. Lastly my entertainment and living budget. This is about $400pw. I know its not lavish but should be sufficient for a good time. Lastly is an emergency fund of $1000. If its not needed it will be spent towards the end of the trip. I have used US dollars as most people can relate to them. I think this might be the kind of information people are interested in. I also have phone numbers for several girls. Two I will definitely be meeting and a few others just in case. Three months of planning and chatting online to many girls. Hoping that it bears fruit.

I think the main issue BB queries is the short timeframe not so much where they met. My own opinion on it is if he realises its all a charade and is just going along with it then fine. I think the trouble begins when guys believe the fantasy. I think its certainly possible for a real relationship to come from a client/bargirl beginning but it would take me a lot longer to proceed with this and not something I would like to happen.

My guess is its on the girls request and many just go along with it. Maybe don't know any better.

I'd love that budget Hawkeye. I cannot see any problem with that amount.