Thanks for the sound advice Texasmac; I kn ow you are probably more than right. I remember going thru job training in 2006 in Texas and being told what we could expect in the area we were going. Those of us who had never experienced anything like this took everything they "taught" us seriously. When we actually put boots on the ground we were told to forget everything we had been told and this was the real world, so I woill just plan on enjoying myself.
I have to admit however, that I am both very excited and a little nervous about this nened me some what. How do you approach or xt chapter in my life. Am I having a midlife crisis? I hope not. I have no idea of what to expect. I have read quite a few of the trip reports and that has enlightenment. I am not sure how to approach the subjects of top or botto; maybe I just need to relax and enjoy the ride. I don't think I am ready to be bottom but who knows; I may get caught up in the whole thing. So, I will toss out all the lists I have made (how did you know?) and go with the flow as they say. Hopefully I will find a petite, feminine LB to enjoy my time with. Thanks again.