SLBT Posted August 15, 2013 Share Posted August 15, 2013 Nothing quite like the ole bum hose to tidy things away nicely.. Best invention ever in my book.. Preparation takes time, buy the right lube for festivities and of course, some baby oil... BB will attest to that I'm sure. I wasn't usually one for getting topped but cracked on regardless and found that my wee bottle of poppers did the trick awesomely. No pain at all and had a fucking fantastic time. I could have had an orgy if I had planned better.. Obviously poppers arn't for everyone but worked well for me.. On another note, and found out purely by complete accident, I got a little spray bottle of ''delay spray'' I tried it on my finger first to dip it into the star spangled banner, so to speak and it numbed up very nicely.. Ok, you wouldnt feel it going in and no pain, but kinda takes the fun out of getting a good juicy cock in yer ass and having your own fun.. Anyway, thats me Enjoy 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TEXASMAC Posted August 15, 2013 Share Posted August 15, 2013 Strange I have asked this question other places before. I will Clean, Shave, Clean, watch TV, Clean , watch TV and then say I am ready. But half way though the all of a sudden I have the urge to ..... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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ArchieBunker Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 How the hell did I miss THIS thread!!! Nothing to add myself since I dont like to bottom. tried it a couple of times for t experience and failed miserably both times!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
duke007 Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 How the hell did I miss THIS thread!!! Nothing to add myself since I dont like to bottom. tried it a couple of times for t experience and failed miserably both times!!!! Lie back and enjoy it AB 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ball2157 Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 Excuse my ignorance but what are poppers I have heard this term before? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
duke007 Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 Excuse my ignorance but what are poppers I have heard this term before? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poppers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ball2157 Posted December 15, 2014 Share Posted December 15, 2014 Cheers thanks for the link Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pdoggg Posted August 11, 2017 Share Posted August 11, 2017 Teen Vogue recently published an article about anal sex for newbies. Some religious parents are appalled that the magazine seems to be encouraging sodomy. Although written for teens, I reckon this could be good info for anyone trying it the first time. When it comes to your body, it’s important that you have the facts. Being in the dark is not doing your sexual health or self-understanding any favors. With that sentiment in mind, we’re here to lay it all out for you when it comes to anal sex. It's important that we talk about all kinds of sex because not everyone is having, or wants to have, "penis in the vagina" sex. If you do have "penis in the vagina" sex and are curious about something else, or are finding that that type of sex is not for you and you'd just like to explore other options, it's helpful to know the facts. Even if you do learn more and decide anal sex is not a thing you'd like to try, it doesn't hurt to have the information. If you're not comfortable reading about anal sex, that's perfectly OK, too. We have plenty of other articles around a variety of issues and wellness. Feel free to click out if you'd like! No pressure at all. Obviously there is a lot of stuff on the Internet about anal (we don’t suggest you Google it), but most of what you’ll find is either porn or advice for experienced sexual persons looking to try something new. What about the teenagers? What about the LGBTQ young people who need to know about this for their sexual health? I have got you covered. Without all the run-of-the-mill hoopla, here is the lowdown on everything you need to know about butt stuff, no matter who you are, whom you’re having sex with, or who you want to have sex with. This is anal 101, for teens, beginners, and all inquisitive folk. The anus is full of nerve endings that, for some, feel awesome when stimulated. Why anal? Anal sex, though often stigmatized, is a perfectly natural way to engage in sexual activity. People have been having anal sex since the dawn of humanity. Seriously, it's been documented back to the ancient Greeks and then some. So if you’re a little worried about trying it or are having trouble understanding the appeal, just know that it isn’t weird or gross. The anus is full of nerve endings that, for some, feel awesome when stimulated. The opening of the butthole is where the the most nerves are, so you don’t have to put anything that far up there (if you don’t want to) for it to feel good. That being said, anal (like all sex acts) is not enjoyed by everyone, and that’s totally OK. You should do what you feel comfortable with and what feels pleasurable for you. There is no wrong way to experience sexuality, and no way is better than any other. The appeal of anal when you have a prostate For those of you with prostates, being on the receiving end of anal sex can be a great experience. First of all: What is a prostate? The prostate is a gland near the bladder that produces prostate fluid, one of the main elements of semen. It is located just in front of the rectum and can be stimulated with a toy, fingers, or penis. It feels like a solid, small bulge. It feels good to have the prostate stimulated. This is one of the reasons receiving anal sex when you have a prostate can be very enjoyable. You can even have a prostate-induced orgasm! The appeal of anal when you do not have a prostate Just because you have a vagina does not mean anal is off-limits. Many vagina owners love anal play. You don’t need to have a prostate to enjoy anal sex. For those without a prostate, having your anus stimulated can still be great — remember all those nerve endings are still in the fold here. It is often described as a feeling of fullness, which can be delightful. The anus is not as malleable as a vagina, which has the ability to accommodate an infant’s head by design. The anus is very tight, and the feeling of having something in your rectal area is unique. It is often described as a feeling of fullness, which can be delightful. How to ask your partner if they're ready to try anal Whether you are planning to give or receive anal sex, a conversation must take place beforehand. Enthusiastic consent is necessary for both parties to enjoy the experience. Asking for anal can be a bit daunting, no matter who you are. Have a one-on-one with your partner and let them know that this is something you want to try. Be honest about your feelings about it. In a healthy relationship, you should be able to discuss anything openly. Everyone wants to have a good experience. If they are into it, go ahead and get started. Start slow — seriously Here is the real deal. You can’t just decide you’re going to start having anal one day and then go for it, anchors away! Nope. Not a great idea. You need to start slowly. The anus is a muscle that needs to be worked up to having larger objects inserted. Start with finger or a small (I do mean v. small) butt plug and either warm yourself up or have a partner help. To do this, lube up your finger or toy and gently massage the anus. As you feel more aroused and comfortable, work the object inside. Gently move it around to loosen up the area. Never put any toy up your butt that does not have a flared base. You do not want to lose anything up there — the rectum is expansive. No, you cannot just “poop it out.” When you do have anal sex, go slowly. When you do have anal sex, go slowly. Regular communication with your partner will keep things level. If something hurts, say so and stop. Take a breather. Be sure to relax as much as possible. If you tense up, it will make things much more difficult and therefore less fun. Lube is a must Lube is essential for comfortable (and safe) anal sex. The anus does not naturally lubricate the way a vagina does. If you want to have a good experience, the more lube the better. Condoms are also nonnegotiable. There is no risk of pregnancy during anal sex, but STIs are widespread and abundant. Protect yourself and practice safe sex every single time. When it comes to lube, silicone-based lubes are easier for anal sex, as they are slippier and tend to stay on longer. The problem? Some silicone lubes corrode latex due to a high oil content, which can cause condoms to break. Google the silicone lube you're considering using before trying it with condoms. Likewise, stay clear of all oil-based lubes, as these too can damage the integrity of a latex condom. When in doubt, go for a water-based, unscented, unflavored lubricant if you're unsure about the lube you're using. Yes, there might be some poop Forgive me for waiting until the very end of this piece to get to this burning question, but I wanted you to know the benefits and positives when it comes to anal. Because there are many! Yes, you will come in contact with some fecal matter. I want to personally assure you that that you will not poop on anyone during anal sex. Sure, there are horror stories, but aren’t there always? That being said, yes, you will come in contact with some fecal matter. You are entering a butthole. It is where poop comes out. Expecting to do anal play and see zero poop isn’t particularly realistic. It’s NOT a big deal. Everyone poops. Everyone has a butt. Anal sex and anal stimulation can be awesome, and if you want to give it a go, you do that. More power to you. Gigi Engle is a writer and sex educator in NYC. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cobber32 Posted August 12, 2017 Share Posted August 12, 2017 Thanks, Pdoggg, for a very interesting and well written article. I like the fact that it is non-judgemental, using simple language and giving what sounds like good advice. Might have to look into this further, 555. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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