Uncle

@ uncle..nice post...i like the

 

"I've found it's always good to have hopes and dreams as they tend to pull you through life."

 

....for the last 4 years ive decamped to asia for the winter months...i can live there ok largely because like BB im happy enough to live simply....i'm not a party animal .

  I got so friggin depressd xmas time 4 years back,i promised myself that as long as i could do,i'd spend winter in asia....and that simple plan keeps me going thru the drudgery of my daily life-555

 

I'm not sure i could burn all my bridges ,sell everything and move to LoS,...I like to have a plan B in case the shit hits the fan...so at the moment,i'm happy how things are...

Thank's willie,

I'm also looking at escaping winter down under (even though we just had our warmest winter since recording began 150 years ago) which from my end of the world would mean spending the low season in Thailand.

I'm a minimalist and more than happy to live with the bare essentials of life which is another thing that attracts me plus I'm sick of finding a bill everytime I open my letterbox. 

This is a timely topic for me as lately, like a lot of other BM's, I've been giving this subject a lot of thought.

Speaking from experience I can say the idea of moving to live in the place where you take your holidays can be very alluring but as with a lot of things the reality is not always as good as the fantasy.

I tried this once in Australia and one of the things that affected me was having to work to survive in my idea of paradise. I don't mind working but doing it in the place where you should be having a holiday changed the way everything looked and felt.

The other mistake I made was burning all my bridges, selling my house, quitting my job etc as I was very confident things would work out. The result was a giant catastrophe which cost me a lot of money and my wife (funny how those two things go together) and it took me several years to re-establish myself back in my home town.

Lately I've been looking at Thailand and surrounds as a 6 months on 6 off proposition so I've invoked what I call my 4 year plan. 

In a nutshell In 4 years I'll be 61 years old, completely out of debt and in a position at work to take extended leave with pay. I intend to spend a couple of years doing what bumblebee does with the added benefit being I'll be on almost full pay.

If things work out I may quit my job at 63, get hold of my superanuation and spend 6 months of the year living in South East Asia and 6 months working casual back home.

If I feel I don't want to live this way I'll just stay at work until I retire at 66 years when I'll qualify for the Age Pension or part there of. Then I'll buy a motorhome to live in and take holidays in LOS when I feel like it.

I've noticed on the forums this subject seems to create a lot of arguments as to what it costs to live in Thailand long term so it was refreshing to read your post bumblebee and to see a picture of what is possible. 

Being a confirmed bachelor, and apart form the sex on tap, the availability of laundries, cheap food, cheap transport, cheap rent etc and being entertained by just going for a walk is something that really appeals to me about Asia. 

I wonder if anyone has thought about farang nursing/retirement homes in Thailand. Could be a growing market there.

I've found it's always good to have hopes and dreams as they tend to pull you through life.  

Thank's Quietguy I completely missed the link in BB's post (must be getting old). I'd feel comfortable on that bus so I think that's the way I'll do it, Pattaya-BBK Airport-Hua Hin.

After HH I've got one night in BKK before I fly out the next afternoon so on return I might give the train from HH to BKK a go just for the experience.

Sorry, stuffed up.

xyzzy, impecable timimng. 

On my next trip and after the debauchery of Pattaya I'll be travelling to Hua Hin for a few days R&R before heading home.

I've exchanged a few emails with the Bell Bus Company and they've suggested travelling with them from Pattaya to BKK airport then changing to their Hua Hin bus (at least I think that's what they meant).

You mention the Hua Hin bus is very nice and I wonder if you could confirm if it's something considerably larger than a mini van for this leg as I have a real phobia about travelling in them in LOS.

Time is no problem to me as I was considering bus to BKK then train to Hua Hin.

Thank's in advance.

I've taken the Bell Bus from the BKK airport to Hua Hin round trip and it's a very nice bus. Takes about three hours. As mentioned you could take the bus back to the airport and then take the Bell Bus to Pattaya/Jomtien. Likely would involve a bit of extra time. I got a car from HH to Pattaya for 2500B once. Ask around a bit as you will get prices from 2500 to 3500 at the many taxi stands in HH. It all just depends how much money you want to spend vs time. 

I'll second that Lung. I'm a Katie admirer too and have spilt many a load over her pics with the added bonus that she enjoys wearing stockings. 

I was in all the way and found her cute as a button intil the wig came off causing me to go limp. Oh well "Man's got to know his limitations".

rxpharm's explanation made me feel better. 

Nice one thank's seven.

Reading his account gave me a headache.

These types (for want of a better description) are unleashing what must be a long dormant desire in me. 

The one above in the black dress had me dribbling and I always find the fringe across the eyebrows hairstyle very sexy. 

Sadly (for me) I haven't been to any of these parties but I've really been enjoying the pics and reading the excited posts, thank's to all for posting.

Lovely thank's bumblebee. I can almost feel those black gloves tightening around my cock.

Yes that's the one bumblebee. Truth is, believe it or not, I was attracted to her because her facial features are similar to that of a Thai GG I did my balls over in Sydney. Dosen't have the same effect now, time has healed and probably better for me she stayed a fantasy.

I notice the mandatory stuffed toy animals.  

We'll have to try and find you one similar in November Uncle.  She is quite cute and well work spending our time here drooling over.

All help appreciated bumblebee. Could this mean my virgin trip to Sunee.

Yup Unc, that last pix certainly is something. Perhaps more time in the shower scrubbing her finer "points" would help...

Yes Sam I'd like to wash her down, pat her dry, dress her in some fine black lingerie and carry her to the bedroom....then I'd probably faint. 

After some discussion I agreed to buy one and she'd finance it's partner. I also suggested she not go too big as they'd look silly.

It wasn't my suggestion as I prefer a flat chest but they no doubt increased her earning power and made her "look more like lady" as they like to say.

I enjoy giving so I have no regrets and considering the amount of money I've pissed up the wall on trips to LOS it's only a drop in the ocean.     

As you say bumblebee most of my obsessions occurred when I was just getting into this lifestyle.

First was Benz from Bangkok. Her pictures were the first I discovered when I started trawling the net for ladyboy info and how I used to lust over them. When I finally decided I would like to take it further than looking at her pics I read she'd moved to London to work.

Another was one who called herself Likki or something similar and used to work in Cascades or Casanova. Looked for her but never found her.

Then there was Lusi Mustang although I must admit I made arrangements to meet her but lost my courage. 

I must admit I was in awe of some of these girls when I first entered the dark side.

I'll stop now as the list gets embarrassingly long.

If I had to put into words what type attracts me these days that last pic says it all.

I'm spending far too much time on this thread.

Thank's for the last clip Stroker.

I found myself watching with an open mouth.

I'm enjoying this thread thank's bumblebee.

I'd like to stay in this area in November.

I'm not a Pattaya regular and haven't been there for 4 years so I'm studying the pics and hoping they'll help me work out where the hell I am when I get there. 

Good talent in this little bar! If your in BKK it's a must do.

I agree Rukki.

Temptations has been a happy hunting ground for me over the years with many pleasant memories concerning attitude and performance.

Decisions decisions, I think I'll go with the last shot where she's exposing her little titty (and the other thing) in the mirror. Now where's those tissues.

Thank's again Stroker.

Please keep them coming Stroker. These latest pics cover one of my favourite fantasies of an erect cock held against the body by a pair of pantyhose afterwhich I rip a hole for it's escape. 

Her overall physical appearance is something I've been drawn to lately, not sure where that's leading.

Love the stockings and that turgid knob poking out between her crossed legs had me imagining Chuling pointing at it then commanding me to get on my knees and suck it.  

I'm another who often experiences a moment just as I'm about to enjoy a mouthfull of ladyboy cock, which is an activity that up to just a few years ago had never entered my wildest dreams. 

Another is when I'm back home after a trip. I usually take a couple of weeks to mentally recover from the assault on the senses that is Thailand.

Often I find I have a moment of clarity when I'm back at work or with some friends and some of my experiences run through my mind. 

I sometimes wonder if it was all a dream.

I always say it's funny how life works.

My loving and committed relationship of 22 years ended back in 2006. I expected my reaction to be one of sadness and possible depression, instead I experienced an almost euphoric sensation filled with excitment for what the future may hold coloured with a sense of unbounded freedom ( no slight on my ex I loved her deeply). 

I also noticed I had a burning desire to catch up, so to speak, or a feeling that although we'd loved each other and our relationship was a great experience I'd been missing out on other things, namely shagging other women ( maybe a case of the grass in always greener).

After the dust from the break up had settled I was laying in bed one night when I had somewhat of an epiphany. I sat up in bed and realised I had complete freedom, I no longer had to discuss any decision I made with anyone and I could shag anyone who'd let me. 

I got out of bed and grabbing a local newspaper I looked up the location of the nearest brothel. On arrival I was met with a lineup of 6 or 8 asian girls. I'd never been with an asian woman and had even commented to the ex that I didn't find them attractive. Now standing in front of me smiling in their lingerie and high heels they looked gorgeous. I chose a malaysian girl and soon I was balls deep in my first asian vagina.

The rest is history and for the next couple of years I went nuts, Thai's, Chinese, Vietnamese, Japanese you name it. I got the yellow fever and have only been interested in asian women/lb's since.

I shagged my way around a lot of the brothels in Sydney and got too close to one or two of the girls forming relationships with them outside work but I had one hell of a time.

Then came my first visit to Thailand in late 2007. I think what gets a lot of us in trouble over there is the prolonged contact and GFE you don't usually get in a brothel and we tend to forget where we are.

Then came Ladyboys. I've tried a few privately in Sydney but of course you can't compare the experience you get in Thailand so I haven't bothered for a while. They also tend to charge $250 to $300 per hour and for 3 of those I could get a return to Bangkok.

I've calmed down now and don't need sex like I used to. Now it's the occasional rub and tug when I get a bit of flesh hunger and for the rest of the time the internet keeps me happy.

I think my answer to the original question is yes I used to dabble heavily at home but now just occasionally.