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The Demise of the Girlfriend Experience?


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It seems like almost everyday, some guy is telling me that things have changed and the girls are no longer giving a proper GFE.

Now I'm thinking why would that be?

Now, a girl who's been around for awhile could get jaded.

And we mongers get jaded too. B)

But you would think that a brand new girl on the scene today really shouldn't be giving much different service than a new girl did three years ago.

But that's not what I'm hearing from the field. What you say? <_<

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This is not what I have been seeing in my little field. I am with my Thai girl (who is much to my junior) and I am getting the full meal deal GFE including the daily moody pouts over insignificant things. :)

During the afternoon we sit around the pool at our hotel and watch old and young farangs with their ladies of various ages and it seems the girls are giving them the full treatment also. Sure, as an objective observer we can detect trace elements of insincerity but certainly no more than usual or expected. All within acceptable levels of the GFE richter scale.

Perhaps there is more noticeable cynicism with the girls who work Little Moscow (aka Walking Street). This we can blame on the Russians for sure.

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I'm definitely getting the full-on GFE from Lek, my 4am bargirl. She calls me every day and then arrives to loom after I finally deign to pick up, comes straight in, showers, and then fucks my brains out and zonks out minutes later wrapped around me like a 4'7" 85 pound monkey. She cannot speak much english (the main themes of her discourse are "fuck" and "hello") which is fine by me. She's an excellent mimic though and randomly jabbers engrish words back to me after I've said or mumbled them, which is often hilarious. She started sniff kissing me about the 4th night I let her stay. Last night she arrived, unbidden, at 3am but lucky for her I alone so I let her in and the usual comedy/XXX routine ensued. She say "phone gone" when I asked, but somehow it mysteriously reappeared during the night while she su-leeped as it began ringing this morning and some thai dude jabbered at her for a bit then she got very animated and JABBERED at him then hung up. I asked her if it her thai boyfriend (pretty sure it probably is) and she got very animated, said something about a ladyboy. I think she's trying to tell me her roomate is ladyboy but I'm just not sure. Her engrish so bad that she continues to say she works at Panda bar on Soi 7, but when questioned (there is no Panda - only a Pan.T and Pandora) she seems to indicate that yes, it's Pandora at which she currently has an employment contract. As to her actual title, it's hard to decipher but I think from the gyrations she's saying she dances there. Either that or she's a bouncer I cannot be sure.

I've actually become rather enamored of my little monkey, and will be sorry to see her go. Or me go, if truth be told. She's the perfect girlfriend - sweet on me, sex anytime I want it, and doesn't tell me to buy her things or assign chores. Shows up, fucks me in return for a nice bed to sleep in, and then disappears whenever I tell her she has to leave - that night, the next day, whatever.

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My first trip to the LOS was in aught four, and I knew very little. So I don't know that I feel qualified to comment on any kind of generational change.

But from what I can see, Thailand experienced tremendous growth in recent years in the sex tourism industry. Then whammo! The economic recession, which not only is altering the finances of the scene and those involved in it, but also the nature of the clientele, which then in turn exacerbates the situation.

That said, human nature is human nature. And cultural conditioning doesn't change overnight. My hunch is that guys that are saying this, it's more about them than the scene. It's a time-honored tradition to say "things ain't like they used to be." And though that can sometimes be true, it's also a crutch for some that don't want to put in the same effort themselves anymore.

Look at Deepthroat and SiamSam -- they're exuberant and putting in the effort, and both claim to be thoroughly enjoying the GFE. SS sits poolside with his girl and takes care of her when she's ill, and DT's over there getting sniff-kisses!

I'd say the GFE scene was doing pretty well... :)

(but that said, I've found that my trips to LOS have mirrored my personal life, and my desire for the GFE is nose-diving...)

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Im with the GFE School, if I find one I really like and the chemistry is there then I will stay with them longtime lol, which leads me to add..............

I had the most fantastic GFE in Pattaya for a week recently :rolleyes:

The chemistry seemed to be there and we clicked together ( IMHO anyway :lol: ) which helps of course.

She is awesome with a great personality and character,her mannerisms and infectious laugh also had me cracked up.

She also even took too 2 days off work to take care of me after I had had a slight altercation with a 4x4 Pick up Truck on Pattaya Tai :o

I loved every second I spent with this girl and as we have kept in contact everyday since I got back I can see this particular GFE carrying on ;)

I miss those lips too much :wub: :D

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I miss those lips too much :wub: :D

She's a real sweetie Duke!

What the guys are saying on this thread is my exact view of things, but just a view, since I just don't know firsthand what's going on. I think individual ladyboys and individual mongers change over time, but the scene remains the same.

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Re FB's economic angle, I think there are quite a few on the FL scene particularly, who have little to no experience or have joined Bars (talking BKK here)after losing employment etc. This can often times lead to a disappointing 'fumbling' encounter :(

But the GFE lives on. Dave is flying the flag for us all. He seems to find a new one every trip :D

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It is difficult to have a GFE when your brain is suggesting you visit one of 20 other LB venues with fresh pickings......

There is a big difference between a guy on vacation and a resident.

A resident can hardly butterfly 365 days a year - too much in terms of cost and energy. So for a resident a steady, or semi steady, partner suits.

Vacationers - the newer people to the scene seem to either prefer a constant companion (security) or just go insane and shag anything that moves.

I think as we all get to know the scene/venues better we tend to prefer to go 'fishing' rather than hang out with one specific LB. There are just too many out there. When you live in a candy store you can become bored with candy.

One warning for the resident GFE guys - have you got an exit strategy. As the old song goes "Breaking up is hard to do" and normally costs money.

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As with "femboy", it seems "GFE" has different meanings to different people. Wish the Oxford English Dicktionary would clear this up. :D

To some GFE refers to a few days, weeks, or months with the same ladyboy.

To others it might mean the overall attitude of a paid escort during a one hour encounter. They might say if a girl doesn't tongue kiss or give a BBBJ then it wouldn't be a GFE.

Good to see you over here Rossco! :)

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To some GFE refers to a few days, weeks, or months with the same ladyboy.

To others it might mean the overall attitude of a paid escort during a one hour encounter. They might say if a girl doesn't tongue kiss or give a BBBJ then it wouldn't be a GFE.

Good point PD. In this context I'm accenting the 'E'. It's about the Effort :D

Happy Birthday Lefty ! Good to see you too B)

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But the GFE lives on. Dave is flying the flag for us all. He seems to find a new one every trip :D

heh heh, you have noticed that also, eh Guy? They always somehow seem to be "the one" too :)

Don't like it, don't want it, never really have....in 12 years of traveling in Thailand I'd guess I could only count one LB as a serious girlfriend, and she was waaaaay back in the beginning, in 2002-2003; a sweet college girl [at the time] who came over whenever I wanted, and more importantly LEFT whenever I wanted. And I have been there for long stretches, like 3 or 4 months at a time.

Too much drama, too many cultural barriers, nothing in common, too many uncomfortable dinners sitting across from someone who doesn't say a word, etc, etc.....I like my bed to myself also, someone sleeping in it just doesn't feel right.

For me short times are much better but everyone is different.

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heh heh, you have noticed that also, eh Guy? They always somehow seem to be "the one" too :)

Don't like it, don't want it, never really have....in 12 years of traveling in Thailand I'd guess .....I like my bed to myself also, someone sleeping in it just doesn't feel right.

For me short times are much better but everyone is different.

10 years and Im still learning Jai Dee but I wouldn't change a thing :unsure: , its certainly been a learning experience thats for sure :blink:

Like you say we are all different, if I meet someone I really like I tend to stay with them longterm and love waking up next to them every morning ( in Thailand that is)

So any bets on how long my lastest teerak will last? :D , shes so damm bloody cute :give_rose:

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