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Labels! Labels! Labels!

We must get over the labels (made up by some twat 50+ years ago)…. It’s a ‘Sexual Fetish!’

For the guys who get frustrated, on what ‘label’ they fall into, which there are only 3….. ‘Straight’, ‘Bisexual’, and ‘Gay’. But you can’t fit the whole realm of the different LB Fetishes into just these 3 groups. And it is never as simple as that!

The guys who go with LB’s are divided up into these basic groups, but not all of them;

THINKING

Guys (who would be labeled straight) who are always fantasizing about LB’s, but haven’t yet grew the ball’s to try it out!....... What stupid Label are these guys? ………..That’s an unknown Fetish!

ANAL + RECEIVING BEST BJ’s

Guys (who would be labeled straight) who are big-time into anal, but find it hard to get a Thai GG that will do it wile mongering, as most GG’s don’t like to do it. These guys know for sure when selecting a LB ST/LT, will always know for sure he’s going to get anal, and at the same time get a better blow-job than most of the GG’s could do. But won’t go any further. (Some guy’s only go for the blow-job)……..What stupid label are these guys?............. It’s a Sexual Fetish!

THE ABOVE + RECEIVING RIMMING

As the male anus has more pleasure receptacles than on the penis, Guy’s (who would be labeled straight) enjoy receiving tongue rimming, not unlike receiving it from they’re wives/girlfriends in the western world, but again the chances are the Thai GG he pick’s up, may not want to do it. So picking up a LB, he’s sure of it. But won’t go any further. …….. What stupid label are these guys?....... It’s just a Sexual Fetish!

THE ABOVE + ANUS FINGER PLAY

Guy’s (who would be labeled straight) enjoy ether finger play on the anus wile fucking their wives/girlfriends, or their wives/girlfriends giving a blow-job wile playing with the anus, and help’s him get off better. But again, a bit of a taboo with the Thai GG’s, but not a problem with the LB’s. But won’t go any further.…….. What stupid label are these guy’s?........ It’s just a Fetish!

THE ABOVE + FINGER PENETRATION

Guy’s (who would be labeled straight) who like to go a little bit further, and prefer penetration of the finger wile having sex, or receiving a blow-jog from their wives/girlfriends, stimulating the prostate, and help sustain an erection, and/or gets them off better. But again, a bit of a taboo with the Thai GG’s, but not a problem with the LB’s. But won’t go any further.…….. What stupid label are these guy’s?........ It’s just a Fetish!

THE ABOVE + GIVING A HAND-JOB

Guys who don’t mind giving pleasure by throwing in the odd hand-job to a LB, but won’t go any further. But the thought of giving a hand-job to his mate, a fellow BM, or a big hairy brick-layer, would make him sick. .…….. What stupid label are these guy’s?........ It’s just a Fetish!

THE ABOVE + GIVING A BLOW-JOB

Guys who don’t mind giving a LB a blow-job, after all the only difference between the male/female genitals is the shape, and just a different action in performing oral sex, which shouldn’t be a big deal. Guys that have a foot fetish, licking/sucking, feet & toes, are not far off this mark. But the thought of giving a blow-job to his mate, a fellow BM, or a big hairy brick-layer, would make him sick. .…….. What stupid label are these guy’s?........ It’s just a Fetish!

THE ABOVE + RECEIVING ANAL SEX

Guy’s (who would be labeled straight) who like to receive anal sex from their wives/girlfriends with a strap-on. So what’s the difference between that, and a LB doing it? But again, the thought of getting fucked in the ass by his mate, a fellow BM, or a big hairy brick-layer, would make him sick. .…….. What stupid label are these guy’s?........ It’s just a Fetish!

FETISH

Guy’s/ girl’s who are into S&M, Dogging, Scat, Bondage, Submission, Animals, Foot, two guys onto one female, etc. etc. etc. Although some of them quite sick…….. But what stupid label do you put on these…….They are nothing more than Fetishes. Just the same as the guy’s that go with/like/love LB’s.

In all my travels of over 30 year, meeting every fellow BM and LB lover I have came across, not once did I consider them or myself to be ‘Gay’……In fact far from it! …. It’s just a fetish we all share. Irrespective of what acts are performed in the bedroom, that’s their and my own personal business.

If you think your ‘Gay’, then ask yourself how much of a collection of 100% hairy biker/village people gay porn do you have? How much do you enjoy watching porn on 100% hairy biker/village people gay porn sites? How much time do you spend on 100% hairy biker/village people gay dating & chat rooms, chatting up other dudes? Etc.

Then you might find your answer there! And if you do find out…. Try to keep it to yourself!

PLEASE!

Please THINK BEFORE starting any threads on the forum with the subject, ‘is this forum getting too gay ’, ‘is it gay to go with LB’s’, or ‘am I gay if I…….’, as it’s like a dog trying to catch his own tail…… stupid, never forthcoming, a waste of time, and gets you nowhere!

WE SIMPLY SHARE A FETISH!

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In all my travels of over 30 year, meeting every fellow BM and LB lover I have came across, not once did I consider them or myself to be ‘Gay’……In fact far from it! …. It’s just a fetish we all share. Irrespective of what acts are performed in the bedroom, that’s their and my own personal business.

Excellent post Paul! :D

The way I see you're gay if you say your gay and straight if you say you're straight and bi if you say you're bi. B)

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Labels! Labels! Labels!

We must get over the labels (made up by some twat 50+ years ago)…. It’s a ‘Sexual Fetish!’

For the guys who get frustrated, on what ‘label’ they fall into, which there are only 3….. ‘Straight’, ‘Bisexual’, and ‘Gay’. But you can’t fit the whole realm of the different LB Fetishes into just these 3 groups. And it is never as simple as that!

The guys who go with LB’s are divided up into these basic groups, but not all of them;

THINKING

Guys (who would be labeled straight) who are always fantasizing about LB’s, but haven’t yet grew the ball’s to try it out!....... What stupid Label are these guys? ………..That’s an unknown Fetish!

ANAL + RECEIVING BEST BJ’s

Guys (who would be labeled straight) who are big-time into anal, but find it hard to get a Thai GG that will do it wile mongering, as most GG’s don’t like to do it. These guys know for sure when selecting a LB ST/LT, will always know for sure he’s going to get anal, and at the same time get a better blow-job than most of the GG’s could do. But won’t go any further. (Some guy’s only go for the blow-job)……..What stupid label are these guys?............. It’s a Sexual Fetish!

THE ABOVE + RECEIVING RIMMING

As the male anus has more pleasure receptacles than on the penis, Guy’s (who would be labeled straight) enjoy receiving tongue rimming, not unlike receiving it from they’re wives/girlfriends in the western world, but again the chances are the Thai GG he pick’s up, may not want to do it. So picking up a LB, he’s sure of it. But won’t go any further. …….. What stupid label are these guys?....... It’s just a Sexual Fetish!

THE ABOVE + ANUS FINGER PLAY

Guy’s (who would be labeled straight) enjoy ether finger play on the anus wile fucking their wives/girlfriends, or their wives/girlfriends giving a blow-job wile playing with the anus, and help’s him get off better. But again, a bit of a taboo with the Thai GG’s, but not a problem with the LB’s. But won’t go any further.…….. What stupid label are these guy’s?........ It’s just a Fetish!

THE ABOVE + FINGER PENETRATION

Guy’s (who would be labeled straight) who like to go a little bit further, and prefer penetration of the finger wile having sex, or receiving a blow-jog from their wives/girlfriends, stimulating the prostate, and help sustain an erection, and/or gets them off better. But again, a bit of a taboo with the Thai GG’s, but not a problem with the LB’s. But won’t go any further.…….. What stupid label are these guy’s?........ It’s just a Fetish!

THE ABOVE + GIVING A HAND-JOB

Guys who don’t mind giving pleasure by throwing in the odd hand-job to a LB, but won’t go any further. But the thought of giving a hand-job to his mate, a fellow BM, or a big hairy brick-layer, would make him sick. .…….. What stupid label are these guy’s?........ It’s just a Fetish!

THE ABOVE + GIVING A BLOW-JOB

Guys who don’t mind giving a LB a blow-job, after all the only difference between the male/female genitals is the shape, and just a different action in performing oral sex, which shouldn’t be a big deal. Guys that have a foot fetish, licking/sucking, feet & toes, are not far off this mark. But the thought of giving a blow-job to his mate, a fellow BM, or a big hairy brick-layer, would make him sick. .…….. What stupid label are these guy’s?........ It’s just a Fetish!

THE ABOVE + RECEIVING ANAL SEX

Guy’s (who would be labeled straight) who like to receive anal sex from their wives/girlfriends with a strap-on. So what’s the difference between that, and a LB doing it? But again, the thought of getting fucked in the ass by his mate, a fellow BM, or a big hairy brick-layer, would make him sick. .…….. What stupid label are these guy’s?........ It’s just a Fetish!

FETISH

Guy’s/ girl’s who are into S&M, Dogging, Scat, Bondage, Submission, Animals, Foot, two guys onto one female, etc. etc. etc. Although some of them quite sick…….. But what stupid label do you put on these…….They are nothing more than Fetishes. Just the same as the guy’s that go with/like/love LB’s.

In all my travels of over 30 year, meeting every fellow BM and LB lover I have came across, not once did I consider them or myself to be ‘Gay’……In fact far from it! …. It’s just a fetish we all share. Irrespective of what acts are performed in the bedroom, that’s their and my own personal business.

If you think your ‘Gay’, then ask yourself how much of a collection of 100% hairy biker/village people gay porn do you have? How much do you enjoy watching porn on 100% hairy biker/village people gay porn sites? How much time do you spend on 100% hairy biker/village people gay dating & chat rooms, chatting up other dudes? Etc.

Then you might find your answer there! And if you do find out…. Try to keep it to yourself!

PLEASE!

Please THINK BEFORE starting any threads on the forum with the subject, ‘is this forum getting too gay ’, ‘is it gay to go with LB’s’, or ‘am I gay if I…….’, as it’s like a dog trying to catch his own tail…… stupid, never forthcoming, a waste of time, and gets you nowhere!

WE SIMPLY SHARE A FETISH!

Best Ladyboy post that I've read anywhere, coherent, concise & well & truly spot on... Thanks for putting it out there!

+1 mate!

Concur with the Hound too, but he's not getting a +1

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Oh, alight then Hound +1... I'm giving these things out like toffees.

Anyway, I don't need a label, I'm just 'me' & anyone can call me what the fuck they want!.. So long as it's not 'ambidextrous'.

Nice to see we're in some grown up company for once!

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Besides Straight, Gay or Bisexual, there is also Pansexual. That is what I consider myself to be. IMO, many lb lovers are pansexual. I also have sex with men (only Asian these days so don't feel threatened Sam, :spiteful: ), and women as well as lbs.

There are some lbs lovers who only have sex with lbs. No women and no men. When one reaches that point it is well beyond being just a fetish.

Take a quick read if you feel like and see if that doesn't describe you too.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pansexuality

http://dating.about.com/od/glossarywordspq/g/pansexual.htm

Also:

Pansexuality includes all kinds of sexuality that can exist in a human being, tendencies that may prevail either permanently or occasionally.

THE THEORY OF PANSEXUALITY

By Peter Boom

Human beings, by nature must be, "pansexual" (from the Greek, Pan = all) a complete sexual person. We all possess various sexual possibilities

generally classified as heterosexual, homosexual, bi-sexual, autoerotic,

fetishist, sado-masochistic, etc. These tendencies in our nature can come

out at any time, according to the development of each individual. Children

are born polimorphoperverse; the curiosity of discovery leads them to play

with their mothers, touch their genitals, masturbate and investigate their

excretia. Later, as they develop, they play games of "doctor" as they

explore the bodies and functions of their friends. All this is perfectly

natural.

During puberty their ambivalence is natural and undeniable as they adapt to life as an adult. Only later does their sexual proclivity become more

crystallized and definite, although the range of options remain open. These

options are partially repressed or are made taboo, according to the society

in which they live.

There's a tribe in Borneo in which the women live with their children in a

huge hut, while men live apart from them. In Kenya there's a nomadic tribe of proud long-living people who have the custom of coupling boys of twelve

in a ritual of blood-mixing. These male couples remain faithful to each

other all their lives, wandering far off together, returning to the tribe

once or twice a year in order to procreate with the women.

There are many examples, like the Siwans from Africa, the Sambia in New Guinea, where nearly all males engage in both hetero- and homo-sexual intercourse, but we can leave these to the anthropologists.

The term "pansexuality" exists already, but with a different meaning to that which I apply to it, indicating the concept to which sexual instinct is the basis of all human behaviour (Freud).

It is important not to repress any of our pansexuality and to live it

freely, using good sense. The repression and banning of natural instinct

creates frustration, often resulting in antisocial and violent behaviour.

Good sense is embodied in the expression: "Don't do unto others what you

would not have them do unto you!"

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That's an interesting take. These fetishes excite me. But I don't want my friends to find out as I don't need the ridiclue.

The way I look at it, now that I'm an old basterd especially, if someone would choose to ridicule me based on my sexuality, they are not a true friend anyway, and I don't need them in my life. Better to just disassociate myself from so called friends like that.

Like our old friend Dr Seuss said: "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."

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Oh, alight then Hound +1 I'm giving these things out like toffees

Anyway, I don't need a label, I'm just 'me' & anyone can call me what the fuck they want!.. So long as it's not 'ambidextrous'.

Nice to see we're in some grown up company for once!

I hope it isn't bad to be ambidextrous. :) I think I kind of am. I write, throw, bowl, play ping pong left handed, kick left footed and shoot a pistol left handed, though really could with either hand. I bat or golf right handed, I shoot a rifle from the right shoulder. I can shovel in food with either hand, though generally it is the left one which most commonly guides food to the mouth.

I've read that a higher percent of left handed people are geniuses compared to right handed people. Also, a higher pct are insane too, as there is a fine line between genius and insanity. A higher percent of left handed people are also gay. I've read that here in Thailand overall ladyboys and gays have higher IQs than straight men or women. A higher percent of the addle minded types are right handed, who just sort of stumble through life and somehow make it to old age still relatively intact, but not sure how they got there. :spiteful:

Also a higher percent of weak minded people are the fervently religious types, since they are the kind of folks who need the crutch of religion, which is all religions really are. :diablo: :angel: Atheists and Agnostics are more inclined to be deep thinkers and strong minded. :hi:

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I hope it isn't bad to be ambidextrous. :) I think I kind of am. I write, throw, bowl, play ping pong left handed, kick left footed and shoot a pistol left handed, though really could with either hand. I bat or golf right handed, I shoot a rifle from the right shoulder. I can shovel in food with either hand, though generally it is the left one which most commonly guides food to the mouth.

I've read that a higher percent of left handed people are geniuses compared to right handed people. Also, a higher pct are insane too, as there is a fine line between genius and insanity. A higher percent of left handed people are also gay. I've read that here in Thailand overall ladyboys and gays have higher IQs than straight men or women. A higher percent of the addle minded types are right handed, who just sort of stumble through life and somehow make it to old age still relatively intact, but not sure how they got there. :spiteful:

Also a higher percent of weak minded people are the fervently religious types, since they are the kind of folks who need the crutch of religion, which is all religions really are. :diablo: :angel: Atheists and Agnostics are more inclined to be deep thinkers and strong minded. :hi:

It's OK, I'm not an ambidextrophobe.

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I'm glad Lefty replied to the newbie post, I was just about to myself, because as much as this subject might bore a lot of the 'old hands' (like myself), it's still a really interesting topic for the fledgling & where's a forum going to be without them?

So, I think it's a good time the newbies start posting!

None of us need the ridicule Ramrod!.. You just get to a stage where you 'get on with it' regardless. Your skin will eventually thicken to the strength of a Rhino's

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Happen to hear your restrict yourself to Asian men only Lefty. Nonetheless I have caught you looking at me a number of times and, although flattering, it still gives me the heebie geebies. :air_kiss:

Apparently you mistook amusement for lust.

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