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22 minutes ago, JustSumGai said:

Cudo's Pigdog

Wasn't me Ice Cream Kid; I'm boring as fuck.  It was our other dog, Snoopdawg.   Snoop's living on the edge in search of his double secret bound, gagged, and blindfolded Neopolitan: three races, three genders.  But first they have to bind, gag, and blindfold him,

1 hour ago, snoopdawg said:

it's exciting to be on the edge of your comfort zone, be that extreme sports or having sex. But that feeling cannot be maintained as you become accustomed to the edge and that becomes the new normal. Hence, you constantly have to keep testing the boundaries and pushing yourself.

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The Best Things In Life Are Free

On 6/10/2020 at 12:03 PM, JustSumGai said:

fantastic times. I never ever had one coral me for a freebie/bootycall much less 4 :)

I'm sorry if I gave the impression that any of those encounters were free. It's not often freebie are offered but they are possible. I hooked up with Jonelle Brooks via Grindr in November 2018 and all that cost me was 300bt for the short-time room at Full Love Inn. It was the very definition of a quickie, 69'ing until she came then she was out of the door like a shot. Quite amusing really.

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It wasn't until I travelled to Phillipines for the first time that I really started to take benefit of freebies; many of the girls there are happy just to be taken out on a date and treated with respect - giving them bfe - and will readily put out if you're nice to them. And of course there are others that just want to get laid and if you pay for the taxi will happily come over. But that's another story.

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Ironically within days of getting back to Thailand from PI I was hit up on Planet Romeo for a booty call by Coco. Only cost to me was travel to her apartment that was out towards Jomtien. She'd obviously got a decent job (in marketing or something simliar) and her apartment was brand new (very nice). Slightly older LB (early 30s) she looked just as good as her photos though as I was her booty call the liaison was more on her terms - she was not looking to provide a service but get laid so it wasn't all about what I wanted, but what she wanted to - which was to be Top only.

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On 6/6/2020 at 9:57 AM, snoopdawg said:

Yuki

I wonder what ever happened to her. Last time I saw her was in 2015 , Sensations, Action st. I asked her several times where she worked before as she was so familiar , but she gave me the " I only stay Pattaya 3 weeks. I work company before" I know I had seen her somewhere before. Weeks later it dawned on me, she won a dance competition in Anaconda Bar, I remember I voted for her.

 Shes no spring chicken, in 2015 she was around 30. A complete pro, merciless, you could tell she'd been around the block for a long time.  Even the most naive romantic monger could never get the GFE from her as it was not on the menu.

 

Great reading, Snoop!

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I ran into that a LOT as the years went by. Some were downright robotic. Boi gave me preview of cumming attractions, spending a few minutes doing several things, telling me if I pay more I can have all the next night.  I've had a gfe about half the time but then that's with ones I contacted on TF.  From a bar or freelance,  it's just a job it seems. Except for Beauty at Katty. She would not let go haha. Sad to hear of her passing.

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Those Northern Farmers Daughters Ladysons

Where did it all go so wrong I hear no-one ask? How did you go from sweet, innocent Yorkshire lad to international playboy?

Well I think the pivotal moment, for a number of reasons, was Song Kran of 2012.

This was to be the semi infamous TR co-written by a little known BM called Kendo (who subsequently faded back into obscurity — anyone know what happened to him?) and myself. It marked the start of my ventures further afield and helped me overcome any last reservations about traveling alone. It also marked the end of me pursuing relationships with girls back home.

Just a few months after my previous trip, and having struck up a bit of a rapport with Kendo, he suggested that I accompany him up to Udon Thani / Isaan. At the time his affections were split between May (who he’d met at Phuket airport) and Jenny the wildcat of Cocktails & Dreams; naturally it didn't end well but it made for a fun ride.

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May (left) and Shirley (right) at Friendship Bridge in Nong Khai

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May posing in the room (above) and at Sala Keoku sculpture park (below)

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We spent the first half of that sojourn in Nong Khai with May; the three of us took a long bus ride out into the middle of Nakon Nowhere, seemingly picked a house at random and demanded the company of whichever son looked prettiest in a dress. Shirley was adorable, never asking for anything, taking good care of me and I'm sad to say I took her for granted. When we left Nong Khai I slipped 3000bt into her handbag — she didn’t realise until sometime after we’d departed at which point she got May to phone Kendo, so she could thank me. I never got her contact details, something I regret a little, and I still wonder to this day what she's doing now.

After Nong Khai we headed south to Udon Thani to celebrate Song Kran in Jenny's village by drinking and dancing. In fact, I got so drunk I hooked up with one of Jenny's gg friends, Wan. After a couple of days I left Jen and Kendo to do a bit of exploring around Khon Kaen on my own before returning to Udon. All of this was a real eye-opener for me, on how easy it was to get laid anywhere in Thailand — your options don’t end with go-go bars and “massage” parlours.

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Wan (left) and Jenny (right) at a Song Kran festival in a small village in the outskirts of Udon Thani

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dinner at Jenny's house in Isaan (above)

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Snoop Dawg, Toey aka Nong aka Oei Oei Boogie, and Jenny at Day and Night bar complex in Udon Thani.

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A ladyboy I picked up on consecutive nights from a Thai disco in Khon Kaen (below)

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A few days after leaving Isaan a teary-eyed May turned up in Bangkok looking for Kendo and despite having no information at all about where he was staying somehow managed to find him. He felt obliged to bring her along to Pattaya — sand to the beach — before finally paying her off and sending her back to Nakhon Nowhere.

Within 2-3 months of returning home I inevitably broke up with the girl I’d been seeing prior to my holiday. She was perfectly nice and it's not as if we didn't get along, but I felt no enthusiasm for seeing her in fact it started to feel like a chore which is not what a relationship should be, so I ended it. What had died was the last breath in me that was human, now I was truly Cock-Wampyre!

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At the outset of this TR, snoop and I coordinated that I would play the role of "the interviewer" as to generate a minimum of interaction in-between his posts.  Accordingly, I've tried to come up with good follow-up questions, my own anecdotes, media, etc.

But now I'm kinda stumped... 

Snoop's last post is a tough act to follow.  Possibly the most meaningful post I ever read here or at PY.

Because it captures that exact moment when we realize our experiences in Thailand have irreversibly changed us from what we expected ourselves to be.   I confidently say "we" because I know all of you also experienced a reckoning like that, be it a sudden epiphany or drawn out rationalization over several trips.   Snoop captured it masterfully in his last post right above when he marveled "how easy it was to get laid anywhere" while showing heartfelt empathy for the simple-folk lovers who made him "loose enthusiasm" for "human" relations as he had known them.

From then on snoop, it's that lyric all over again:  "You can check out, but you can never leave..."

... But we all know the price we pay for Thailand is HUGE even if we keep telling ourselves we come out ahead.  The heart-wrenching price of walking out on our blood and loves.  The absurd price of walking out on ourselves for the sake of our best selves.  The inenarrable price of walking out on lives and loves that never were.

Snoop you are a good man, in fact so good I think you became "the Cock-Wampyre" not for the sake of lustful pursuit, but because you don't want to break anyone's heart should you subsequently succumb to it...

It's too late for most of us.  We are old.  But you are not snoop.  You can still be all you can be.  The heart-red Karmann Ghia snoop.  It's no coincidence it's been shelved after you got back from Issaan.

Thanks for the TR snoop.  It's yours to close.  I'm out.  I owe you a cartoon still...

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On 7/6/2020 at 11:18 PM, Rom said:

At the outset of this TR, snoop and I coordinated that I would play the role of "the interviewer" as to generate a minimum of interaction in-between his posts.  Accordingly, I've tried to come up with good follow-up questions, my own anecdotes, media, etc.

But now I'm kinda stumped... 

Snoop's last post is a tough act to follow.  Possibly the most meaningful post I ever read here or at PY.

Because it captures that exact moment when we realize our experiences in Thailand have irreversibly changed us from what we expected ourselves to be.   I confidently say "we" because I know all of you also experienced a reckoning like that, be it a sudden epiphany or drawn out rationalization over several trips.   Snoop captured it masterfully in his last post right above when he marveled "how easy it was to get laid anywhere" while showing heartfelt empathy for the simple-folk lovers who made him "loose enthusiasm" for "human" relations as he had known them.

From then on snoop, it's that lyric all over again:  "You can check out, but you can never leave..."

... But we all know the price we pay for Thailand is HUGE even if we keep telling ourselves we come out ahead.  The heart-wrenching price of walking out on our blood and loves.  The absurd price of walking out on ourselves for the sake of our best selves.  The inenarrable price of walking out on lives and loves that never were.

Snoop you are a good man, in fact so good I think you became "the Cock-Wampyre" not for the sake of lustful pursuit, but because you don't want to break anyone's heart should you subsequently succumb to it...

It's too late for most of us.  We are old.  But you are not snoop.  You can still be all you can be.  The heart-red Karmann Ghia snoop.  It's no coincidence it's been shelved after you got back from Issaan.

Thanks for the TR snoop.  It's yours to close.  I'm out.  I owe you a cartoon still...

Thanks for such a nice post Rom (for some reason I've only just seen it) - I'll wrap up this in the next few days but it's been fun so thanks for your interaction.

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On 7/4/2020 at 4:31 PM, snoopdawg said:

Where did it all go so wrong I hear no-one ask? How did you go from sweet, innocent Yorkshire lad to international playboy?

I have often said to myself and others on particular occasions in Los “Where did it all go right?”   One such time that always springs to mind was when a group of us ended up spending a Sunday morning canoeing along a river with the staff of Ezy bar.  4 regular blokes from various corners of the world crammed into small rafts with about 20 transsexuals.  And it all felt so perfectly normal....:)

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well, my first awakening to one was a big tittied blonde showing off her new BIG tits in a gay bar at Mardi Gras.  She was a slim thing so they looked BIG.  spent some time with her, hit more parades, with her stuffing all the beads n stuff she got thrown at her, later parting as I was DEAD BROKE that night.  Wandering home I had a pretty good idea where I would head if I could.  Alas, ladyboys are not easy to find (unattached) in Mobile.  So for the next many years I made do with the occasional females that came by.  When I hit LOS I tried to be a "good boy" but that, as always led to disappointment. By the third trip I was diving into the deep end, but trying to avoid the erm, entanglement of the heart. It's best for some to be a roving Wampyre. And now at this age I wonder just how relationships will evolve if there is no sex in the mix. I think it should greatly simplify things, tho occasionally I might slip out and find some cutie who loves to give a fella a workout.

It really should be as low key and natural as it is in Thailand everywhere. Sure as hell there's t girls wishing to burst out and be...everywhere. And here we have two groups marginalized and even hiding in most places, because us guys are as looked down on in those places as the girls are.  I sure hope this virus thing concludes before I'm taken out of the game by a busted hip or being on oxygen all the time :)

great thread, and wonderful reports, you have surely had a blast over the years.

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The Last Of The Famous International Playboys

The years have flown by like minutes. An endless menu of magnificent strangers in foreign lands as I continued supplementing my time in Pattaya with a side trips to other regions. Sometimes with a companion but often flying solo, safe in the knowledge that ladyboys were an abundant fruit ripe for the picking wherever I traveled. It was inevitable that I would eventually run out of new places to visit in Thailand and therefore start looking further afield.

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Phimai Historical Park (above) and freerange ladyboy picked up at Tawan Dang Disco (below) - Korat (2014)

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Kendo suggested I check out Laos; I could fly up to Udon Thani and get a bus across the border to Vientiane. The language is very similar, they take Thai baht and USD as well as their own currency, and we all know more than a few ladyboys in Thailand who come from Laos. All in all it's like going abroad without leaving Thailand.

I treated it like a weekend city break, enjoying a day in Udon Thani at each side for old time's sake - proving what a small world it as I ran into two of my old flames there are Yui and Pon. It was a similar story when I reached the Vientiane. I did some sightseeing during the day then hit the local bars at night, where of course I met Hannah who used to work at 69 bar / fantasy lounge.

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Patuxay Monument, Vientiane Laos (above).

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Unnamed guy, Hannah, Pee and Snoop Dawg (left to right) at @Home Club - Laos April 2016

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Buddha ParkAlso known as Xieng Khuan (above) and Pha That Luang (below)

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That was 4 years ago in 2016, and since then I've visited Singapore, Cambodia, Vietnam, Malaysia, Myanmar (Burma), Indonesia and most recently Philippines.

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Gardens By the Bay (above) and Marina Bay (below) - Singapore Nov 2016

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Laos (or at least Vientiane), Cambodia and Burma were like a poorer Thailand - though Burma didn't have any ladyboys or p4p scene being a Muslim country - and from a cultural perspective worth visiting. I have very fond memories of Burma despite the lack of p4p - it's a country that's just opening up to tourism and feels very unspoiled.

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Angkor Wat, Siem Reap - Cambodia April 2017

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A cute little spinner I picked up from Barcode in Siem Reap (below)

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Royal Palace (above) and Choeung Ek Genocidal Memorial (below) Phnom Penh, Cambodia

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Myanmar aka Burma - The road from Mandalay, to Bagan, Inle Lake and Yangon - Nov 2018 (below)

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Mandalay Hill (above) - View from Soon Oo Pon Nya Shin Pagoda (below)

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U Bein Bridge (above)

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Yandana Sinme Pagoda, Inwa (above) and Maha Aungmye Bonzan (below)

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Mingun Pahtodawgyi (above) and Lions of Stone, Mingun (below)

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Mandalay Palace (below)

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Shwezigon Pagoda (above) and Alodawpyi Pagoda, Bagan (below) -  Bagan, Myanmar

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Alodawpyi Pagoda, Bagan (above) and Mount Popa (below)

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Inle Lake (below)

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Cute girl at Utopia Tower (above) and Supreme Court of Myanmar (below) - Yangon

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Swe Taw Myat Pagoda, Yangon (below)

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Likewise, Vietnam is rich in culture; I have a theory that most people who have visited southeast Asia will either have Thailand or Vietnam as their favourite destination, and which one is usually the first they visited. I visited both north and south Vietnam; Hanoi and Saigon respectively with a side trip to Halong bay from Hanoi. Of the two I preferred the quaint old town of Hanoi even though there was more nightlife if in Saigon. Though compared to Thailand this pales too in significance - there's next to no p4p scene and there's very few (almost no) ladyboys which I put down to this being a communist state. Though I did meet one ladyboy in Zero Three Bar (Saigon) and I also hooked up with one I met online (also in Saigon) though she was not as attractive as her photos.

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Bui Vien (Walking) Street - Saigon, Nov 2017

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Cao Dai Temple (above and below)

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Chợ Bình Tây (below) - Saigon aka Ho Chi Minh City

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Quán Chùa Huyền Thiên (above) and St Joseph Cathedral (below) - Hanoi

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National Assembly Building (above) and One Pillar Pagoda (below)

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Imperial Citadel of Thăng Long (below)

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Halong Bay (above and below)

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Religion and politics seem to be the main two factors of a number of transsexuals in a country. Something I discovered when I went to Malaysia. Again very enjoyable for sightseeing; I enjoyed a nice city break in Kuala Lumpur followed by a few days on the island of Penang. I didn't see any ladyboys in public, being a mainly Muslim country, but I did manage to hook up with one online in Penang.

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Central Market (above) and Sultan Abdul Samad Building (below) - Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia April/May 2018

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Parlimen Malaysia (above)

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Petronas Towers (above and below)

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ABC Batu Caves Temple (above) and Istana Negara, Jalan Tuanku Abdul Halim (below)

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Famous street art in George Town, Penang (above) and Lee Jetty

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Kek Lok Si Temple (above) and Batu Ferringhi (below)

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Cheong Fatt Tze Mansion (below)

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too be continued...

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...continued*

It was for partly for that reason when I decided to go to Indonesia that I choose to take a ladyboy with me. Of course that's not the only reason - in fact I've had a pretty reasonable success of hooking up with ladyboys in different southeast Asian countries; but some destinations I think are well suited to being done alone - cities in particular. Whereas others like Krabi or Chiang Mai are better enjoyed as a couple. You may be as surprise as I was that I didn't have ladyboys jumping at the chance to go to Bali with me; my first three choices after some hesitation turned me down, so I started putting some feelers out with two or three more. Eventually I decided Candy would be a good choice of companion as she was no stranger to foreign travel even though I did not know her well, so after some gentle persuasion and reassurances she agreed to come with me.

Ubud, Bali - April 2019

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Tegenungan Waterfall (above) and Kecak Dance at Pura Dalem Taman Kaja (below)

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Tegallalang Rice Terrace (below)

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Pura Gunung Kawi temple (above & below)

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Mount Batur (below) - this involved a 2hr hike before dawn

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Gili Islands & Lombok - April 2019

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Gili Exotic Villa, Gili T (above) and at the beach on Gili Meno (below)

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Swimming with Turtles off the Gili Islands (below)

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Bukit Malimbu /Malimbu Hill (above) and Senggigi Beach (below) - Lombok

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Pura Batu Bolong (below)

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Taman Narmada (Water park), Lombok - (above and below)

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Snoop Dawg zip-lining at Taman Narmada (below)

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Pura Meru, Lombok (below)

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Yogyakarta - April 2019

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Kampung Wisata Taman Sari (above)

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Kraton - The Palace of Yogyakarta (above and below)

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Borobudur Temple (above and below)

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Prambanan Temple (below)

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We spent some time sightseeing around rice Fields, hiking up mountings, visiting historic temples but also time relaxing at beach. Having someone with me forced me to take things at a slower pace, and take time to enjoy the moment rather than rushing around. There was no difficulty entering the country and we received no negative attention. She proved to be a good companion, keen to go sightseeing even if it was only for the Insta-snaps – she even had a outfit planned in advance for each day based on my itinerary – and the passion dind't dwindle part in thanks to some advice I took from a fellow BM about bringing some lingerie for my girl, though many years living alone has left me ill-disposed to putting up with other people's foibles.

*(I intended to just post a few of photo's from each destination but I've got thousands of photos so it became difficult to rationalise these)

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On 7/9/2020 at 3:46 PM, JustSumGai said:

Alas, ladyboys are not easy to find (unattached) in Mobile.  So for the next many years I made do with the occasional females that came by.

Stuck inside of Mobile with the Memphis blues again?  :notfair:

6 hours ago, snoopdawg said:

Ubud, Bali

The choice of Bali's digital nomads.   Never made it there in my 3 trips as I was in monger mode.  Looks quite peaceful.

On 7/9/2020 at 4:19 PM, snoopdawg said:

when I reached the Vientiane. I did some sightseeing during the day then hit the local bars at night, where of course I met Hannah who used to work at 69 bar / fantasy lounge.

So what's the Vientiane nightlife like?  Centralised or spread out?  Are there monger bars with barfines?  Where  do the ladyboys hang?

Excellent travels Snoop.  Looks like you hit every ASEAN country except Brunei!  :yahoo:

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As with most of your reports, you write well and I have spent 1.5 hours reading this blog. Excellent value for money, between your top of the range travel report and fine photos of interesting places and girls - i have to say Annie is the one I never had the courage to ask to dinner and Nok Yung is lovely.

I have follow your downfall into the pits of despair for the last 10 years - how does a nice boy like you slip so far - well if kendo was one of your mentors -you had no chance!

This thread is so nice the best and the worst as Rom has been keeping up with his artistic cock photos.

Someday we will be in the same place at the same time and we will have that drink

WONDERFUL STUFF

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absoLUTEly the best thread I've read in ages and the photos are NOT "very nice", they are fantastic (wish you'd posted em in higher rez as a dozen or so are destined to be wallpapers on my random wallpaper changer proggie).  And who has better pics in more places with ladyboys in many of them.  Beats all hell outta "me and some trollop in a bar" pics :)  High class stuff boyo.

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A Beagle Abroad

On 7/10/2020 at 2:43 PM, Pdoggg said:

So what's the Vientiane nightlife like?  Centralised or spread out?  Are there monger bars with barfines?  Where  do the ladyboys hang?

Vientiane was my first solo trip abroad.

During my childhood my family went to St. Ives, Cornwall every year for holidays and this continued until my early 20’s. Cornwall became like second home to me; I was familiar with the places, and we met up with pretty much the same people each year. In my 30s Thailand has become my home from home, so although it is “abroad” it no-longer feels like a foreign land. So although my April 2016 trip to Laos was not my first solo trip abroad, it was how I automatically thought of it. As a result I was a little nervous so didn’t venture far and only popped over the border for a couple of days — I regret that I didn’t plan to stay a little longer and venture a bit further North to Vang Vieng and Luang Prabang but I suppose that’s something I can always put right one day.

As always though I did my research and put together a map that I’d use to with the below itinerary.

https://www.google.com/maps/d/edit?mid=1wjvndQflqEsNTyb6BIVCyBEDUTA&usp=sharing

https://www.exotravel.com/tours/laos/classic-vientiane/

From Bangkok it can be expensive to fly to Vientiane but it’s quite cheap (circa 1500bt) to fly to Udon Thani and get a minibus over to Laos — the journey is about 1hr and departure is from Central Festival.  Border crossing can be a bit confusing with touts etc trying to “help” you but for a fee, so it’s best to read up in advance. And don’t forget 2x passport sized photo!

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Minibus ticket office in Udon Thani (above) and Map of "Historic" Vientiance (below)

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Despite being the capital city of Laos, Vientiane is more on par with an Isaan city such as Udon Thani or Khon Kaen in terms of size but the influence of the French colonization has meant there’s a bit of a European influence most notable in the dining options. Makphet Restaurant for example a charity-run restaurant aiming to train the area’s street children. There’s also a night market along the riverside that is well worth visiting. It can be tiring doing both the tourist thing and checking out the nightlife, especially in the humidity of SE Asia, but as every I endeavored to do both.  

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View of the street near Wat Mixai area (above). Patuxay Monument (below).

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Presidential Palace (above). Wat Si Muang (below)

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Statue of LoverBoy25 (above). Spunik Burger (below).

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There aren’t (or at least weren’t 4 years go) any Thailand style monger bars but there are a handful of bars that are popular amongst locals and visitors. I visited a few and found Bor Pen Nyang to be the best; it’s got a reputation for having freelancers looking for tricks and it is where I met Hannah and Pee — the former was with some young guy who had met her up North and was backpacking around SE Asia but Pee pounced on me when I let slip that I knew all the ladyboy bars in Pattaya that Hannah had claimed to have worked at. After we went to a club to the West of the city called @Home Club — like a small version of Marine Disco from what I remember and a good place to pick up some tuppence later at night. Anyone familiar with Thailand will know there are quite a few Laos ladyboys working in Thailand and when they pop back over the border to renew their visas they often stop in Vientiane. Kendo told me once he bumped in to Fah of Guess Bar under such circumstances.

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Mix Ok Inn (Above) - the concierge was a proper Del-boy called Chang who no doubt could arrange anything for a price.

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A derelict building (above). Wind West Bar, live music venue (below).

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Bor Pen Nyang (above). @Home Club (below).

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I didn’t book a hotel in advance, doing the “backpacker thing”, which in retrospect was a bit of a mistake. I looked at a few places before checking in at Mix Ok Hotel near Wat Mixai. It was 700bt a night (Thai baht and US$ are both readily accepted) which compared to Pattaya was not great value for money. However the location is good; it’s also where the street-walkers, tuk tuk drivers and drug-dealers hang out at night — though compared to Thailand it feels a bit shady, a bit like the Wild West.

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On 7/10/2020 at 2:43 PM, Pdoggg said:

The choice of Bali's digital nomads.   Never made it there in my 3 trips as I was in monger mode.  Looks quite peaceful.

Actually it was quite busy. A popular tourist destination so loads of foriegners and at rush hour the narrow roads grind to a standstill. We made the effort to go sightseeing early to avoid both the heat and crowds with some success.

23 hours ago, Annat said:

Excellent value for money, between your top of the range travel report and fine photos of interesting places and girls

Thanks for the kind words. Hopefully our next trip will coincide!

16 hours ago, JustSumGai said:

absoLUTEly the best thread I've read in ages and the photos are NOT "very nice", they are fantastic (wish you'd posted em in higher rez as a dozen or so are destined to be wallpapers on my random wallpaper changer proggie).  And who has better pics in more places with ladyboys in many of them.  Beats all hell outta "me and some trollop in a bar" pics :)  High class stuff boyo.

Thanks! If you want any photos inparticular I can zip them up and send them over. I resize them for the forum but still have the high res images.

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Yorkshire had a lot of hope for its native Son.

But he was swept by the charms of three legged prostitutes in lands afar.

And now we rarely see him. He works, pays taxes, enjoys a pint, but is mostly seen travellinf back and forth to the airport.

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Having been everywhere else in SE Asia, obviously Snoop saved the best for last:

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I recall when last year (2019) snoop PMed me at PY saying he was considering going to the PI and asking me for tips … I gave him some, and was secretly planning to be in Manila or AC when he would, so we could meet in person for the first time and I even staged in my mind a spectacular initial meeting with the participation of my groupies.   But then I got booted from PY and lost the PM channel to stay in touch with him, and also lost the motivation.  But I think after our newly-created bond in this TR, it’s only a matter of time until we meet in person bro !

A couple more questions for Snoop:

10 years and dozens of trips everywhere else in SE Asia, why did it take you so long to finally go to the PI ?

For those 10 years you had always photoshopped a Snoopy cartoon face over your own in the travel pics you shared online.  But after going to the PI you started showing yourself.  What made you change your mind ?

Cheers

Rom


Glossary:

PM = Private Message
PI  =  Philippines
PY =  Pyongyang  (as in that niche-dominant, no-dissent ladyboy mongers Board)

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The Faceless Men

On 7/12/2020 at 4:03 PM, Rom said:

10 years and dozens of trips everywhere else in SE Asia, why did it take you so long to finally go to the PI ?

For those 10 years you had always photoshopped a Snoopy cartoon face over your own in the travel pics you shared online.  But after going to the PI you started showing yourself.  What made you change your mind ?

I wish I could say my own coming out, or unmasking as it were, was for noble or profound reasons but the truth is that it simply seemed pointless hiding. I no longer seem to be anonymous when I'm in Pattaya, I can't help but meet people who already know who I am (a situation of my own creation) plus Britain is not only a more tolerant but a more accepting place than it was just 10 years ago. Despite my well publishes adventures over the past decade I’m a actually quite a private person; something that would seem quite incongruous to my prolific sharing of trip reports and sexual exploits. But what this means to me is that I’m no-longer hiding my status as ladyboy lover but nor am I shouting it from the rooftops as there is no advantage in doing so despite living in a more enlightened country and time.

As I’ve said in previous posts not all countries (in SE Asia) are as accepting of the third-gender as Thailand, yet there is another country that despite this where ladyboys have flourished like beautiful wild flowers in a concrete jungle. If there is one country in the world that could compete with Thailand for its ladyboys it would be PI-land. The adventures of a BM called Valar Dohaeris (whatever happened to him? Legend has it that he is able to change his identity at will, so he could be anywhere or anyone by now) piqued my interest in visiting the Philippines. It was based largely upon his advice, that I finally planned what perhaps seems like a long overdue trip to Manila, Angeles City and Cebu to sample the local delicacies.

The travel recommendations for a monger though do not overlap with Instagram tourists so perhaps that's why I found the cities were lacking in culture compared to other southeast Asian countries I've visited, but when I got down to the island of Panglao and Bohol it was much more picturesque and interesting and there was even a limited amount of p4p. What really enchanted me about Philippines though was the ladyboys so that when my time there was up I was left with a rare feeling of unfinished business there, giving a new meaning to the phrase, “always leave them wanting more” (as it was me who was left wanting).

Manila - Nov 2019

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Jeepney - the PI equivalent of Baht Bus (above). Fort Santiago (below).

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The Minor Basilica and Metropolitan Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception (above). P Burgos Street at night (below) - the Red Light district.

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Angeles City - Nov 2019

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PI's answer to the tuk tuk, the trike (motorbike and sidecar) and Hotel America in the background (along 21st Street which become Fields Ave)

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A bar/club just off Walking Street (above). A rainy day somewhere along 22nd Street (below).

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Walking Street at night (much quieter and smaller than Pattaya).

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Cebu - Nov 2019

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View from Horizon's 101 Cebu (above). Santo Niño, the oldest church in the coutry. (below).

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Fort San Pedro (above and below).

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Heritage of Cebu Monument (above). Yap-Sandiego Ancestral House (below).

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Fuente Osmeña Circle (below) - near Mango Square.

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Bohol / Panglao - Nov 2019

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Chocolate Hills (above). Loboc River Cruise (below).

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Baclayon Church (above). Alona Beach, Panglao (below).

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In preparation for my trip I signed up to Pinaylove - an almost identical site to thaifriendly. I was actually flicking through one day when I chanced upon Anne; what captured my attention was the obvious intelligence discernible from her profile bio. And perhaps I saw a kindred spirit in the slightly geeky pinay who enjoyed reading and history/mythology. I had planned for just one day (two nights) in Manila but despite living over an hours journey from the city centre she agreed to meet for a days sightseeing around the Intramuros area – a proper date with someone who was just 21 years my junior and the first Pinay I spent any time with. Through the course of the day she revealed that until a few months previous she’d had a boyfriend for 3-4 years but he’d been embarrassed to be seen with her in public (the faggot).

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Anne and myself sightseeing around Intramuros.

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Despite the prevalence of Filipina ladyboys they are very much the bottom of the social ladder and are treated with distain by much of society. Or maybe it’s more accurate to say that despite this bigotry, no doubt a result of the Catholic faith (compared to Budhism in LOS) which isn’t exactly known for tolerance (though is not as bad as others), ladyboys are still very much in the open.

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Karla (above) - made out of brown sugar, cocoa, honey and gold. Met her on the mean streets of Angeles City and took this photo in the elevator of my hotel.

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Jenny (above) - I met her and two of her (trans) friends in Marshall's Irish Pub in Cebu. I actually hooked up with her friend because she was wearing some unresitable fuck me shorts but I had a good chat with Jenny who like her friends works in call centre. Apparently Philippines has since taken over, from India, as call center capital of the world which is no bad thing imo.

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Farah Nina at Venice Mall, Manila - I actually met her my first night whilst at Cafe Cubana but didn't hook up until my return to the city at the end of my holiday. In the mean time she sent me a series of pornographic selfies to keep my interest piqued.

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During my 10 days in in PI I met a number of ladyboys, a series of one-night-stands, but one common thread I noticed amongst nearly all was their desire to be accepted. Treating them with respect and kindness seemed to go a long way and genuinely mean a lot to them. More than one ladyboy asked if I didn’t mind holding her hand in public, and when I said “of course not, you’re beautiful and I’m proud to be seen with you” she would hold my hand even tighter. Why should I mind being seen.

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