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Thai Friendly vs Coconut Bar vs Barfines

How Do You Prefer To Hookup With A Ladyboy  

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  1. 1. Which Method Do You Use Most Often

    • Thai Friendly
      2
    • Other Hookup Sites
      0
    • Coconut Bar and Other Street Action
      1
    • Massage
      1
    • Collecting Phone Numbers
      2
    • Beauty Salons and Cosmetic Counters
      0
    • Paying Barfines
      1


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Seems like these days Thai Friendly is more popular than Coconut Bar.  I guess TF works best if you know the particular ladyboy or if she comes highly recommended.  And some guys enjoy searching the profiles.

But I think Coconut Bar has some real advantages with the main ones being you get to have a quick conversation to see if the vibe is right and what you see is what you get.

Earlier this week almost all the ladies and ladyboys were gone from Coconut Bar.

But then a couple days ago they were all out in force.

I suppose the girls make themselves scarce when their friends phone them about a crackdown that's going on.

Any particular areas that you find loaded with ladyboys?

Many guys still prefer the old school method, paying the barfine or at least paying the barfine when it is in their interest to do so.

Other guys like to mix and match drawing ladyboys from all of the above and more.

How about you?

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While I understand visiting  bars and paying barfines still is the method of choice at least by old hands I think its days are numbered.

It'll be smartphones, dating apps in the future. Fine with me. Loud ladyman bars is for the younger crowd.

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I nearly always use TF nowadays, never really had a problem with any of the girls I have met on there that I can think of tbh.

I like to make contact, then interact with and suss out girls that I am interested a few weeks before I arrve in Pattaya.

Those that just say 'Message me when you in Pattaya' I will drop in an instance,.

Don't get me wrong I don't blame them as they will have chatted to a lot of basement wankers who will never ever set foot in the Kingdom.

Those who do give me some of their time will get my custom, up to me B)

If a girl from TF works in a bar then I will be more than happily go to the bar and pay a barfine.

For example there is a girl at Katty Bar that I will be taking LT for at least 3 nights (not concurrently ), plus girls from Hunny Bunny, Duangjai, and Zaza Massage to name but three for ST's :man_in_love: 

Its all done and dusted beforehand, what I want and how much I will pay them.

I certainly will not be wasting a minute of my time on Holiday going through the rigmorole of 'Hello, how are you?', 'Where you from?' or the 'How long you stay' bollocks

Sorted :biggrin:

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5 hours ago, duke007 said:

'Message me when you in Pattaya'

I have never had a girl come over from Thai Friendly so I don't really know what I'm talking about.

But I was trying to help out a friend and told him if in her Profile she says something like 'Message me when you in Pattaya', that's a good sign as he can just be blunt and say, "Can you come to my room now"

Can it be assumed that almost all the ladyboys who have Pattaya as their location are primarily using TF to arrange short times and one can just say, "Come Over To Room Now" maybe with the exception of those who say that they are not looking for one time sex?

When you arrange to meet do you send them Google Map coordinates so they can show to the motobike driver? 

 

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Over the last couple years I have gone almost exclusively to Thaifriendly and Pinalove.  I'll only hit a bar if a friend drags me there and only browse coconut bar the way I browse porn sites.  Even my visits to LBR --to see if my brethren have discovered a new must-see--or reported on a 'whatever-happened-to' with an old fave--have become so rare i might should apologize to those few who might have wondered what became of me. lol.

As for TF--what the girls say in their profiles is virtually meaningless. Unless they are adamant about 'Not here for fun and hate perverts!'  you can safely assume they wouldn't say no to participating in a bit of frivolity with a respectful gent :hi:--especially if it's augmented by a little extra income. As the estimable Mr. Duke says, if the TF girl works a bar and asks to meet there,  and if you then decide to take her away--then the proper thing to do is pay her barfine. Although I find most obvious bargirls don't mind coming straight to your room. But there is no one rule covers all here.

One generally true rule is the distinction between TF and PL. In my experience, I'd say the vast majority of TF ladyboys are working girls and being bluntly mercenary is to be expected, whereas on PL, almost none work bars (there being so few lb bars in PH) and although almost all fill the above bill of being interested in frivolity and cash, most are seeking 'something more', so I find it best to make it very clear that 'something more' isn't on the agenda and if they still want to meet--and they almost always do--you'll find yourself with a somewhat less feminine but considerably less mercenary and almost certainly more horny companion.

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1 hour ago, thaibound said:

who might have wondered what became of me

As a matter of fact , I do/did.

Good to hear from you, mister :)

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it takes me a while to embrace technology.  Have used Thai friendly before with mixed results.  There is something to be said about going to a bar and being able to have a chat and see if there is any type of chemistry.  Even that isnt 100% foolproof.  As long as the barfine isnt too crazy, i dont mind (very much) paying a BF.  its when I hear the BFs creeping up and becoming rather extortionant is when i object.  When these bars come out with crazy Bfs what the heck do they think is going to happen????

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Most of the guys here on LBR want to play around.

So if that's what you're after then the go to dating site would be Thai Friendly

But there are ladyboy dating websites that are oriented to guys and ladyboys who are looking for for a relationship. If that's describes you then I'd Suggest You Read This 

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