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  1. This thread seeks to provide my take on the book “The Paultain Experience” a mongering focused auto-biography published in 2009 by the since deceased fellow ladyboy monger Paultain who I am considering for induction this year (2022) into my self-instituted Romscars Hall of Legends. I encourage all BMs to post their own reflections on the book if they read it and on Paultain himself. Regardless of what I think, Paultain is already legendary enough in the minds of many fellow BMs who met him in person on the field of battle (Pattaya) or followed his authoritative posts at several ladyboy boards, including here. However, Paultain was by his own accounts mostly a GG monger and I was never totally convinced of his ladyboy mongering credentials and that’s why I did not put him up for induction sooner. In this thread I will explain why I hesitated, while wanting to reassure upfront that Paultain will likely be inducted this year unless some other BM comes up with hesitations more critical than my own, which I doubt will happen. You see, Paultain did something no other ladyboy monger has done: he wrote a book where he demystifies sex with ladyboys! For that alone he is legendary in his own right. But, by my own literary-critical standards, I am not crazy about his book and when I got it years ago I put it down after reading the first 3 or 4 chapters and skipping to the last few pages which confirmed the rest of the book would be more of the same. I just returned from a trip to TH-PH during which I forced myself to read the book from cover to cover (388 pages) so as to learn as much as I could about Paultain as a matter of due diligence with a view to inducting him or not into the Romscars Hall of Legends. That due diligence objective was accomplished and in the process I realized why I was not so keen on the book the first time around when I had instinctively dismissed it as too tritely and predictably written for me, too self-hagiographic and likely selectively dubious throughout. But as I read more of it during the trip, I began to realize that the real reason I was uncomfortable about “The Paultain Experience” is that it was showing flashes of myself in the mirror and I did not like what I saw.
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  2. I know some guys who will be in Pattaya soon will be happy to know that the Pattaya Beer Garden is open and waiting for them. I popped in the other night for a snack and it brought back memories of my first visit to Pattaya.
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  3. Finally i am on my way to AC and it was not easy to let Kendy go because she is a darling and told her i might return before i leave PH but seems like this trip i wont be coming back to Manila. So i took the Grab taxi to Trinoma to take the bus to AC which is about 2 hours, as i was told i did it wrong but as long as i get there it will be fine. As i arrive i see the bus leaving seems like i missed the 1pm bus but........ another bus turned up in 10 minutes time and apparently there is a 2pm bus and as long as the aircon is working it will do me fine. Leaving Bangkok and Pattaya because of the Flash Flood and happy with the Sun in Manila. and soon the bus started, and realizing that i was one of less than 10 passengers, who knows how they make money. Paid my 230p and took a nap, soon 2 hours passed and roll into SM Clark, took my favorite (not really) trike to my favorite hotel on walking street and soon you guys will know why this hotel is my favorite and The Prof would swear that this is "THE HOTEL" to be...... As i have a short meeting online, i took the meeting and cant wait for the meeting to end..... very soon i was on my way to Phillies aka Femboy Central. This time round i realized there are more and more silicon in AC which is a big surprise as previously silicon was kind of a rarity. As i enter Phillies i see a familiar shadow and giving me all the right sign..... yes i met her in April for a threesome ..... her name is Kate Very soon i was on the rooftop 24 hour open, no cameras working swimming pool overlooking walking street..... as my old habit of swimming naked is dying hard..... after a few drinks.... mutual blowjob and naked swimming, we needed a change of scenery and Tom Cruise's latest movie would be it...... Flying higher with those fighter jet. Kate went for a quick shower and change into her chosen outfit, we played around, 69 and whatever works, time for the daily special of the tail with the plug. We had a good 30 minutes and soon we both erupted, and she told me she hasn't been fucked for 5 days which looks like it from the amount of jizz. I slept with a smile on my face and looking forward to The Prof descending in AC and we will Lock and Load
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  4. Can’t say I disagree, Sith. Lots of BMs like to see sexy pics, and Rom (and you) do not disappoint in the filthy pics department. But what I appreciate most about Rom’s TRs is his writing. He has written some nice bits of prose in his TRs, and he often does so with uncommon candor. I respect writers who take risks. Most of us don’t have the balls or motivation to write TRs at all, never mind with Rom’s candor.
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  5. I see it slightly differently from Rom's point of view. Demographics is just one side of the "problem". Thailand is experiencing economic development, what impacts demographics but also their way of life and their need to resort to prostitution. We've seen that scenes like Pattaya and BKK tend to collapse. I don't believe in a complete collapse. When many bars close and freelancers are back home, such cities will be less and less interesting while prices will increase. I don't know how long it will take and I don't really care. IMHO, in the next decade, you can find more opportunitie if you start tracking ladyboys "fresh from the farm" in their provinces (You will then discover they don't come from a farm but from middle or low class families). You will then have to drag and search in Issan. If you like the countryside, it can be a pleasant experience. The north and northeast of Thailand are likely to become places to visit. But the main difference is that you won't sit in a bar and see your prays coming to you unless you're really lucky. Since Thailand is no longer so attractive, there will be interesting opportunities in other SE Asia countries. They already exist but not so many mongers have tried the experience : Malaysia, Myanmar, the Philippines (I guess the Phil will last longer than Thailand), Vietnam, Cambodia (but it seems that Cambodia never manages anything), Indonesia (That'll depend on their economic development) and maybe later China (but too much remains unknown in China. As long as the country is lead by a dictatorship, the ladyboy scene will remain too low). Out of SE Asia, India might become an interesting ladyboy scene. One has to enjoy living there. If the UK remains unable to improve their economic situation, I guess there will be bars growing like mushrooms in cities like Brighton with English femboys and shemales. This would be fun, we'll be too old (not to say dead already when this happens). Whatever happens, I don't think we'll find new scenes like Pattaya or BKK between Nana and soi cow boy in another country. However, we'll still find pleasant scenes if we accept them the way they are.
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  6. Barty intrigues me. I’ve got an itch for her. She’s a big girl, and has a sweet disposition. I wouldn’t want to get on her bad side though. I reckon she could kick the average bloke’s arse up and down Soi Pothole if necessary. Smart staffing choice @Delirious Bar — bar gurl / bouncer.
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  7. oh my god...i can't take any more!...
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  8. I can guarantee you that all ethnicities are welcome at Katoeys “R” Us. I’ve been there numerous time in the past few weeks and I have seen several Indians in there, having a great time. Everyone is welcome there.
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  9. okay, me being impressed by Quinns dedication to Quiz nights, And Quietguy's knowledge of stars and planets. Here's a question: But first a clue.. The answer isn't the aforementioned Quietguy, although it is heavily rumoured [well it is now..] that he shot 5 guys before he was 12, or maybe 12 guys before he was 5, one of them anyway.. This of course was long before he retired from being a Gunslinger to ride with Fidel and Che. And even before he recently opened a Afgnani trannie's grooming emporium in West London. So, the answer isn't Quietguy [Kid Poke]... the question is 'Which Gunslinger is considered to have been the biggest KIller in the wild west?
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  10. She is the stuff sissy dreams are made of... I don't remember her name, but I remember she telling me she was Miss Congeniality at Miss Tiffany Universe 5 or 6 years ago... Besides beauty and elegance, she has a mesmerizing personality and instantly made me feel like she was interested to be with me and in what I had to say. I hate do admit this to my fellow BMs, but I think she is out of my league given that I don't live in BKK and I am much much older than other men she can choose to be with... My only hope is when I go back the Kingpin hooking us up on some sort of double date as he is interested in Miss Congeniality's blonde bestie... Thanks Sylvester means a lot coming from someone who in the past raised an eyebrow at me using sissies as living canvases in my TRs... unless of course you felt compelled to praise me for the sake of your beloved Zammy, who I had refrained from painting but you might fear I still might. Fear not: Zammy is safe. I am far away in the PH and will not pass BKK when I return to Europe. I repeat: Zammy is safe. Thanks for posting to say that Bumblebee. Looking forward to your own TR on your return to TH. On the basis of your self-description above I now picture you instead as Thandiwe Newton with a big juicy cock. If so, you can smack me and stuff it down my throat 24-7. But first, give Quietguy the Full Marsha until he becomes Notsoquietguy... When I wrote "uglys, thickos and low-income" I was not picturing any BM here so please don't anyone feel contemplated by my blunt choice of words. I could go back and redraft it softer but I can't change the fact that it was already twice quoted in subsequent posts... And now I will use this post to provide a quick update on my current trip status. I am currently in The Visayas' Panglao Island off the bigger Bohol Island where the famous "Chocolate Hills" are located. I am staying with a Manila sissy-ex, so I am not free to pick up any of the sissies and GGs I come across hustling on the beach front, some quite young and attractive. Some are clearly pros, others less so. Unfortunately none to be mobilized into group sex as the EX will not go along. But we are having a great, romantic trip. Tomorrow we return to Manila and the day after tomorrow I return to Europe...
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  12. Trevor interviews Dave from Canterbury Tales, great stories from a great guy, really looking forward to seeing him again next month
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  14. nevertheless... how many cowboy killers are well known? just the regular ones really.. Billy the kid, Jesse James etc, i.e the ones that Hollywood got hold of. Check out JWH... he makes them all look like amateurs
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  16. At least something hasn’t changed much. Yea it might well have been that summer, as it was the only time I have ever been in Pattaya in May and June. Time to relive the good times again shortly now ;)
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  17. Those videos are still playing! It honestly feels exactly as it did during my first trip to Patts. The pic of the tables above is your spot, and where you and I first met. I believe that was summer of 2014.
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  18. Excellent, although I don’t think I spent as much time in it last trip as I used to do. This sorta ties in with the music tread as they tended to play good sounds from our era:) Roll on November…
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  19. I hate it when that happens. Do tell us what you did not like. Is this book available on kindle?
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  20. Absolutely not, man these remind me of my teenage years hoping something good would come on the radio. I’d always know when the oldies shows would be on and arrange my free time around them. Then came along the Walkman, mind blowing. Literally taking it to the streets :)
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  21. Nice. Just added to my list. Can’t leave out the Doobie Brothers.
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  22. A lot of my Spotify play list is top heavy 70s also. Those sounds bring me back to my childhood and hanging out on the beach with neighbours in the summers of the mid to late 70s. How about a bit of Player :)
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  23. Excellent tune. Reminds me of happier, younger and simpler days. I’m on a real 70s binge lately.
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  24. Absolutely, nice nice choice there Syl, and another from JB I always turned up whenever it came on the radio over the years.
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  25. Good one, bumblebee. How ‘bout some Jackson Browne?
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  26. A popular entertainment venue, CLUB ONE Pattaya, was raided in the early hours of this morning, October 23rd. A number of drugs were found and confiscated while roughly 200 Thai and foreign customers escaped. The raid began at around 3:00 AM. on Sunday by officials from Pattaya City Police Station, Chonburi, and Region 2 police. Upon arrival, a number of tourists, estimated to be around 200, were found dancing and drinking. The authorities then ordered an employee to turn off the music and a drug examination on all customers. But while the officers were examining, one male customer began shouting and refusing to be inspected. Then, chaos began when hundreds of tourists tried to push through the guards’ defense lines and fled from the scene to escape the inspection. Due to less officials than customers, most tourists managed to slip away.
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  27. Sorry got sidetracked with my little side adventure to Pattaya, will get back by late today
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  28. The brightest after Sirius is Vega (Sorry, I'm wrong. Vega is the brightest after Arcturus that is the brightest in teh northern hemisphere). At the romantime, Sirius was called the small dog by Egyptian people. In ancient Egypt the arrival of the star Sirius warned of the annual flooding of the Nile. That was also a hot season that which resulted in the melting of snow in Kilimanjaro. The small dog, canicula in latine gave the word "canicula" for a heat wave in many European languages.
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  29. I am surprised to read such a paragraph in a TR. We live in the 21st century's 3rd decade . Modern banking has reached Asian countries, not only Thailand that is one of the most advanced but also Vietnam that has still the reputation of a 3rd world country and Cambodia. I use my credit/debit card for banking during my travel. Exchange offices ? This belongs to the last century when people used travellers checks and had to make paerwork to get local money. You will seldom if not never read a post of mine dealing with banking in a ladyboy country (unless it's really sh... in the country).
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  30. Big Surprise The next day started with a walk around the block and did a bit of shopping while trying to hunt on the go, started chatting with a cute femboy by the name of Kendy on the web but after yesterday's mistake i decided to do a quick video call with her to minimize my risk of failure. The Prof and i spoken over the phone and decided that if i found someone cool to hangout will head over to his area later on the evening. i made arrangements for Kendy to come over to the hotel in the late afternoon and see how the test run goes, she turn up and looking just like her profile pic. We had a little dress up and to which became a full on session which i needed after yesterday's no action. Very fast she cemented her place in the bed for the rest of the evening. From her social media The actual person We went to Cowboy Grill and got there just before 8pm, the place was half packed but the music was unusually loud, we had to move to the back of the hall and quickly had our dinner before moving to the next activity which is a Philippines all time favorite Karaoke. the initial idea was to spent an hour singing and later head to the club but that did not happen, we had a great time singing and just having fun. The night ended with us going back to the room for Round 2 as i had to leave for AC the following morning.
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  31. Congratulations Rom for this TR. I'm afraid it's going to become impossible to be a legend in the future with such a trip and trip report. You've provided updates on the scenes both in Pattaya and Bangkok. You've provided post-covid updated information including bars that remain open and barfine prices. You've also unveiled the existence of another kind of scene that most ladyboy mongers ignored. I agree 100% with your vision of the future. May I remind that I was banned from PY in 2016after posting a TR demonstrating that bars gradually become useless to ladyboys mongers. I had also explained -before Covid- in a local forum that there seemed to be a crisis in bars in BKK. You measured the results for a month. I had already considered that Patpong was no longer interesting (end of 2016) and you confirmed this area's declining. In 2019, I had posted in the Canuk forum a rethoric and longish post dealing with mongers4G. To make it short, I explained that the hippie generation mongers gathered in bars to share information, then used forums in internet becoming "mongers2.0" (as journalists say). I also stressed that many "mongers2.0" were still linked to the bar system that is about to collapse. But mongers2.0 are already old fashioned since mongers4G will replace them. You believe that ugly, thickos and low-income sexpat won't be able to do it any longer. I believe those who will use 4G apps to organize their dating will be able to do it. Apps ar enow ready in Thailand : Wechat and Thaifriendly, Line and Tinder to a lesser extent. (Documented in a TR posted in 2017). Of course, there will always be opportunities for a madman ready to spend 3,000 THB in a nightclub. PS: I will post another comment about exchanging foreign currency bills but that'll be only a detail. Last but not least, I am planning to update next year datas dealing with bars and prices both in Pattaya and BKK. My goal is to gather useful information for newbies. I will do it next year since I will be busy by my own trip at the end of this year. Have a nice trip in the Philippines and come back safe.
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  32. Next day, had a work breakfast with a work colleague and he was very interested at where i was staying but i am not giving that away. At the same time texting The Prof whom is staying at the other side of town and we agreed to meet later at the famous LA cafe and he would show me around the block, took a Grab taxi that cost me about 350 Pesos (like grab for the safety and no need for haggling). As i walked in, the seedy-ness of LA Cafe really pulled me in quite quickly and there were about 10 - 15 ladies scattered all around giving me smiles and winks. I spotted The Prof quite quickly and walked over, what really stands out is his interesting choice of T-Shirt which i am very keen to get a photo of. He gave me a brief introduction of the area and LA Cafe, as we met in the early afternoon, the action was on the light side and as the afternoon progresses more and more FL ladies turned up. We had some food and exchanged our adventures which later became a daily occurrence which became something i look forward to. As the Prof has company back in the room we decided to meet up again in Burgos area and we would each bring a company and hit some bars. The first mistake of the trip happened, and i guess is the risk of the online game. As Covid happened many LB look nothing like their photos. I was chatting with her on Pinalove and later on Whatsapp, she agreed to come over and i thought if she is fun enough i would have her around when i meet up with The Prof and his company. I waited at the lobby as she told me that she is on her way, the moment i saw her i wish i could backout of the deal but decided to go ahead but she wasnt going to stay for the later activities. She tried to give me a happy ending "massage" and asked me every 5 - 10 seconds "Are you enjoy?". Gave her the agreed price within 20 minutes of her walking through the door. Photo from her social media The actual person Lesson learnt and went to meet up with The Prof later on at a Cuban theme restro-bar with live band, we had some Mexican and Filipino food. Later on we moved to a sports bar where i picked up a casino card dealer (looks like i ended the night with a better hand than i started) and The Prof left earlier as they were staying at the other side of town.
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  33. Definitely older than the bike
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  34. ....and with a 24 yr old photo too most likely!
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  35. Fah (from Bangkok) pretends to be 50 years old.
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  36. Thanks for the clarification The-Sith. I take it you did not score Bobo back in the day... Oh well! No monger has a perfect score... I take Pdoggg's post above as a go-ahead to start the threadfucking with pics of Bobo. If not, pls move my posts here to the Romscars Club where I may develop a thread about her and Venus Fly Trap with personal anecdotes and pics from my own stash. For now, here are some official pics of Venus Fly Trap. The band's concept was like a Spice Girls with ladyboys and 5 were initially selected from hundreds of applicants. Bobo was as good a singer as she was a fuck and was the lead, as you can see in the first picture. At some point, they kicked out 2 of the ladyboys to make a TV contest to recruit another 2, and that's where Bell came in. The contest was rigged to have her win it and she immediately took the spotlight from the other ladyboys and the cat-fighting became so unbearable the band sort of fizzled while Bell launched her own very successful showbizz career with solo records and movie roles. I had first met Bobo through ICQ chat (anyone remembers?) and then we hooked up several times in Pattaya at 500 baht a pop, 1,000 LT standard rates and saw her again after she joined the band and went to a couple shows and partied with them. Then I met Bell once in BKK's Bed Club, but at that point she was way above my league. She flirted with me though, but her intention may have been to make Bobo loose face by scoring me on her date and that, as butterfly as I am, I could not do to Bobo... The original Venus Fly Trap cast with Bobo center stage... 2 kicked out to make way for Bell via a TV show... Looked on the internet for a group pic of the new band line-up with Bell and there is none to be found, including on the VFT Facebook page where they show only the original line-up. Likely Bell chose to distance herself from the other cat ladies...and vice-versa... Bell goes solo. Bye bye Venus Fly Trap PS: Nok the former Alcazar beauty queen kicked out of the band to make room for Bell started a rival ladyboy band that also did not last very long and has since become some sort of official in her home province:
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