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As I sit here in the diplomat hotel with two gorgeous femmebos, I want to say femmeboys are everywhere. EVERYWHERE. not so many ladyboys with implants. Anyway, if you like truly beautiful natural or hormone enhanced femmeboy, the Philippines is heaven. However, other than girls at disco in mango square, and bordellos bar, I haven't found a lad yboy bar scene. Although, in following the advice of this website, I did some spadework beforebefore I arrived which paid off handsomely.

My second observation...since the ladybioys here are fully accepted as members of the community(albeit with some discrimination) , they are more relationship oriented, and seem to have accepted that dealing with insincere guys who just want fun comes with the territory. If you want a relationship with a gorgeous English speaking ladyboy come to the Phils...if you want 10 short time dates in a week, I would recommend Thailand which is the primary focus of this site.

Anyway, highly recommend the Ocean Vida Resort in Malapascua for a dream ladyromanticmantic vacation...photos to follow later

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I want to say femmeboys are everywhere. EVERYWHERE.

OK guys, book your flights! :D

Good to here Randiuno! You had mentioned in another thread that perhaps your success in Cambodia was beginner's luck. I know it wasn't. You have the knack! The ladyboys/femboys find you! B)

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Update...

Since I am the type that sticks with a good thing when I find it', I have spent last 15 days with two of the most gorgeous femmeboy ever. Just spen

t a day touring the small town my girls come from which is about two hours outside of Cebu City. The population of the town is only 29k, but it seems like in every market or store, there is a ladyboy/femmeboy hanging around.

Getting ready to meet with Raz from the cebuladyboy website who I corresponded with before I arrived. She is a great resource for information about the ladyboy scene on Cebu, and good information source if you are looking for the real deal. I highly recommend contacting her before you arrive so you can be comfortable with the scene.

I also highly recommend www.ladyboykisses.com website....but beware of scammers. There are over 1,200 ladyboy listings in Cebu city alone on that site, but most claim they are looking for a relationship. I posted the dates I was going to be in town on my profile and a ton of beauties beat the pavement to meet. Apparently, a lot of guys say they are going to come, but then never show up. If you are real, they will meet you ina flash

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Just got back stateside...exhausted after a great trip. Mango square in Cebu City has plenty of action. Consistent flow of ladyboys around in J Ave Disco and Alcohology.

I recommend going to J Ave and/or Alcohology after 2:30 a.m. when the bikini bars close. Then the freelance girls and ladyboys come out to play. The first night I was in Cebu City, I went to J Ave about 3:00 a.m. (it stays open to 7 a.m.), and saw three girls sitting alone, so since it was my first night in town, I offered each a drink. My ladyboy radar is usually pretty good, but I thought all three were real girls. A fellow american came and tried to freeload on my group of three, so I chatted with him, and continued to chat up the three girls. He informed me that all would come back to his place, but then he backed off and informed me that one of the three was a ladyboy! I was floored. I had no clue. He left and I continued dancing with the two real girls and one ladyboy. The ladyboy (Julie) was very excited that I was still interested and reiterated that all three were willing to come to my hotel room that night. Two real girls and a ladyboy...it was like the gates of heaven had opened!!! (Note: J Ave has a dress code so you can tell ladyboys because they have to wear pants (typically tight jeans), ladyboys are not allowed in in shorts or a dress. This allows the straight customers to know who is who.

Next day, I had made plans to meet with a girl I had chatted with on a website, and debated cancelling and sticking with my 2 girl, 1 labyboy party, but glad I kept my date and met two gorgeous femmeboys who I spent the next 19 days with traveling throughout the Philippines.

Recommended travel locations: Malapascua (Ocean Vida Resort), Kalaggaman Island, Dumaguette City on Negros Oriental (Snorkeling on Apo Island is a must do)

I have attached a couple of pictures of my traveling companions...I will make a tribute video shortly.

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Hey Randy,

Nice to see your trip to the Phils was a success. LOVE that dress code you described in one of the Mango Square clubs :lol:

I'm off to Dumaguete this coming weekend for a week of snorkeling - really looking forward to Apo. I'm taking the family this time and staying at a resort, but any spots back in town that I should be aware of should I be able to sneak away one evening? :p

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Hey Randy,

Nice to see your trip to the Phils was a success. LOVE that dress code you described in one of the Mango Square clubs :lol:

I'm off to Dumaguete this coming weekend for a week of snorkeling - really looking forward to Apo. I'm taking the family this time and staying at a resort, but any spots back in town that I should be aware of should I be able to sneak away one evening? :p

Hey Crackerjax,

You are going to have a great time. I was with my two friends pretty exclusively on Negros Oriental, so I didn't explore the scene too much. But one night, with a ladbyboy one of my friends met on the Oceanfront, we all went to the WhyNot Bar right on the main oceanfront street. This is place with pool tables, dj, and live bands on some nights. Of course, I was the crazy guy with 3 ladyboys, and most of the other people appeared to be with regular filipino girls. But we had fun, and the staff was respectful...

Be sure to have seafood and Hayahay restaurant...best fresh seafood ever...Oysters on the half shell $3 for 10....can't beat that.

Also, south of Dauin is the Antulang Beach Resort...A little pricey, but a good private getaway...but maybe too romantic if you are taking your kids...

Enjoy.

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Wow, I LOVE the girl with the big smile. I think I'm moving to PP!!!

Seriously, I loved this report and the photos. But the idea of explaining to friends and family that I'm now going to the Philippines would be a bridge too far. I've finally gotten past the point of explaining why I'm going to thailand every winter, as their "sex tourist" radar goes off whenever the subject comes up. So if I now said I'm going to PP next year I think the jig would definitely be up.

For now, I'll have to live vicariously through the reports (AND PICTURES!!!) from adventurers like you.

Too bad Brother Lefty doesn't bother to share the goodies with us on his expedition. :(

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Wow, I LOVE the girl with the big smile. I think I'm moving to PP!!!

Seriously, I loved this report and the photos. But the idea of explaining to friends and family that I'm now going to the Philippines would be a bridge too far. I've finally gotten past the point of explaining why I'm going to thailand every winter, as their "sex tourist" radar goes off whenever the subject comes up. So if I now said I'm going to PP next year I think the jig would definitely be up.

For now, I'll have to live vicariously through the reports (AND PICTURES!!!) from adventurers like you.

Too bad Brother Lefty doesn't bother to share the goodies with us on his expedition. :(

Yes Deep...I guess you will just have to start up an NGO for some good cause in the PI. "Don't dream it, be it"

Lefty had good advice about relationship oriented girls in the PI on some of his posts, and I think that is the case. There is definitely a strong desire on the part of all the girls I have chatted with to have a go at something longer term. Although, many have resigned themselves to the fact that with "Afam" (the Cebuano word for "Farang") a short term fling might be all you can expect.

I have kept in touch with my two friends via the usual social media, and as a true stalker I have of course looked at all the pictures of their various friends...Honestly,I have lost my mind. Every barang/village has lots of ladyboys and they start doing pageants in the villages from 12 years old and up...so by the time they are legal for me (18), they have really perfected the art of looking feminine, add in a few hormones,the fact they all speak great english, and MY GOD...Help My Holy Spirit...

Finally, since I have returned I have been researching the Bakla (the word for feminine gays in the Philippines). It turns out among those who have travelled around southeast Asia, the Philippines has the most open and accepted ladyboys of any country. That is why you see them everywhere, and no one raises and eyebrow at them...THEY ARE PART OF THE FABRIC OF LIFE.

Best wishes...and hope to hear about a new NGO soon!

Randi

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Hi Randiuno,

wonderful report!! Congrats.

I am planning to visit Manila and Cebu in the next week.

In order to prepare myself, I got LADYBOYKISS membership and found too many LBs from Cebu and Manila. Most of them mention that they are in search of boyfriend and long term relationship but actually after exchange of few mails almost all of them declare that they are professional ladyBoys, looking for customers.

I have been discussion about LT and ST rates with them and am surprised that most of them are quoting USD 100 for St and USD 200 for LT. Please guide me on the prevailing ST and LT rates there.

Cheers!!!

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Hi Randiuno,

wonderful report!! Congrats.

I am planning to visit Manila and Cebu in the next week.

In order to prepare myself, I got LADYBOYKISS membership and found too many LBs from Cebu and Manila. Most of them mention that they are in search of boyfriend and long term relationship but actually after exchange of few mails almost all of them declare that they are professional ladyBoys, looking for customers.

I have been discussion about LT and ST rates with them and am surprised that most of them are quoting USD 100 for St and USD 200 for LT. Please guide me on the prevailing ST and LT rates there.

Cheers!!!

Hey Joyra,

Well...they are probably pumping you for top dollar since they know you are on the website and based in some foreign country. I wouldn't discuss such details in that regard with girls you meet on the website. There are a lot of pros and scammers. The girls will show up to meet you face to face when you arrive. Be sure to have a local cell phone or sim card since everyone texts since it is so cheap. It is best to arrange to meet them at a neutral location like a mall (SM Mall and Ayala Mall are good locations in Cebu), and after you size them up in the daylight, if you just want to have fun, tell them so. I sense the girls would be in heaven if you gave them 2000 php ($50)for staying the night. I suspect 1000php ($25) is good enough for short time...remember the girl working at the counter in your hotel is probably only making 100 php for an 8 hour shift...

Honestly, I'm a big spender, but I do it by taking the girls shopping and on the road with me at hotels and restaurants. That is just my thing. I think the best bet for short time in Cebu is just to go to Mango Square on a thursday, friday, or saturday night late. There are a ton of straight Afaams who ignore the LB's. You will not have trouble taking one to your hotel after buying them a couple of drinks at the clubs.

Also, you may want to have that discussion with Raz at www.cebuladyboy.com. She can give you a feel for the girls and may even make an introduction for you (I think she charges 800 pesos to arrange an evening with up to 4 girls to go dancing or do Karaoke). If you let her know you just want fun, she will arrange an evening with girls who are just looking for fun (P4P), although she won't say that since technically that isn't the foundational basis of her service.

Enjoy your trip...and I look forward to a report....

Randi

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Hi Randy,

thanks a lot for the information and guidance. I an sure, your tips and advice will help me making my trip a success. Since I am traveling for business, I will be mostly stationed in Manila and will go to Cebu on the weekends.

Will surely post a report on my visit there.

Have a good day.

Cheers!!!!

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I've been mongering in Phils a few times now and similar to Pattaya the old 1K note seems to suffice quite well for a long ST - i.e. overnight, but having been out on the piss till quite late and sleeping in until noon. The 1000 Peso note of course is worth about a third less than the 1000 thb note, so that's nice. :thumbsu:

I was once stung for 4K (approx $100) by a beauty queen type pro working Greenbelt Mall (a fun hunting site but get your price sorted b4 room) in Manila, but in general the freelancers you see on the street in Angeles City or Burgos will quote you 500 pesos for a ST. In Cebu the action is more around the clubs and discos and generally the girls don't talk price before coming back to your room - but as randiuno states, 2K is quite a generous tip and will make just about any of these girls very happy - biggest problem may be pushing them out the door after that. :lol:

I am sure you will have a good time there - hopefully your business there goes well and you will have more opportunities to sample the lovely Transpinays.

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In Cebu the action is more around the clubs and discos and generally the girls don't talk price before coming back to your room - but as randiuno states, 2K is quite a generous tip and will make just about any of these girls very happy - biggest problem may be pushing them out the door after that. :lol:

Leave it to the old pros to set the record straight....and maybe I just figured out my problem....lol...How to push them out the door!!!

Good summary CJ.

P.S. How was the diving off Apo Island...See any Sea Snakes!

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Thanks randiuno. Well I AM definitely getting older :thumbsd: , but hardly a "pro" when it comes to Phils. But I am enjoying my trips there and happy to add a little first-hand information into the mix.

Anyway we all have our own style for enjoying ourselves and you obviously don't feel any need to "push them out". :) I'd be interested to hear how your two dates and you all got along over such a long period of time. Did they play with each other as well as you? My impression is that this is more common in the Phils where the ladyboys consider themselves "gays".

And I did see my first sea snake while snorkeling on Apo - really cool the way they move. Which of the 3 dive spots you visited did you like the best?

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I've been mongering in Phils a few times now and similar to Pattaya the old 1K note seems to suffice quite well for a long ST - i.e. overnight, but having been out on the piss till quite late and sleeping in until noon. The 1000 Peso note of course is worth about a third less than the 1000 thb note, so that's nice. :thumbsu:

I was once stung for 4K (approx $100) by a beauty queen type pro working Greenbelt Mall (a fun hunting site but get your price sorted b4 room) in Manila, but in general the freelancers you see on the street in Angeles City or Burgos will quote you 500 pesos for a ST. In Cebu the action is more around the clubs and discos and generally the girls don't talk price before coming back to your room - but as randiuno states, 2K is quite a generous tip and will make just about any of these girls very happy - biggest problem may be pushing them out the door after that. :lol:

I am sure you will have a good time there - hopefully your business there goes well and you will have more opportunities to sample the lovely Transpinays.

Hi CJ,

thanks a lot for your advise and guidance.

I didn't know that it was difficult to push them out of the room after the act. Well, I will try my luck and see. Have lined up few of them from LBKISS and will try Greenbelt mall and couple of other places too.

My trip has been delayed due to some important work in Thailand and I plan to be in Manila after the Holy Week ends.

Cheers!!!

Joyra

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Hi CJ,

thanks a lot for your advise and guidance.

I didn't know that it was difficult to push them out of the room after the act. Well, I will try my luck and see. Have lined up few of them from LBKISS and will try Greenbelt mall and couple of other places too.

My trip has been delayed due to some important work in Thailand and I plan to be in Manila after the Holy Week ends.

Cheers!!!

Joyra

I'm going to pimp for www.cebuladyboy.com....if you have extra time and money, let Raz set up a night for you in Mango Square. Some of her friends are real supermodels. I met with her while I was in Cebu for lunch and she is a real sweetheart.

Looking forward to trip report. P.S. I will be there again in May for a short visit...let me know if you will still be in the area.

Cheers

Randi

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Anyway we all have our own style for enjoying ourselves and you obviously don't feel any need to "push them out". :) I'd be interested to hear how your two dates and you all got along over such a long period of time. Did they play with each other as well as you? My impression is that this is more common in the Phils where the ladyboys consider themselves "gays".

Travelling for 18 days with two girls is not for the light of heart...However, a good friend says "it is the type of drama you are choosing to pay for!", ...lol. Anyway, it wss fun, but the girls even though allegedly good friends had a little rivalry for my attentions which I guess is not surprising to me since anyone can tell I'm not a butterfly after a day or so...I like to think it is because they have hope for something more than just a trip. Anyway, I usually don't divulge the gory details of my encounters, but for the most part I had two girls who did not play much with each other. It seems that there are some girls who like that who identify more as gay (on the cusp of ladyboy), and then there are the true "bayot", who view themselves as women inside, and these seem be only interested in playing with masculine men.

Anyway...it is a real adventure travelling, although I will say since both could speak very good English, it made the experience much easier since we could chat with other people together as we travelled from place to place, and stayed in various hotels. Don't want to do anymore 4 hour boat, bus, or plane rides with someone I can't talk to (my experience in Cambodia). Anyway, I recommend trying a long time trip to everyone who appreciates ladyboys, but only take two bottom girls if you have a bottle of Viagra!!!

Also, I didn't scuba CJ, just snorkeled. I think I liked snorkeling at Apo Island the best, because I swam along side a sea turtle for about 7 minutes which was a magical experience...Also, I didn't know there were sea snakes in the water at Apo Island until one of the scuba divers showed me a photo he had taken on the dive he had just completed....Glad I didn't know about the snakes BEFORE I got in the water!

Cheers,

Randi

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I'm going to pimp for www.cebuladyboy.com....if you have extra time and money, let Raz set up a night for you in Mango Square. Some of her friends are real supermodels. I met with her while I was in Cebu for lunch and she is a real sweetheart.

Looking forward to trip report. P.S. I will be there again in May for a short visit...let me know if you will still be in the area.

Cheers

Randi

Hi Randi,

well, I checked www.cebuladyboys.com and found it to be interesting. No issues on your pimping for then, as we can be assured of a quality selection!!!

I will be in Manila starting 12th April and should be in Cebu on 14th and 15th. PLease let me know about your plans.

my eamil id is: joyra123@gmail.com ; joyra123@hotmail.com ; joyra123@yahoo.com

have fun.

Cheers!!!

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It turns out among those who have travelled around southeast Asia, the Philippines has the most open and accepted ladyboys of any country. That is why you see them everywhere, and no one raises and eyebrow at them...THEY ARE PART OF THE FABRIC OF LIFE.

This is all very strange! My impression, gained from two trips in the past two years, is that they are not accepted here at all, mainly due to the Catholicism of the general population. For example, many bars won't allow them in, they can't get decent jobs (which is why so many work in call centres for a pittance, even by Philipino standards) and no Philippino male will consider a relationship with them - a quick shag, yes, but nothing more. My impression (and I emphasise, it is only an impression and I could well be totally wrong)is reinforced by what I have read into the like of Stealth007's reports. Again, I might be reading into them my own prejudices, but I don't think so. It's interesting that two people can reach such different conclusions (again, I emphasise that I am not saying you are wrong - one of us must be, but it could well be me!).

Two other points:

1000 pesos is the going rate for LT. Knowing my financial position and having an idea of theirs, I tend to give 1500 provided they were enthusiastic (which so far, they have been) on the basis that I can easily afford to drop another $11 per night - it will make no difference to me, but will make a hell of a difference to them

and

if anyone is diving, please add your comments about dive areas to the thread called Diving in the Philippines so we can build a useable database for the diving pervert community (it's in the Lounge area so I won't give a link).

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Hi Randi,

well, I checked www.cebuladyboys.com and found it to be interesting. No issues on your pimping for then, as we can be assured of a quality selection!!!

i realize one experience does not a reputation make, but just for the record, the *only* waste of time and money i have experienced with *any* ladyboy in my (admittedly) brief but (amazingly) busy time in Cebu is the one friday evening i blew keeping my promise to Raz to buy her a drink and partake of her services.

in my first 6 nights i met--without her help, with only internet dating sites and my own magnetic personality (tongue-in-cheek, tongue-in-cheek--where's my fucking emoticon?) -- almost a dozen lovely ladies. still, being (mostly) a man of my word and tiring of her repeated texts ("i guess your silence means you don't want to meet me after all?") i agreed to meeting friday night--which i'd been told (in my pre-visit interviews) would be a prime time to see her ladies. so how did it go?

she was 45 minutes late.

she brought no one for me to meet.

she said she'd asked me to give her names of people to bring and i hadn't done so so she brought no one.

(need i make any comment as to the flaw in that reasoning?)

after the 45 minutes waiting, we spent 45 more sitting at a table listening to loud music and watching a handful of hot ladies walk by -- NONE of whom paid any attention to her--or to me.

so i finally said that's enough. what do i owe you? she said 800 pesos.

i shook my head and told her she was a ripoff

and then i paid her. and i smiled and walked away.

and 30 minutes later, on my own, without being young and handsome and rich, i had several ladyboys vying for my attention. and i took the hottest hard-bodied beauty there and went to my hotel.

and it cost me *more* to pay Raz for her time and drinks than it cost me to spend 2 hot hours making mad love to this babe.

so that's my 'recommendation'.

:crazysmile:

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